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The 3 Stages of Men & Women - Duration: 13:32.
You pick up the kids on this day and I'll take them to soccer practice on this..
a lot of compromise right you know we're going to figure this out and we're going
to but there's going to be no polarity in that, they're both half masculine half
feminine so at best they're good friends and at worst they end up hating each
other because they just can't stand to be around each other they're not
sexually attracted to each other anymore
So we got the 3 stages
David Deida, who knows David Deida raise your hand for me.. good.. David Deida in one of
his books it's not very well known but it's in one of those books he talks
about three stages of masculine and feminine and who's heard of that raise
your hand okay good so the three stages first stage is for the masculine this is
what men used to be it's my way or the highway I'm in charge I'm in control
what's the power in that for men what are men get their power from its from
force from power itself it's from pushing you guys see that masculine
identifies with tension it's from pushing tension playing with tension
stepping into tension what did the feminine in the first stage identify
with? So more playing with, subtlety sexuality sexual energy there's
a lot of sexual energy that's kind of a domain of women right and so they would
use that and play with the subtle to control the Masculine. The masculine, really
direct forceful feminine I'm going to play and dance off that and I'm going to
manipulate and move around right and so that's where those two energies and they
were always buying for control. So think about this as the women were saying men
might come home and maybe they're really good intent maybe this guy is like it's
my my home it's my castle and this is the way it's going to be and he sets the
rules and then the woman would use her feminine wiles to get what she wanted
right? She'd use her feminine energy inference, metaphor play with them with
them, withhold a little sex, tease them to get her to get him to give her what he wanted so
they were both fighting for control a little bit at a time they both have good
might have good intent he might really want to make her happy through being
dominating like controlling everything I'm going to make you happy
and she might be doing this stuff to try to make him happy but in that they're
both being frustrated aren't they? Neither of them are happy because
they're both pushing and trying to get something they're both trying to get so
the second stage comes along that's started with what you said earlier
feminism you know women didn't use to have the right to vote they didn't have
the right to own property at least in the States and something that's worth
where it was all born women as the night as a as as the world started to change
and women didn't need men to protect them as much because modern society
started women started to want the right to vote instead of want to rights owned
property which I think are good thing there's aspects of feminism I don't have
a problem with you know equal laws Equal Rights all that kind of stuff and so as
they got that they started to say is almost like a polarization and response
I don't need you anymore I don't need you to lead me and guide me I'm going to
do it myself what were they doing at that point stepping into their masculine
so they're playing the role of masculine at that time how do men feel at that
time I mean who were used to just being
masculine she even being her own masculine she doesn't need me there's a
sense of okay well what do I do yes I lost sense of lost purpose so what
happens to men we move forward picture the 60s and 70s what are men doing in the the
60s and 70s what's a large group of men doing now? Hippies... so you guys start to
flow instead to say... everybody know what a beatnik is? Sitting
there doing poetry and reading from their book dress you know there's
different kinds hippies and beatniks and all that we're in the 60s and 70s and
they all start to slow and be more artists and what are they doing now
because women develop their masculine men are now developing more feminine and
so now we're in the backlash of that we're at this point where we're half
masculine half feminine men and women and so this is why we come together in
polarities maybe there's a little polarity we first meet because it's excitement but
then it kind of dies now what happens you're together for like two years a
year and suddenly let's say a couple got married and in a few years in they've
got their what their car their two-and-a-half kids they're having sex
every Friday night because that's date night you pick up the kids
on this day and all taking the soccer practice on this a lot of compromise
right so this is second stage we're going to compromise and we're going to
work we're going to you know we're going to figure this out and we're going to
but there's kind of no polarity in that they're both half masculine half
feminine so at best they're good friends and at worse they end up hating each
other because they just can't stand to be around each other they're not
sexually attracted to each other anymore. Cause nobody's polarizing the other one
either one could start polarizing the other one if the woman chose to go into
her feminine, started treating him with feminine as long as he's not a... you know
a flag in the ground nice guy I'm not I'm only going to be a nice guy right
he'll start stepping more into his masculine, and if he starts stepping more into his masculine
she'll start stepping more into her feminine most of us are scared
to do that because it will get a little bit of
backlash as men we will typically get a little backlash the moment we step into
our feminine, our masculine, excuse me, and we got to be ready for that like a
little bit of testing a negative response or potential negative really
good right away but if you've been in a relationship for two years or a year
you've been being a nice guy the whole time and you suddenly start stepping
into your masculine are you changing who you're being suddenly? What are the odds
you're going to get an interesting response to that you're changing the
contract you two agreed to so she's got it now what she's got tested is this
real she may not even do that in like consciously it's just instinctual what
who you being this isn't you and then wonder what happens to us we go right
back into our nice guy shell I pissed her off I don't want to do that again
right? Would that be the same as putting your foot down?
