Thứ Hai, 18 tháng 2, 2019

Waching daily Feb 18 2019

Hey, what's up my friend. Kris Krohn here. And today i'm going to be talking about the

secret of wealth and happiness. Is there a secret? And if there is, what is it?

Can I shave a decade or 2 off of your life experience? I think in this short

video, I can. You know, we talked about where happiness comes from. And let's be

honest. If you take a look at what people spend money on and if you take a look at

where people's time commitment is and their calendar, that pretty much tells

you where people's priorities are in life. And right now, for most of us, we're

so busy trying to get ahead. Some of us are playing the game of keeping up with

the Joneses. Some of us don't want to admit it but it's actually kind of true.

And there's this hope and this idea that if I have money

and I have a nicer house or I have more travel or if I have nicer cars, will that

bring me the happiness? Today, I want to share a little bit of my personal

journey of what I've learned about wealth and what I've learned about

happiness. And I believe I can help you learn how to be a heck of a lot happier

today than you might actually be. So, listen up. School is in session.

So, I had an experience where when I was poor financially... And I knew that I was

going to make it through a real estate and I'd done my first deal, I knew that I

needed more deals to get me where I wanted to be. And my... At the time, I

was really driven by feeling like it was the world against me. College wasn't

going to give me the degree that I wanted. They said I was too stupid to get the

right grade in the sciences. My mother in law is going to kill me if I don't get a

degree. My wife and I are just trying to figure out how to be happy and figure

out life and and what its meaning is for us. And I really felt lost. I wanted to

get where I wanted to be a lot faster. I wanted to be free and I thought if I was

free from a job, I'm going to be a lot happier.

So, something weird happened when I fast forward 4 and a half years. I bought

my 25th home. I had a residual income of $12,000 a month. I woke up that morning I

asked my wife, "Is today the day?" And don't get me wrong, I was thrilled. I was so

excited. I was driving a BMW convertible at the time. And my wife and I were

building this big honking mansion of a house. And dude, I was just I was floored

at the idea of walking into my boss's office and firing him. In a nice, polite

way. They had been good to me but I was done. When I actually quit, it was

seriously one of the happiest moments in my life. And I don't want to take that away from

me, I don't want to take that away from you. But the next day, I woke up feeling

not very different and saying, "Now what?" And that shocked me. Having more money

didn't actually change as much as I thought that it would. Few months later, I

was on a beach in Jamaica. Small little island called Kokomo, with my wife.

We were celebrating being retired. It sounds really weird. But 27 years old

don't need to have a job anymore. Living life on my terms. And something was still

itching inside. Something was still missing. Money had actually not brought

what I thought that it would. It was true now that my behaviors were different. I

didn't have to show up at a job. But I was really surprised. And I wouldn't

figure out the answer all the way for years when I went on a humanitarian trip

with my family to Africa. We had stockpile a whole pile of money. And we

had gone to Africa to do... We were going to help build an orphanage and we were

doing a clean water project. And we were out there and we are having all

of these really amazing moments. I was with this one family, this woman and

their culture they've been taught not to show their emotions. This woman had been

widowed. She had I think 7 kids. And we brought her a cow. And in this part of

the world, a cow was a business. A cow was food, a cow was milk, a cow will put your

kids through school because the only option is a paid education. And when we gave her

this cow, she had this just stone brick face and the tears were streaming. But

she was trying so hard not to cry. And I was just trying to understand what's the

meaning of this. And then the next day, we went over to the school to bring them a

bunch of school supplies. And after we had finished like giving him all these

donations and building planting trees and giving him school supplies and

everything that they needed, this little black boy came out and he presented me

with a gift. It was um... Well, I've got it. Let me show you. This uh... This little boy

presented me with a ball that he had made. This ball is made from recycled or

just grocery bags, I guess. And this plastic twine that's just kind of

wrapping it all together. And he gave this to me as a ball that I could play

with. And I had my family with me, I had some of my friends that had helped me

put this whole project together. And then the master of the school came up to me

and he said this, he said, "What we lack in resource, we make up for in creativity."

I'll tell you something. Spending weeks with the poorest people on the planet, I

never saw so many happy people. People, we happier than we are here in the States.

People that were content, people that find joy where they can find joy. They

don't derive meaning the way we do from achievement per se or from having things.

