all right everybody I figured it out I figured what's up with Kati Morton and
Shane Dawson what is up everybody this is Chris from the rewired soul when we
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Chris so I'm at vid summit in Los Angeles California
lunch was at 12:00 it's like a big YouTube event I will be doing a recap
when I get home this is some of the best I don't know I just can't explain it I
haven't had a great experience like this in a long time but anyways like I'm like
okay I gotta go you know watch the same video so I
literally took my box lunch and came to my car lunch walk hooked up the
Bluetooth watch shame on my thing like man I hustled that's just what I do I
hustle you gotta hustle with your mental health too alright but anyways I know a
lot of you you've been enjoying my Shane Dawson recap so I was like I gotta do
this I gotta do this alright so a big huge shout out to Zack Snyder
productions he's been editing my stuff and they're sending it to him one of the
coolest guys I've met in YouTube I've been linking him down in the
description if you are into nerd culture like comic book superhero movies video
games and stuff go check out his channel but he's just one of the best dudes I've
ever met I love this guy and I wish I could afford to pay him for all the
editing I wish you could do on my channel alright anyways anyways I'm
going to try to keep this short there's so much to talk about
so I'm gonna do three videos Zack there's the first one you're watching
but you're gonna do three videos so I took notes y'all know I love my notebook
so anyways and I'm gonna be glancing over because this is not my normal set
up but I want talk about Kati Morton's role in this
thing so some of you have seen my videos about Kati Morton so Katie Moines is a
licensed Marriage and Family Therapist one of Shane's friends and there's just
been so much controversy going on like I want to you know start off this video by
saying this I think now that were episode six like there was so much
controversy about sociopaths and everything like if you watch the videos
I did with my mom I think and I think this solidified it today that the whole
sociopath thing is out the window it's so out the window and I didn't I
can't it kind of bums me out because the way shame like makes so many episodes
like people couldn't see like the whole thing like this was just like an hour
and a half long like documentary people by the end of it would have calmed down
you know what I mean but because of the way that it's structured and released
like people had the opportunity the time to freak out about the whole sociopath
thing the things that Katie Lawrence said about icky and gross you know and
all that but I think that whole thing is out the window
Shane is starting to realize you don't have to pathologize everything some
people are just certain ways and all of that so that's what I think like that's
a mental health advocate i I don't think the sociopath thing like I think you
know one of my goals let's put it this way one of my goals is to increase
awareness and decrease the stigma Shane got to learn a lot about mental health
and the mental health culture that we have today through this experience of
making this documentary as well as through the experience of releasing the
documentary like he he has had two big experiences and like Shane is constantly
learning and constantly growing so I think this is really good for him and
for all of you out there like sometimes the backlash you get sometimes the
criticism you get it's only there to make you a stronger and better person
like I I'm very careful about the way I act those things I say and a lot of it's
because I screw up right there's no losses there's only learning experiences
you know so I think Shane has grown through this
so Katie Morton in this like she was exposed as a therapist to Erica now I
made a video about like is this ethical right is this ethical
now I I don't even know if I can give a final opinion on this maybe I need to
talk to my mom again but I don't know it seemed maybe Shane watch the video I did
about it but I don't think we're ever gonna know I don't think we're ever
going to know but in my opinion like where we see it now Shane and Katie
Katie is basically Shane's mental health friend okay like she's just a friend
like there's a clip and towards the beginning where they're in the car
they're talking about they went to Walmart and like he was just there like
and it was just a friend conversation and now that I look back to that episode
two with Kati Morton I'm like no wonder why she was so casual with her talking
like you guys I'll be straight up right now I will be straight up with all of
you if any of you heard all of the conversations I've had like those of you
who watch my live stream like you would know that I am not careful with my words
I say things that can be considered very offensive like so I get that I get like
I understand it from Katie now and I've made other videos about it like you guys
I'm I'll just say this I worked in mental health for some years now my mom
like she mentioned has been in in 20 years like well you guys saw Katie Moore
and say is nowhere near what people say like okay here's a great example like
what do you think happens in the the teacher break room like remember when
you're in elementary school and your teachers would go to the break room like
what do you think they were saying about you like what do you think they were
saying about the kids in your class what do you think they were saying about you
being a pain in the butt you know what I mean like I don't know it's just weird
that we hold these people to such high standards they're people too you know I
have a lot of empathy I long I have a lot of patience like when I'm working
with clients one-on-one or in a group setting I've had people come cussed me
out all sorts of stuff and I get some love and compassion like in their face
but that doesn't mean I don't go home to my girlfriend and say yo there's this