yeah it
could be depending on the situation yeah setting boundaries everybody should have
boundaries right the nice guys don't have any boundaries you tell me who you
want me to be and I'll be it where do you want to go to dinner what
do you what does it take to make you happy how many TV shows and sitcoms
portray men and they tell guys you know just make the wife happy, always
be the first to equality always agree with what she wants
how many of you guys have seen shows like that were they that's what they
teach right? That's all through society but what happens when
you do that there's no sense of you anymore she's not getting your real
wants and desires because you won't disagree with her you become who you
think she wants you to be and in that she doesn't have a man. Do you think that
the feminine, who wants the picture frame who wants the tree trunk once the
river banks feel safe with that? right she's not going to feel safe
he's not.. this man's not showing up he has the masculine so what does she have
to do in the relationship she has to say that again
yeah she has to be the masculine she may be the masculine at work right she may
be she goes to work and she has her own company because we both running both
sides now today but when she comes home to a relationship he was about 90% of
women would prefer to step into their feminine and most men would actually be
happier 90% in their masculine. But we don't do it, you don't
do it she comes home and we start deferring superfast she gets more
frustrated and next thing you know she's yelling at you for the littlest things
right you didn't take out the trash why did you take out the trash why didn't
you do this why do you do that why is she doing all that she's trying to get
the masculine to wake up inside you trying to get a response out of you guys
and you guys think I'll just be a little nicer what does she want I can
understand what she wants she just tell me what she wants I'd be it and then
we'd be happy but do you see what I mean she comes to you that well I want you to
be masculine, I want some solid, I want.. she's running on instinct she's running
on intuition so she can't even tell you clearly what she wants right but when
she sees it she knows and that's that's what's important now in a third stage
relationship which is what we're heading towards this is the beauty of it all
this is where the grounding and all these qualities we talked about come in
the man now knows what it's like to be feminine because he's developed that
side of himself but he also knows what it's like to be masculine and like a
left or right hand he can jump between the two he can use either hand but he
has one he prefers usually masculine and the woman's the same way she can be
masculine and she can be feminine but would you should rather be the
feminine she'd rather dance in the feminine with the masculine and it's your
choice let's say the you're not there she has
to be her own masculine. No problem let's say there's something she's better being
the masculine at the new you just hand that to her, and you step back and then you
then you grab her take take the masculine back after that's done and you
guys have that dance now where you actually work as a real team of polarity
go ahead...