It's just such a different way of life that they have there from where we have

here. Let me talk about this conversation of what makes happy. Friend, I want to

tell you something. Buying this multi-million dollar house? It brings me

a lot of joy. I mean I've got the most magical view out that window of the

whole Valley. And it and a bed when all my windows are turned to the... Turn of the

city and I see it light up at night. I'm inspired, I feel calm, I love the energy

of this place. It's it's magical to me. And it costs money for this. Or I Drive a

really, really, really, really, nice car. And when the tops down and I'm just speeding,

I love that feeling of just the wind in my hair. And I feel... I feel free. This is

what I want to share with you. The meaning of life it isn't about what we

have. It's about how we feel. And that's what took me so long to figure out. I

mean, I made millions of dollars of real estate. I'm building more wealth than

I've ever had before. But what impact is that really having on my feelings? This

is where life comes down to the art of fulfillment. And fulfillment comes down

to meaning. What is the meaning in your life? I'm going to tell you right now, I can

look back on my journey with my wife. When I was poor, when I had no money, when

I was struggling and I felt beat down. I felt like no one supported

me. The reality is I had some amazing happy moments in my life at that

time. And in Africa had amazing happy moments. And being wealthy? Amazing, happy

moments. Doing charitable work every month with my wife in our foundation?

Brings me happiness. You know the weird thing is? The opportunity for happiness

was always abounding. It was always available.

I find it with raising my children during some of the moments. I find it

doing really simple things. I find it in yoga or I find it and working out at the

gym or praying and meditating. I'm amazed. I really thought that all this

money would change so much. And in the end, all it was going to do is magnify my

soul. So friend, listen. If you want to be in the journey of creating wealth with

me, awesome. Let's do it. Because I think that there's a yearning

inside to meet our potential and when we live beneath it. We feel like we're

missing out. And I think we are. I feel like the purpose this life everyone's

trying to figure out what that is. For me, it's growth. When I am growing, I'm happy.

And when I'm happy I feel fulfilled. I guess if I could take this whole

conversation all over the place and hone it into one way for you

is... For me, happiness comes down to feeling. And I'm responsible for my

feelings. I'm responsible for all my emotions. I can't believe I used to make

myself as sad as I used to be or to feel as bad as I used to feel. Or feel shame

or guilt about this. When the reality is every opportunity, there's negativity

abounding. There's an equal opportunity for happiness. Do you have the ability to

find it? If you want to build wealth with me, I'm going to tell you this. The person

that knows how to control their feelings and their emotions and learn how to be

happy now, regardless of when or how they build wealth, that's a person that has

the ability to have the real wealth of life now. For what really is wealth? It's

not money. If you need a thing outside of you to make you happy, then you're lost.

But you can find yourself again. In the next 5 minutes, I want to challenge

you when this video is over to just pause. And find something real simple in

your life that can bring you joy, happiness or peace. It's your life. Those

emotions are your choice. And you know what?

It's true. Having money opens more opportunities, more doorways and my

favorite thing to do with money has been the experiences that I've been able to

afford. I've been able to travel to 40 different countries. I'm on my journey

with my wife's I've hid in 100 different countries. I want to see the

whole world. But with this money, there's a stewardship there where I get to do so

many cool amazing things. And I'm just telling you, you don't have to have money

to feel that way now. Some of us are saying, "Kris, I want to do charity work

like you. I want to be rich so I can give more." I'm telling you right now, you don't

have to wait to be rich. You don't... A massive gift is not more meaningful than

a small gift. Every one of us has a way to give back today. Everyone has... Every

one of us today has the ability. You and I, to make an impact and make a

difference in someone's life. I guess if you really want to be happy, yeah, you can

click the link below. You can get with me in my team. I'll show you how I

technically build wealth. And it's... Dude, it's just text. Look, it's awesome. I'll

mentor you, I'll work with you. I'll show you how to do it. But don't do it hoping

that it will make you happier. The happiness you're looking for is

available right now and it's just one choice away. So, make that choice right

now. And start living your life today as if you were a billionaire. Because your

feelings it doesn't have to be any different. But I do believe that happier

people get more, have more, do more and experience more. So, the real wealth?

Happiness, joy, meaning, fulfillment. That's something that we have all of us within

our grasp right now. Thanks for watching the video guys. Appreciate you so much.

Thanks for allowing me to get vulnerable and just share some of my personal

feelings on something. Where I see so many people lost. Lost sheep trying to

find their way thinking that money will do something. You don't have to wait decades to

figure out that the wealth you're looking for truly is available now.

There's so many poor people that that's how they died. And they live a fantastic

great life. And I know a lot of rich people that die miserable.

So, it really has nothing to do with what you got. And if you're in the pursuit of

trying to figure out how do I elevate my life standards, my lifestyle, if you'd

like to have more opportunities to travel around the world or to give more

then you got to get a handle on money and finance. And I can help you with that.

So, click the link. Get with me and my team. We'll help you on that journey too.

For more infomation >> The Secret To Wealth And Happiness - Duration: 11:33.

