have you ever been on one of those toxic relationships where the other person
keeps hurting you over and over and over again but you quickly forget about all
of the terrible things they've done that's one of the main reasons why I'm
really concerned that Jake Paul is manipulating Shane Dawson what is up
everybody this is Chris from the rewired soul where we talk about the problem but
focus on the solution and if you're new to my channel my channel is all about
trying to help you improve your mental and emotional well-being so what I like
to do I like to pull things from the YouTube community or pop culture in
general and try to teach you how to improve your mental health
pretty much every Shane Dawson episode for this Jay Paul series so make sure
you subscribe and ring that notification view this video is for you so in this
video we're gonna be talking a lot about toxic relationships and I'm also gonna
dive into some brain science okay so before Shane started this series when he
liked a mouse even when it was rumored that he was going to be doing this
series on Jake Paul a lot a lot of his fans were worried that Shane was gonna
try to make us sympathize with Jake Paul
why do you have to hate somebody so so so much you know like it's just kind of
an interesting thing and as the series is going on we're learning more about
Jake Paul I can relate to shame in this kind of overly empathetic way well you
know it's not an excuse but like as I was driving wait a second wait a second
wait a second Jake Paul is still a pretty awful person like I was getting
sucked into this thing too so like the first thing I want to talk about is we
cannot forget we cannot forget about the nerd city video that came out about
right before this documentary series happen Jake Paul is a complicated
personality on the one hand Jake should be respected as an expert on
social media and as a wildly successful entrepreneur but on the other hand Jake
should be reviled for exploiting children as young as preschoolers Paul
is not a good person there's a few main points I want to touch on about this
because it's not being discussed at all so far in this documentary series from
Shane Dawson so the first one is is Jake Paul taking advantage of kids right when
it comes to making money off of them so nerd city I love that dude I love that
dude so much he did a ton of research and investigation so I'm not gonna quote
everything that he did video there's actually laws that are in place to
protect well yeah there are actually laws in place that say that they cannot
they cannot overly advertised to kids on children's shows okay so I forgot what
the exact percentages was but you couldn't put more than a certain amount
of advertisements in a kid show because kids will like go to their parents and
say and people selling it to the kids no they could take advantage of the kids in
that way so what nerd city did in this video he
showed like just a Jay Paul video and like the percentage of the amount of
advertising that Jake did in this video I think was about 50% which is
absolutely bananas that's 23 separate ad reads built into one video out of a 13
minute and 50 second video nearly seven minutes of that time is devoted to
advertising products 50% to remember that nerd City pointed
out that Jake Paul is very very aware of this he mentioned it in news interviews
that his primary audience is like 8 to 10 years old so he knows exactly what
he's doing unfortunately because of the way the
technology progresses there's no laws against this on YouTube
so the second thing that nurse City pointed out is the way that they hopped
on this trend Jay Paul and Tintin hop on this trend of scaring the bejesus out of
children children who have a very hard time separating reality from fiction and
they knew this so for those of you who don't know if you're like me and don't
follow Jake Paul what they did was they had killer clowns broke into the house
and kidnapped them and kids all around the world lost their freakin minds okay
sorry they beat him with the bat to death
wait I'm so mad right now knowing that your favorite youtuber might die it's
really sad this this is not cool okay just because I'm a big neuroscience nerd
and by the way this isn't the neuroscience thing I was going to talk
about but it just popped into my head but like this is way different than like
like Jimmy Kimmel or somebody doing like a prank I ate all my kids Halloween
candy this is much much much different all right
so even the thing that Logan Paul did where he pretended to die in front of
his kid fan base in the hotel room like these things are not cool they can even
be somewhat traumatic I'm not trying to like over exaggerate this name spread
this and went on for so long like these kids were experiencing a lot of stress
because they didn't know that it was fake all right now the next thing I want
to touch on is like and I can make an entire video about this but I'm kind of
sick and tired how people are painting Erika costell as this like Saint from what I've
seen today but also a lot of research or from when I moved from
other people that I trust you are kind of like the only allowed to say oh well
the only hope
of a normal life it's really funny cuz you're not the first person that says
anything like almighty savior and she's gonna save Jake Paul and everybody says
that she's so good for Jake like cut the crap Erika Costell is just as guilty as Jake Paul
is when it comes to this stuff because she participated in the killer clown
thing she knows exactly what Jake's doing when it comes to marketing the
children so wait it's not like she's like steering him on this nice like
altruistic amazing enlighten path or something like that let me know if you
would like me to do that so here's the thing when it comes to Shane Dawson I
don't know how the timeline matches up I don't know if Shane started this series
before or after the nerd City video came out I don't know if Shane Dawson saw it
I know for a fact Jake Paul saw it because the video like
over half a million views but anyways like so I don't necessarily
fault shame for this but I think it's important for all of us me and you to
realize that Jake is still doing this Jake is still doing bad things
all right my girlfriend and I had the stomach the last Jake Paul video because
somebody said hey Jake Paul made a video about you know Alyssa and then being
interviewed by Shane Dawson and we watched it by the way to save you some
time like the first like 10 minutes or something like the first 75% as a vlog
and then he jumps into the Alissa thing so we just skip forward to that part
but anyways at the beginning and end of that video he shoves his merch in this
sale they have the fan appreciation sale he shoves it down people's throat with
