We are on the speedboat
For 15 minutes
Hi guys we are at Uban right now
And we rent a car
Actually Uban is not bad
Quite urban right
So right now we will have our lunch
And i ask from my friend recommendations
She said that there is one chicken grilled
Halilintar chicken grilled
Do you know the way
I don't know
So where are we going right now
Will fill the fuel first
So excited
Why is the name Halilintar
Why
A lot of thunder here
Okay thank you
This is out tent
HI guys
Right now is 7 a.m
But we are ready so we will answer your Q&A questions
So yesterday i've posted on instagram
For you to ask questions
And quite a lot questions that have been ask
Around three hundreds
But a there are some questions that is similar
So we will answer it ok
So i've done Q&A several times
And some of the questions have been answered in the other Q&A
So i will link the video
In the above so you can watch it first
After that you can watch this so you will understand
So now we will answer the first question
Is there any difference in your relationship when you are married and dating
And when you have a child
The answer will be different
Because when we have no child
There is a lot quality time for the two of us
We are going everywhere together like we are on dating
But when we have a child is very different
Especially because Aiden is very close to me
So when we are sleeping Hoshi cannot be near me
Aiden should be the one who hug me, tightly
As if Aiden is my husband
But right now he is better
Yes right now is better
So there is a lot differences between married and having a child
So just now Moli talk about between before and after having a child
But for me i've seen the difference in Moli before and after we are married
She is quite different because
Before we are married she is just in High school
Her bangs was like this
And very cute
But in our married journey
She is more mature in physical
In mentality
And right now as Youtuber in finacial aslo
She is now more established
So there must be growth and differences
Next questions
Did you and your husband ever feel bored
And how to overcome it
Did you ever feel bored
With the routine
If our routine everyday is the same
Wakeup
Take care Aiden
Work, ministry and just like that
Definitely I ever feel bored
That is why we are here
By the way we are at Bintan
And for girls we are more emotional
And honestly for this 5 years
Sometimes i feel bored too
So that the relationship can be
Can be more spice up
We are on purpose find different activities like this for example
Don't need to be going somewhere
More like do something new
Or something that reminds you of your love
Next
How can we know that he/she is the one
And there is a lot of people ask me
How to know that he is the one
This quetions is quite long actually and
For me this is according to each individuality
That is according to our partner
Like
Are you ready or your partner is ready or not
Because when i was with him he is very ready
He is mature established and responsible enough
Like everthing
Like all the criteria is in him already so
I'm sure that he is the one
But if
He is not mature and establishhed enough i might be not sure that he is the one
And that's why it's depend on
Each individuality, the feel of comfort and other things
Established that she means is not only
Not only mean by being rich
Because when we are married i don't have a lot of money
Even my savings is just enough
Is just enough
But establishment is not only about material
But money is quite important especially for this days
A lot of things need to be considerate
But specifically
Every person and couple is different
But in general i believe there is priciples
If we are building a connection
Boys are often to see only physical appearance
Or
Physical or sexual attraction
This one connection is not enough but in emotional
We also need be connected we can share stories
And what we feel
Our happiness and sadness our hobby
What makes us sad what makes us happy in emotional connection
Also need to be connected
And very important is connected by faith
Because our believes
That is the one determined the purpose of our lives
And the way we think
And mindset and everything
So faith is very important our believes should be the same
Having one vision and that makes us more easily to be united
And flow together
In this life so if we fell
There is a connection
If there is more
If there is more aspects that you can be connected or compatible
Our relationship will be more stonger in the future
And then there quite a lot of people asking
According to your opinion i like to buy makeup
Is there any objection from your husband
According to your opinion i like to do makeup
Is there any objection
So its like what i'm saying before
We are not very rich
But when Moli choose makeup or cloth or other things
She will consider it
So she will consider which one is more valuable
And she invest
We are very lucky now beacuse
It's part of her job
So when she buys makeup or she buys cloth or another things
Not only as expense
But also as investation
For her work and content
So i support her
This one right
Looks like we are rarely jealous on each other
I'm not often jealous because Moli
She didn't really like to approach other guy
On chatting or on meetings
She is rarely associate with other guy
For me i'm content not really worry
Maybe we are trusting each other
Because when we are in relationship
We are rarely chat with other gender to converse
Except for important matters
But for chat call and talk with other gender
We are rarely do that
And then we also
We are
Keeping
Keeping distance from other gender
So i'm keeping it and he too
So we are trusting each other
For Hoshi how can you unite your way of thinking
Even you have quite different age
Have you ever feel too mature really like to see you both
We are different for 11 years
Maybe quite in different generation
Mindset boy and girl
Parenting
Perspective is quite different
So to unite it we should communicate
Sometimes directly
What is our desire or expectations
Or how the future
What we will be like
So she is younger and i'm older
But that doesn't mean that i'm always correct
But we share our perspective
So that i know what she's thinking what she'e feeling
And i too need to be open
And share and it's quite complicated
Sometime we think that we can just telephaty
And she will know i will know
But in reality it's not like that
In reality we should communicate
A lot of people asking if we fight often or not
Did Hoshi ever do harsh things
How to have a long relationship
And my experience for 5 years with him
For me why we are rarely fight is because the way we handle things
Or the way we response to something
For example like
If i make mistake
How he reponse is very affecting whether we will fight or not
For example if i make mistake and he is angry
I will tend to fight back so we will have a fight
But all this time if i make mistakes he is patience
And he is not angry
He will ask why and that's why we not fighting
And when fighting when one person using high note
And replied with high note too
The situation will be critical
Sometimes when we know we are on bad mood
Or not in a good situation
Will be better if we
Tell our partner
Okay babe i need to cool down first
I need to cool down first
And then we will cool down first
Waiting to be emotionally stable and will try to talk again
About what is the problem
One additional tips
Personally or as a couple
We cannot compare ourselves
Or our relationship with other person
So God create every person uniquely
Every couple also unique
Every couple is different no couple is the same
Because every personality is different
Different background financially different everthing is different
So every couple has it's own timing
Timing to be on above also different
There is couple get rich quickly and there is couple slower to get rich
There is person before married already rich
There is couple after married then get rich
Together
And the lifestyle
Sometimes we look on instagram or YouTube
Wah this couple is couple goals
In social media
Like an ice burg it's only the best the tip
Sometimes
But we are in YouTube if you are watching our family vlog with Aiden sometimes we are
Share
The reality
Family is not always glamorous
When we change diaper when we are just wake up
When we are sick
When we are not on the best mood that's life
Don't compare yourselves with other all the time
We can be inspired
By the other success
But don't be ashamed of ourselves because other people are on above
And we feel down you know
But
Just be happy with who you are and keep
Keep creating and keep
Working and keep flowing
Thank you guys
For the questions sorry we can't answer it all
Okay so this is the questions we are able to answer right now
If there is still a lot of things you wanted to know
Maybe next we will do instagram live
Or we can do other Q&A session
So you guys can comment below
Do you want us to make Q&A again
Or we do instagram live
We will have our breakfast now
Thank you for watching
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