kid in my treatment center right now and he is a pain in the bud like sorry guys
welcome to the real world we do this stuff like I'm sure firefighters who
save you from a bullet burning building like I saved your life it might be like
man that dude I saved me was I kick in like
a weird you know what I mean like I don't know so I just hope everybody's
calm down at this point but Katie I can really relate to Katie because in my
circle like I don't know like in my circle I've become this mental health
guy right it's what I do like you guys all come to my channel you know mental
health and all of that but like my friends who have known me for years and
they saw me you know get clean and sober they saw me improving my mental health
they saw my life getting better like I am that person now like I'm the person
that people turn to so I didn't see Katie so much as a therapist as just a
friend that could offer clarity to Shane and that's just my experience like I
like a lot of people come to me with that same stuff they asked me questions
how should i how should I handle this how should i word this what do you think
you know what I mean so she like I loved that Katie see that's another thing and
like I know you gonna say like oh you're a Katie Stan I don't care like when a
when a therapist goes above and beyond and tries to understand the brain
science and stuff I love that because I'm a huge neuroscience nerd
so when Katie was talking with Eric after she exposed she was a therapist
and talked about the brain science of like how you gotta separate like your
work from your your your like living space and you know like like she
mentioned if you do a bunch of work in your bed it's gonna be hard to sleep
because your brain is associated that all right just I'm a fan of anybody who
is interested in brain science alright so if you like brain science I love you
okay but anyways hold on I'm looking at my
notes I don't know if that's gonna cut this out towards the end the ending of
this this is where I do have some criticism of Shane and Katie and again
my videos are for you my videos are for you okay I don't know it's just
interesting because in Episode two Katie kind of like brought to Shane's
attention that he's a fixer right that he's a fixer he wants to help people he
wants to fix people that's not a bad quality but what
can happen is is you get into a position of unsolicited advice which can make
people really upset but personal to you
so and this this is something that might have happened behind the scenes that we
don't know but like did Shane ask did Shane asked like yo Jake like do you
want me to help you get your life back on track or do you want me to help you
you know just as like your youtube mentor do you want me to share my
experience with you like my mom taught me that very long time ago like I used
to be the heute the biggest person like I would throw around unsolicited advice
all the time all the time and people would get pissed
it gets so mad like people get defensive like think about it like do you have
anybody where you're just giving them advice and they get mad yeah like we do
it attacks our pride it attacks our ego so like Katie like I don't know and
maybe she asked changed this on the side but like on camera like if it was me it
was me like when my friends come to me like that or even my clients come to me
like that the first question that I ask is like why do you feel that you need to
fix this situation why do you feel that you need to be involved in this
situation why do you feel that you need to give them this advice like we got to
ask ourselves that question like Shane is just now meeting Jake Paul he's
filming a documentary like what's he doing like coming in there like you know
like captain save a Jake you know what I mean like I hope I hope that makes sense
so I want you to kind of look at that in your life and saying why am I going
around trying to fix people trying to give advice is it working is it not
working but I will end with a positive note so I like that sandwich technique
you do positive criticism positive for all of you employers and managers out
there know the sandwich technique so I'm gonna end with a positive shame did a
good job asking Katie like how do you think I should approach this and that's
perfect so like if Shane's gonna do it anyways he might as well get somebody's
advice on like to do it the right way and Katie nailed
it okay Katie nailed it I remember somebody
left a nasty comment on my video a few weeks ago and they're like oh this guy
this guy is like the vegan of addicts he's got to tell everybody that he's an
addict in recovery no it's because what I learned is the way you the best way to
give people advice is to share your own experience so Katie was telling Shane
that the way he should approach Jake is by sharing his experiences saying I can
relate to that like if you're wondering why people go
to 12-step programs that's it the best way to receive advice is by somebody
sharing their own experience and you going oh wow well maybe if it worked for
them it can work for me and Shane has a ton
of experience so anyways that's my review social reaction for this thing I
want to I want to hear from all of you down in the comments below
oh okay two questions answer answer one of both okay what a both okay are you
somebody who gives unsolicited advice like is it a problem like let me know in
the comments or use somebody who gets defensive when you get unsolicited
advice like I hope you guys read the comments because like you can learn and
grow from other people's experiences and that's what I really hope people can do
with this channel alright anyways that's all I got for you right now
again thank you Zack Snyder from Zack Snyder productions for editing my stuff
while I'm out of town I just realized I'm shaking this camera a lot so I hope
you fixed it somehow someway but anyways that's all I got if you like this video
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