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C4ncer Killah - Niña Bella (Sin Ti Album Oficial) - Duration: 2:33.

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Legal challenges add to Councils' governance risks - says NAO - Duration: 1:51.

We think that National Audit Office reports are really important and this

particularly so. It concerns local government and it challenges us on the

accountability of councils as they take the really tough decisions trying to

square the circle and trying to accommodate the huge expenditure

reductions in areas like Children Services and adult social care. It

particularly highlights how vulnerable councils are to legal and political and

indeed, media challenges as they take these very difficult decisions. In the

words of the National Audit Office...... "Decisions on savings are being

challenged by local groups and service users. This places a premium on

ensuring that the decision-making and consultation processes are sufficiently

robust to survive potential legal challenges". Ever since the Bristol

special educational needs judicial review last summer, the Institute has

been providing advice and guidance to a lot of its members. Specifically on

engagement and consultation for council budgets. It is a complex subject but we

know what best practice requires and for the next budget cycle starting in the

coming weeks, we've produced a workshop that we think will be really useful for

both elected members and councillors. We've spent the time analyzing the

judgments and know the best practice requirements. You can learn from others

mistakes, ask us questions, and feel confident going into your next budget

consultation. Call me if you think this might be useful. Now you may find it

useful to read the National Audit Office report in full. We certainly take it very seriously.

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Блинный торт с шоколадной глазурью - Duration: 5:07.

Hello everyone! With you Priprava Club, my name is Anasastia

Today, I propose to cook a delicious pancake cake

For pancakes: • 5 glasses of milk; • 3.5 cups flour; • 4 eggs; • 100 g of sugar; • 25 g cocoa powder; • 30 g butter or vegetable oil.

For cream: • 450 g of cottage cheese; • 150 g sour cream; • 15 g of gelatin; • 100 ml of water; • 100 g sugar.

For chocolate coating: • 2 tbsp. cocoa powder; • 30 g butter; • 5 tbsp. sour cream; • 2 tbsp. sugar.

Beat the eggs in a bowl, add sugar. Whip

Sugar should be dissolved

Pour milk into a separate bowl.

Add egg mixture and whisk

Add some cocoa

Sift the flour in small portions into the dough.

Melt the butter, add to the dough and mix

The dough is not too thick and not too liquid.

For the cake, you can use any recipe for pancakes that you like.

Pour some dough into the pan and fry the pancake

It is important that the pan be heated up.

I grease the pan with oil just before the first pancake

Bake pancakes for 30-40 seconds on each side on medium heat

Pancakes are ready

Now prepare the cream

Pour gelatin with water, mix and leave to swell.

Add sugar to the curd

and sour cream

Beat until smooth.

Gelatin swell

Dissolve gelatin in the microwave or in a water bath. Do not bring it to a boil

Pour gelatin into curd mass and mix

Put the cream in the fridge for 20 minutes

The cream has become more dense, now we will lubricate pancakes

Put the first pancake on a plate

Lubricate it with cream

For each layer I use 2 tablespoons of cream

Put the next pancake, lubricate it with cream. Thus we form a cake

The last pancake is not smeared with cream

Glaze is cooked very simply

Mix sour cream, sugar and cocoa

Add butter

Put the mixture in a water bath. Boil, stirring until smooth.

Allow the glaze to cool slightly and grease the top and sides of the cake.

Put the cake in the fridge for a few hours.

It remains to cut the cake into portions and serve.

Enjoy your meal!

For more infomation >> Блинный торт с шоколадной глазурью - Duration: 5:07.

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crochet doll bed ( English subtitles ) part (1) طريقة عمل سرير كروشية للعروسة جزء اول - Duration: 33:56.

Hello my dear followers , In this video we 'll know how to crochet this small bed for our doll .

I made for her a small blanket and a pillow will be in another video ,

This tutorial has three parts , the 1 st is about it's body , the 2nd deals with hoodie and the last part is about doll's blanket and pillow

If you want to crochet smaller sizes you should use smaller sizes of both yarn and hook .

this bed is not only a doll bed but also a small purse you can use .

you can pull these hands to tight

also you can decorate it with any shape of embroidery or appliques .

hello dears , we will use cotton yarn and 2mm crochet hook

you can use different sizes of yarn and hooks to get different sizes of your doll's bed

crochet a chain until you reach 15 cm

you can use any stitch you want ( sc , hdc , or dc ) I will use dc to make my bed bigger .

put dc in the 3rd chain from hook

dc in each stitch across , 3 dc in the last

on the other side put dc in each space between previous stitches as shown

at last stitch put dc on the space and 2 dc in the loop beside , sls in the top of chain

ch 3 , dc in each stitch , 2 dc at the top stitch , dc in each across , 2 dc at the last stitch , sls at the top of chain

ch 3 , dc in each stitch across , sls at the top of ch , for many rows .