So you're saying that it's actually depending on the subject? Yeah it can be but you'll
be the masculine most guys will be the masculine on most the time in a relationship
unless they have a reverse relationship which is pretty rare pretty rare so
you'll be switching between the two but mostly you'll be in your masculine so
think about that it's powerful because now it's not a relationship of
compromise because now the masculine standing there is making a decision
based on this idea of like he's using his feminine to feel into her so deep he
knows what she needs almost before she does because he's got access to his feminine
too, his vulnerability and now he's leading from that place and he's not
leading to get what he wants out of her like the first stage guy he's leading to
raise them to to a better place of being what do we need to grow together and
sometimes that's not compromise, sometimes that's not what I want
sometimes that's not even what she wants sometimes that's something greater than
both of us and I stick to that that's my leading energy grounding energy and now
she is feeling into him and she's coming back with that nurturing feminine energy
that feeds you guys so much but now she's not using it to get she's using it
to inspire she's using it to be of service not just for you but the whole
world how many guys walk down the street you see a beautiful woman that's in her
feminine it stands out when they're in their feminine right maybe she's not
technically the most beautiful woman but she's really in her feminine flowing you
still notice, don't you? there's still something you ever seen a beautiful girl
technically beautiful not in a feminine and then another girl is not as a attractive
but really in her feminine? Who are you more drawn to? You guys you realize you're usually
yeah yeah and that energy feeds you it's designed to feed you and now she uses it
to inspire or nurture rather than manipulate rather it's using it the heal
to cause you you ever hear about these guys really successful guys they have a
feminine wife and they just talk about her like she's amazing and and they they
create more and more success because of it like Zig Ziglar
Anybody know who he is? Big personal growth guy from way back when
he talks about the redhead his wife all the time the redhead and you could hear
from the way he talks about her most of his success is largely due to the
inspiration that she gives them she inspires him so much and wants to go out
and battle the world and he uses her energy to do it and so in that they're a
team and that's that's that feminine masculine dance right let's say she
starts her own company you could even have bouts of giving some of that energy
to her so she can go out and imply her masculine in her business so it can go
both ways but it's no longer relationship or compromise it's a
relationship but hey let's get uncomfortable together and grow
let's get uncomfortable together and become more powerful let's every year
become bigger together and conquer the world together create more good in the
world whatever it is that you're doing. And doesn't that sound a lot more exciting?
That's where relationships grow that's the sweet spot.
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Ye-e-ah, oh-oh
I see this scene where you walk down the hallway I try to stop you, but you don't wait
It's exactly what I was afraid of You don't love me anymore
And I know the part where you say you're unfaithful Sittin' at the kitchen table
In that moment in-between I love and fuckin' hate you I'm not sure, not sure
But that isn't stopping me So come sweep me off my feet
'Cause I wanna give, give you all that I got And I wanna believe, we'll defy all the odds
And I hope you don't hurt me, but oh, if you do It would be worth getting hurt by you
Everybody's got their own opinion And I hate, but I admit it
It's naive to think that you and I are somehow different From anyone else
And I give myself, but only giving fractions This is not what I imagined
Gotta put myself out there to see what happens Before I give up
But that isn't stopping me So come sweep me off my feet
'Cause I wanna give, give you all that I got And I wanna believe, we'll defy all the odds
And I hope you don't hurt me, but oh, if you do It would be worth getting hurt by you
Oh, I could've wonder Will our love survive?
Oh, but why always don't tell? Whoa-oh
I wanna give, give you all that I got And I wanna believe, we'll defy all the odds
And I hope you don't hurt me, but oh, if you do It would be worth getting hurt by you
Getting hurt by, by you Getting hurt by, by you
By you Oh, it would be worth getting hurt by you
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Your eyes looked suddenly distant...
You locked it all away, didn't you? I did too...
It's not as if I'm lying—
I just have a secret I can't tell you; I'm sure that's all it is.
The moment we shared a smile together, it suddenly fell into place—
Taking the place of words, we shared a silent gaze.
I'm sorry, but I can't show you all of my heart...
You say we're just friends, but I'm still believing in you!
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What's cooking vktoons 25 - Duration: 1:29.
Welcome! Let' see what vktoons cooks these days!
What's cooking vktoons? #25
First of all, I inform you on anything I have permission to talk about,
not necessarily on everything I work on.
Our collaboration with schooltime.gr goes deeper.
I already have a personal column in the page
in which I'll about animation,
to its history - internationally and in Greece -
and of course I'll provide the work of vktoons.
We advanced a bit the animated short we struggle to finish for quite some time now.
Patience and persistence. Exactly what animation needs that is.
The basic scenery for the satirical cartoon series
which will begin on September
and perhaps we'll have a test episode in August.
The basic character
will be introduced to you very soon,
via social media!
That's all for this week! We'll meet again on Saturday
with the new episode of "The principles of animation +"
Next week we'll have July's bloopers.
See you soon!
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