his awful merchandise so today is a day of merch $10 t-shirts $20 sweatshirts
and $10
so again like this is important for all of you like I mentioned in the intro
this is something that we all need to be aware of like we forget about the
terrible things that people have done and don't get me wrong those of you who
know me I'm a huge huge huge advocate for forgiveness and believing that
people grow that people change like I am living proof of it used to be an awful
person in my drug and alcohol addiction and I have changed I did a complete 180
like it's important to realize who's changing who's trying to change and who
is it doing crap right Jake Paul is literally doing nothing okay so he's
still that person and I think Shane might be forgetting that or he wasn't
fully aware of all those things and this is why Jake might be manipulating Shane
but the other two things I wanted to note real quick is we don't know and
I've seen a lot of your comments but we don't know about the physical assault
accusations against Alyssa alright we don't know for sure but like what we do
know for sure are the things that have been caught on camera and something that
hasn't been addressed yet which I don't know if Alyssa will talk about it was it
was on camera Jake Paul spitting in Alyssa pilots face
so I think it's important that we remember that and then to call back to
the Nick crompton episode we also need to remember that even if the Martinez
twins are lying about the bullying and all that stuff like we can't forget that
we have video evidence of Jake Paul saying racial slurs to these two men
alright so like let's like let's not forget these things so like I just kind
of wanted to talk about that when it comes to are we starting to over
sympathize with Jake Paul is Shane painting him in a good light but like
here's here's the thing that my my wonderful girlfriend and I were talking
about yesterday is that Shane is in a really tricky position alright because
he's he's trying to make sure that Jake is on board with everything oh that and
we know for a fact that Jake is having Shane cut certain things out so Mike
about that is shame getting some backlash because Jake is having him cut
certain things out like imagine this like you know if you had an
investigative journalist like going to like expose some company for doing
something terrible but the company was allowed to tell them hey by the way
don't mention all these bad terrible things that would make me look bad you
know what I mean so I'm worried that Jake is having Shane cut out these
things that would really like expose Jake Paul for the not-so-great person
that he is so but here's the thing like I do cut Shane some slack like Shane is
in very very new territory he is being like a frontiersman when it comes to
what he's doing on YouTube but no matter what the case is like I always say there
are no losses there are only learning experiences so that's what's happening
and Shane get some pushback about that I hope he grows before he does his next
series of learns from this so the last part I wanted to discuss awesome comment
from one of you beautiful subscribers out there and this subscriber is Rafaela
so she says also since you mentioned you have fellow neuroscience nerd defensive
Jake that I haven't seen anyone talk about he's 21 years old the prefrontal
cortex which is responsible for among other things logic decision-making
initiative planning etc fully matures around the ages of 23 to 26 depending on
which journal you trust I know many would argue that the epithalamus
is the powerhouse of the brain the 4s fighting fleeing feeding mating but in
my opinion the PFC and the hippocampus are the true powerhouses of the brain I
can literally go on and on about this for hours
girl so can i and I agree prefrontal cortex hippocampus amygdala - all right
so then she says does that justify the dumb stuff he did no does that justify
failure to take responsibility for one's actions
again no however his PFC is still developing the dude just needs more time
to grow as a person and build character while his PFC fully matures those
two cents love your videos thank you what viella
science nerds this is a good point so I've said it in other videos like that
when I was a much smaller Channel I've mentioned it like kids are dumb young
people are dumb like that's no offense it's just like like what PLO was saying
it's just the way the brain develops through the prefrontal cortex I talked
about this a lot this is the part of the brain that separates us from the animals
and it doesn't fully mature until your 20s or early 30s oh my crappy Allah said
it depends on which scientific journal you look at so I've seen some that say
you know what she's saying but like I did want to point this out some journals
say that the prefrontal cortex fully matures in females around by 25 to 28
years old and for men is closer to early 30s so keep that in mind real quick
alright anyways yes the prefrontal cortex is responsible for all of the
things that help make us good people so it's responsible for logical decision
making impulse control fear modulation also self-awareness is dr. dan Siegel
and we had some great books about this but he has like the nine core functions
of the prefrontal cortex I'll try to link that down in the description as
well but anyways we have to understand that Jake's brain is still fully
development developing and what you need to realize is when you realize what the
prefrontal cortex does it explains a lot of his behaviors okay now something that
my mom mentioned in one of the videos that I did with her is the way his
morality and his maturity is kind of stunted right so he may not fully
develop that prefrontal cortex and all of its abilities until even later than
in life you know what I mean so again this is an excuse like the thing is is
that people in Jake's life need to point these things out to him not enable them
and separate themselves from them again I just want to call back to the whole
Erica thing is this perfect angel that people are trying to paint her out to be
right now you know what I mean but anyways that's what I got
I want to hear from all of you down in the comments below can you relate to
what I was talking about like being in a toxic relationship whether it's with a
significant other or a family member where they keep doing bad things over
and over to hurt you but then you like you forget about all the right when they
forget how terrible they let the last drunk or drunk high was who was it that
bad but a lot of us do that with people too so if you can relate to that make
sure you let me know down in the comments below all right anyways that's
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