I worked until reached 9 cm length and 20 cm wide

ch 3 , 2 dc in the same chain stitch , 3 dc in each stitch across , sls at the top of chain.

ch 3 , dc in each stitch across , sls at the top of chain , for many rows until reach 9 cm length

I worked many rows until I have 9 cm and changed my yarn at the last 2 rows

now crochet bed's hands

I 'll use two colours making a chain until reach 1 meter long

I made 2 hands , 1 meter long each . and will attach them to our purse as shown .

you can use these hands to tight your purse

put your bed's body in a good shape as you wish ,

Thanks , meeting you very soon after 2 days from now with Allah willing and the 2nd part .

For more infomation >> crochet doll bed ( English subtitles ) part (1) طريقة عمل سرير كروشية للعروسة جزء اول - Duration: 33:56.

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DUOカスタムいきます Withいちご - Duration: 1:40:45.

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বিএনপি রাজনৈতিক দল নয় নাসিম জাতীয় ঐকফ্রন্টের গণশুনানি কোথায়? নির্বাচনী ট্রাইবুনালে মামলার ভবিষ্যৎ কী - Duration: 5:29.

ঢাকা উত্তরের মেয়র উপনির্বাচন/ গাড়ি নেই আতিকুলের বাড়ি নেই ববি হাজ্জাজের DNCC Election-2019 https://youtu.be/Mpntw6_ou_Q

বউ নিয়ে শঙ্কিত বিবাহিতরা/নৈতিক অবক্ষয়ের চরমশিখরে সামাজিক অবস্থা/শিশু প্রতিবন্ধী গৃহবধূ টার্গেট https://youtu.be/c_VGLeriCiE

For more infomation >> বিএনপি রাজনৈতিক দল নয় নাসিম জাতীয় ঐকফ্রন্টের গণশুনানি কোথায়? নির্বাচনী ট্রাইবুনালে মামলার ভবিষ্যৎ কী - Duration: 5:29.

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Starlight Express. With Avid VENUE | S6L and d&b Soundscape - Duration: 6:55.

In May 2018, we started on the full reorganization of our theater.

So, it was essential to devise new sound scenes

and replace almost all the equipment.

So, through our licensor, we contacted a team headed by sound designer Gareth Owen

who then created a technical sound concept for our show.

We introduced the concept from May 14 on.

Among other things, it involved replacing the miking, transmission and receiver systems for sound

and, of course, we replaced the old mixing desk with this awesome new Avid desk.

We replaced all the amps and even the whole sound reinforcement system.

We had only new equipment also for sound.

This is an all d&b system. We now work with Soundscape.

It's not a stereo system – in other words, all flying loudspeakers run on the Soundscape system.

The entire system is based on the concept of making each instrument into a sound source,

which you can move freely in space.

Besides the sound reinforcement system for the artists, the Soundscape system

also controls all the loudspeakers you see here.

It means as in this typical scene

where everything is very central – that we visualize each single sound source in color.

For instance, green is for the 'vocal' sound sources – there are seven here.

The rest are instruments in the orchestra.

And you can move these sound sources freely in space.

You can make passes with programs and control them by programming in time codes.

Of course, things get interesting when sound sources start moving as programmed in the time code.

With some scenes in the show, we often try to position the sound where the artist is moving.

For instance, there's a scene where Rusty runs along the entire track

– as here, where he runs over the top track – and Soundscape follows him.

To be honest, it's the artist that follows Soundscape.

We have to start at a specific point and the artist must practice to follow the sound source.

He can't simply move slower or faster, otherwise it wouldn't work.

We also use this technique to distribute instruments in space in various scenes.

We don't speak of a stereo system – it's a Soundscape system.

We try to make the show and the pieces even more interesting by backing up the music with the system.

The central control unit in the system is the Avid desk.

We control everything from this QLab system and everything is redundant here.

So there's always a switchable backup at all times.

Of course, both the computer view and the audio can be switched hitless.

The QLab system has about 232 cues comprising 3900 cue components.

We split them up into 'vocal' and 'band' cues.

They are always separate so that we don't have to keep on changing everything.

The Soundscape commands are also output to call up the scenes.

I was impressed by the complexity of the whole thing.

We are the control center, not only for audio but also for the lighting technicians.

We generate the time code that is then forwarded to the lighting desk to control the video projections.

And that's where heaps of things happen.

Basically, I use this desk during the show like any other live sound engineer uses this desk.

The artists on stage are not always the same, so I have to make modifications from time to time.

Depending on how the sound designer or the musical director wants to have it.

More in the surround or less.

And that involves all the instrument groups.

So, including all the singers, we have a total of just under 170 inputs

that we have to process together well and send through reverb engines, and so on.

And this also includes only 24 radio mikes and 2 hand mikes.

The rest is orchestra and other inputs.

The decision to opt for the Avid desk was based on two reasons.

First, the team and Gareth Owens use Avid exclusively since it is extremely flexible

and can integrate Pro Tools, which we can also use.

Keyword, 'virtual sound check' – in other words, recording shows and playing them back

either as an interface or as a virtual sound check.

This is very useful, and that also goes for training new colleagues on the mixing desk

without having to pester the orchestra continuously.

Plug-ins are of course vital here, but more from the aspect of sound design.

We have a bunch of plug-ins in the 'vocal' groups,

so everything that goes to the Soundscape cosmos is processed, of course.

After 4 months working shows with the new system, I'd say I'm totally in favor.

I feel very good with it.

I must admit, though, it was a challenge for me at the start,

especially the complex interaction with the other departments.

But I can only say good things about it: I feel good.

So far, nothing has happened that I couldn't deal with.

Avid VENUE|S6L and d&b Soundscape for the new STARLIGHT EXPRESS musical theatre

For more infomation >> Starlight Express. With Avid VENUE | S6L and d&b Soundscape - Duration: 6:55.

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Лига чемпионов Атлетико - Ювентус, Шальке - Манчестер Сити прогноз на футбол лч 2019 - Duration: 3:25.

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He's addicted to games. He hasn't come home. [Hello Counselor/ENG, THA/2019.02.18] - Duration: 24:45.

"A Tip-off about My Brother-in-law."

This brother-in-law has a job.

That's a relief.

(Oh my...)

(Everyone applauds upon hearing that)

They're applauding because he has a job.

Hello. I'm a woman in my 20s from Daegu.

I have an older sister who got married recently.

She doesn't look so good these days.

"Sis. What's wrong?"

Sigh...

"My husband didn't come home last night."

"What? He didn't come home again?

Is he having an affair?"

He would often stay out all night

or come home around midnight.

(Why is that?)

He's addicted to games.

It's because he's playing games.

Ring ring ring.

"It's weekend. What are you doing?"

"I'm eating by myself."

"You're by myself?

Where's your husband?"

"He hasn't come home from the internet cafe."

"What?"

Yes, my sister

eats by herself and does chores by herself.

Did she get married for this?

This is what frustrates me the most.

"How can your husband do this?

Talk to him about it."

"It's all right. It's all because of me.

He's not a bad person."

My sister says that she's okay

even though she's frowning all the time.

I'm so frustrated.

It's time for me to step up now.

Please stop my brother-in-law.

The first year of marriage is when

a couple fights a lot.

This sister sent in this concern,

but the couple may be okay with this issue.

Even if the sister is worried?

Other's can't really know what goes on at home.

Let's bring her out now. Please come out.

Eric, Seungyun, please escort her.

(Who's concerned about her brother-in-law?)

(Welcome dance)

(Hong Geumbi)

How much does your brother-in-law play games?

He plays games on computers and his phone.

He comes home from work at midnight.

He plays games until 4 a.m. and goes to sleep.

And about 2-3 times a week he stays out

all night to play games.

He lives at an internet cafe on weekends.

Why did you come instead of your sister?

I'm more frustrated with my sister.

She did try talking to him about this.

She cried, pleaded,

and yelled at him.

He said that he would change,

but he never did.

My sister has given up and

now she blames herself.

She says, "It's because I'm not good enough.

Playing games is how he reduces stress.

I just need to be patient and overlook it.

It's all because I'm not good enough."

Since she's blaming herself,

She waits alone, not eating. I feel bad for her.

That's why you decided to step up?

I talked to him a few weeks ago.

"Please come home early.

I will take out a loan

to buy you a really good computer at home.

Please come home and not go to internet cafes."

I begged him.

He apologized and said that he would change.

But he stayed out all night last week, too.

(No one can get through to him)

I'm curious because

your sister could've sent in her concern.

Did your sister ask you for help?

Hyunyi has this look on her face.

"This sister is a meddler."

It's not that.

They could like their current relationship.

We never know.

They both

ask me for help.

My sister asks me for help, saying it was too much.

What's so hard for the brother-in-law?

When she gets angry,

he doesn't understand why she's mad.

I tell him what could be upsetting for her.

I comfort my sister, saying that he must

be stressed and that's why he plays games.

I have to comfort them both.

You're stuck in the middle.

- That must be tough. / - That's tough on you.

It must be hard having them call you.

(It's tough for the sister)

They moved recently.

My sister called me on the moving day.

"Geumbi. Today is our moving day

and I can't reach my husband.

He went to an internet cafe last night."

On the moving day?

- "He never came home." / - That's serious.

I was on a date with my boyfriend.

I apologized to him and went to my sister.

My brother-in-law had arrived just minutes before

and that's when they started to pack.

Imagine how frustrated this sister must be.

Let's meet her brother-in-law now.

He looks like the handsome version of Kian84.

They do look similar.

Let's meet him.

Yes, I can see the resemblance.

Hello.

(Who's the one addicted to games?)

(They do look alike)

Can you put your lips together?

He looks like a handsome Kian84, doesn't he?

(An unexpected discovery)

Do you understand your sister-in-law's concern?

I know that I am addicted.

You do know.

When I get home from work,

since I can't play games at work,

I start playing in convenience stores or my car.

Unbelievable.

Then I fall asleep in my car.

Then night and the morning comes before I know it.

(That's serious)

What do you get out of this?

Why are you so addicted to games?

I don't smoke or drink.

There we go again.

Drink or smoke instead then.

Just drink and smoke.

It's a way of rewarding myself.

We call it, "Little joys in our lives."

I go out on Saturdays

and come home at night on Sundays.

You're at an internet cafe for 24 hours?

I fall asleep and wake up to play some more.

(Remember, he is a newlywed)

You dated your wife before you got married, right?

Yes.

I'm sure you went out to see her

instead of playing games when you were dating.

Playing games wasn't that important then.

Then why don't you rush home now?

She's his wife now.

She tells me that it's okay to play.

I know she doesn't mean it.

She's daring you to play more games.

I'm not really quick to sense that.

Were you always this dense?

Yes, I did get that a lot when I was young.

He admits it, so it's not frustrating.

He does admit his faults.

He says that it's to relieve stress,

but that's ridiculous.

Since he plays games until 3-4 a.m.

he oversleeps in the morning.

So he's often late to work.

It affects his work, too.

When someone calls him from work,

he makes my sister answer the phone.

(A grownup does that?)

What?

Then my sister apologizes

to his co-workers instead.

What's wrong with him?

It's like making his mom make excuses.

Since I'm late to work often...

It's an excuse.

(Shaking her head)

You are late to work often?

Yes. I am often late to meetings, too.

I watched the episode of a boyfriend

whose girlfriend was always late.

(Episode 395) If I'm lucky, she shows up.

There were times when she never showed up.

(Doubting their ears)

She would cancel our date.

If he really loves me, he can wait for me.

(She was brazen, too)

She sounded like me.

You are as bad as she is?

I do understand her stance.

We should meet his wife now.

This is another concern. Always being late.

Hello.

She looks nice.

Why do you look so nice?

It's a concern for you, right?

I don't think it's a concern.

(What?)

(Why not?)

- Really? / - Like Hyunyi said.

Many newlyweds argue a lot in the beginning.

So that's why I don't think it's a concern.

All right. We'll end this case right here.

It wasn't a concern.

(Was I fooled again?)

(See? She says it's okay)

Then why do you call your sister every time?

Why do you tell her that it's tough for you?

I feel bad about telling this to my parents

and I can't tell my friends because he'd look bad.

My sister is like a friend to me. That's why.

So it is a problem for you.

You're not okay.

The more I try to understand him

the harder it gets.

But once I tell my sister,

I forget about everything in about an hour.

I guess she kept all this to herself.

I feel bad for Geumbi.

(She's worried for no reason?)

(She's being attacked from both sides)

I understand because they're newlyweds.

My dream was to become a good wife.

So I always said, "It's okay."

My husband asked me what I want for my birthday.

I said, "It's okay." He didn't get me anything.

He really thought I didn't want anything.

Men can't read between the lines.

So I said, "You could've bought me flowers."

I told him that because I was upset.

The following year, he only got me flowers.

He's a good listener.

He did get you what you wanted.

So I now tell him more and more.

"Hey, you fool."

(Am I a fool?)

(For you...)

(he will do anything)

(She's not laughing)

When your husband goes out all night

to play games,

don't you get upset?

You have to be honest. Hyejung just said that

men can't read between the lines.

Be honest with us.

It's upsetting.

You should've told us from the start.

(Get it all out, sis!)

Many newlyweds argue a lot in the beginning.

I don't think it's a concern.

It's upsetting. It's very upsetting.

(She finally tells the truth)

It's upsetting, right?

When we got married,

my dream was to eat dinner together

and go for a walk at night together.

He acted like he'd do anything for me,

but now that I told him he can play games

he won't come home. It's upsetting.

Why didn't you tell him that then?

Why are you crying?

She knows what her sister is like.

(How much are you enduring in life?)

Why didn't you tell him how you feel?

(Emotional)

- Oh my goodness. / - Does it hurt your ego?

I'm afraid he's going to hate me.

You're afraid he's going to hate you?

(Why would you think that?)

Why would you think that?

I'm afraid that he's going to get sick of me.

(She loves her husband so much that)

(she has endured loneliness with a smile)

(but she was crying a river inside)

(Sis...)

Sir, how do you feel about this?

She was upset, but couldn't tell you.

I'm shocked.

I'm shocked because I didn't know.

When he told me that he plays games in the car,

I was shocked.

I thought, "Does he hate me?

Am I not good enough for him?"

That's understandable.

I guess I continued to blame myself.

Oh no. (You did nothing wrong!)

How many hours a week are you with him?

Excluding the hours we sleep,

less than 10 hours.

10 hours a week?

Is it less than 10 hours or not? I don't know.

Is that a quiz for us?

Is it 10 hours or not?

(Please care about her more!)

When we were talking about him being late,

you kept shaking your head.

He has never waited for someone in his life.

When we were dating,

I once waited 3 hours for him in winter.

- In winter? / - Yes.

I'm impressed.

Another concern is added.

She waited for him for more than 3 hours.

I didn't realize that at the time.

She was always there waiting for me.

But 3 hours?

I'll be blunt.

You could've just dated him.

Why did you marry him?

Out of those 10 bad habits,

one good thing is that he is sincere.

So I thought he would change one day.

(Blinded by love)

Just one good trait?

He's late to meetings, but he's sincere?

He plays games too sincerely.

All right.

(The wife is too kind)

Playing games this much could be costly.

He's been buying items even before we got married.

Here comes the professional word.

If his credit card bill is $1,000,

50% is spent on buying items for games.

At first, he told me it was for car installments.

(He even lied)

He lied.

I thought it was for his car.

I didn't tell her,

but a few days ago...

(No way)

(No way)

(There isn't more, right?)

I bought more a few days ago.

What did you buy? A sword?

There's a weekly special package.

I spend little by little each time

so I end up spending more than $2,000.

(Shocked)

(Oh my goodness)

In a month?

No, not in a month.

I spend $100 a month. Little by little.

He pinky swore that he wouldn't do that.

You bought more recently?

She just found out.

Does he give you his monthly salary?

No, he doesn't.

(After spending that much on games?)

It is mostly spent on paying back his debt.

Did you incur that debt together?

No, it is his personal debt.

That's why he doesn't give me any money.

In a way, it's like gambling.

I have nothing left...

So you feel empty inside.

And you continue to play games?

You see...

(This is serious)

You don't have money for living expenses?

I work part-time for it.

Our parents give us food to eat

and some essential items.

Since they have to pay back the debt,

my sister doesn't ride

public transportation like the bus or subway.

She walks for 2 hours even in winter.

Oh no.

She doesn't want to waste money on that.

Then when she goes to see our parents

our dad gives her spending money.

She saves it.

Then when my brother-in-law needs money...

- For special occasions. / - Yes.

He asks her for money.

When he doesn't give her any money?

Then she gives the money that

she saved up to him.

She just gives it to him?

Sure. She says, "What choice do I have?

He has to go to those special occasions."

(She's always being considerate)

Did you know that the money you got

was from her father?

Yes, I knew.

You knew?

- Even when we were dating... / - You accepted it?

This is frustrating, too.

He does admit to his faults

so why is this so stressful?

I offered to give her my credit card,

but she said that she can get by

so I thought it was okay.

I didn't think much of it.

He knows it, but does it anyway.

He thinks it's really okay when she says it.

You just heard him.

This is why he never gave you money.

How do you feel? You think you were wrong?

No, it's fine.

(How frustrating)

It's not okay.

(Why can't you tell the truth?)

You say it's fine, but it's not.

I'm planning to get it all back

once he pays back his debt.

In the future, you will have kids.

You have a long future ahead of you.

If you keep quiet because you're afraid that

he's going to hate you,

the problem will become more serious later.

Newlyweds fight a lot in the beginning.

Yes, of course.

The problem will get worse if you don't fight now.

Why are you so considerate to him?

He's more soft-hearted than you think.

I feel bad about nagging at him.

If he were a bad person,

I could yell at him.

But he always apologizes to me.

That's worse. Apologizing but not changing.

This is why we never meddle in a couple's fight.

You might think you're being considerate,

but you're actually getting him bad habits.

When did your sister look most upset?

I think she is most upset when she's alone

when she needs him most.

It was her first birthday after getting married.

Her in-laws offered to hold a party for her

because it was her first birthday together.

- Her in-laws? / - Yes.

He drank too much the night before and got sick.

I thought he doesn't drink nor smoke.

He does both.

What? Both?

(What?)

(He's so brazen)

He lies, too.

He got sick so she nursed him all day

instead of going to that party.

She went to see a doctor with him.

I was really upset then.

I was so upset that I thought,

"Was I right to marry him?"

You thought that?

Yes, about 10%.

All right.

I want you to be more honest.

He needs to know.

She says that everything is okay,

but she is getting more depressed.

She isn't the type to cry a lot.

But she cried thinking, "Am I too obsessed

with him? Am I being too harsh?"

Whenever she talks about him with me

she gets tears in her eyes

and starts to cry.

(She held back a lot)

Do you get depressed often?

I try to understand him

so I get frustrated.

It hurts right here.

(She held back in the name of love)

She did nothing wrong.

She can't say how tough it is for her.

(She's casting a spell on her that she's fine)

I end up thinking bad thoughts.

Like what?

If we are going to hurt each other like this,

we should just go our separate ways.

(She must've been very lonely...)

You love him very much, right?

Yes, I do.

That's why maybe I should give him freedom.

(She's blaming herself again)

(They're back to square one...)

While I listen to you talk,

what I wonder is,

how much do you love yourself?

She has low self-esteem, right?

She keeps blaming herself.

I think it's important for you

to learn to love yourself.

Sir. How do you feel? She says that

she loves you so much that she might let you go.

I don't want that.

Then what do you think you must do?

Have you ever tried to quit playing games?

(Not once)

Of course not. He never once tried.

We can't solve anything here by talking.

You know that you're hurting your wife,

but you can't quit playing games.

That means you're seriously addicted

that you need an expert's help.

Do you think you're seriously addicted?

Or you don't think it's that bad?

I think I am at that point.

(He admits to how serious his addiction is)

There you go.

Since he knows it, he just needs treatments.

Please tells us what you want from him.

I want you to go home

and spend time with my sister.

Sis, stop covering for your husband.

Stop saying that you'll leave him.

I want you to resolve this well.

Please say a word to your wife.

I know that I was wrong to make excuses.

I will quit going to internet cafes.

(Really?)

I will try to be at meetings on time.

I will try my best.

I love you.

Please say a word to your sister-in-law.

No matter what happens

I will try to resolve it with my wife.

Thank you for making me come here.

Thank you and I'm sorry.

(Please keep your promise this time)

Is it a concern or not?

It's a concern.

She keeps saying that everything is fine,

but everything isn't okay.

I want you to try harder.

She is seriously depressed and

she has low self-esteem.

I think it's a concern, too.

Since he loves his wife a lot,

it'll be fine once he gets his addiction treated.

Press the button if you think it's a concern.

(What does the audience think?)

5, 4, 3, 2, 1.

Please stop.

Please show us the result.

(Announcing the result)

(It was also very frustrating!)

(What's the result?)

- 125 votes. / - They got many votes.

(They got 125 votes)

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O`ALLAH

O`ALLAH

O`ALLAH

O`ALLAH

The light of Allah awakened me

Flowed through the depths of my soul

To him I called in my tears

With what my Quran inspired

He is the merciful, is its meaning

To him, Jonah (Dhul-Nun) as he called

So he delivered him of his anguish

And with the praise, he returned

I am the prisoner of my torment

And my sadness became mountainous

And my tears fell in praise

Built glories in my heart

Gracious as he nurtures me

Affectionate with no equal

Forgives my sins

With what my Quran inspired

O`ALLAH

O`ALLAH

O`ALLAH

O`ALLAH

(Ayoub) Job prayed in grief

With the tears of woe and patience

O' Lord "I was touched with misfortune"

You are my refuge of my affliction

My faith in you delivers me

Whenever my heart constricts

My prayer abounds with recitation

Brings my soul to you nearer

Generous does not forget me

When time wearies me

And your memory, O' Lord, is my companion

With what my Quran inspired

O`ALLAH

O`ALLAH

O`ALLAH

O`ALLAH

To Moses his restless soul

Brought to thirst with the fire of sorrow

Became in fear praying

And the compassion of Allah brought it to life

O' Lord, I am but a serf

In a sea of sin was lost

To you my aspirations take refuge

To you my hopes endeavor

He is the benevolent that made me prosperous

He will undo all my gloom

In the day of dread I beg him

With what my Quran inspired

O`ALLAH

O`ALLAH ALLAH

O`ALLAH ALLAH

O`ALLAH ALLAH

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