Une autre question... Quel est votre souvenir commun préféré ?
all of our traveling mm-hmm every time we travel we just kind of get outside of
our comfort zone try new things even if the place that we've been to before like
we've been to Paris together three times and I feel like every time we like see a
different side of the city we see a different side of ourselves you know the
first time it was very like exploring and seeing new stuff for me and then by
the third time it was like you know being able to kind of fall into a rhythm
and and go to our favorite places and the fact that we have favorite places in
Paris is like crazy to me you know we're that comfortable in a city that's so far
away yeah well that's what I would say but just to say something different I
feel like I love our adventures together in Brooklyn or the city like I love when
we have a long day on the weekend where we just do different I mean there's no I
mean York is amazing I mean I love that we live here and that we do take the
time and we should even more but to explore it I mean even just weekend you
know we did a photo shoot on the Brooklyn Bridge and then went to the
Whitney Museum and we went to brunch like a very she she plays but I just
love spending like a long weekend days with you makes me really happy
you know in our beautiful city yeah all right time for a refill how did you know
the GRE was the one yeah don't you know you are the one Cheers
I feel like I don't know it's always a hard question and I feel like in movies
and film that makes you believe that there's just one moment where you just
know that someone's though one and I think that life isn't really like that I
think I have a very specific kind of memory of when I knew that I loved you
and it wasn't like suddenly sad that you did it was just like one day I
was like like I love this guy and I know and then I'm and then at some
point I knew like hey this guy's at my house all the time I would like him to
also live here I and I feel like our love is a series of moments it's not one
special moment it's not written on there but you're
gonna have to tell your answer to this question I don't know there wasn't like
a single moment it was just like it we've been together for a while and like
it's pretty good I'd like to keep this up I'd like to keep going with this
that's really romantic yeah romantic pretty good pretty good
oh you manage your different point of view this one's for you find my please
when you're mad at him or when he's mad at you no one who loves the other one
the month oh oh oh wow there's so many questions here how do you manage your
different point of view I mean that's just like I think being a relationship
is being and not even like a romantic relationship being in any relationship
is a lot of give-and-take and I think for us we try obviously we fight we're a
normal couple but I do like to have moments when we get upset and then we
just sit down and like talk about thanks so much of it is like understanding why
the other person feels the way that they're feeling in that moment which can
be based on so many things that can sorry it stopped recording us so I think
I was just talking about being a relationship is all about certain
amounts of compromise and just having those conversations instead of trying to
like just getting super bad when you're mad oh yeah so when so what you're mad
at him when he's mad at you who's who's the one who loves the other one the most
that's not really a fair question it's not a competition yeah exactly
did you talk about future plans together yeah yes yeah I mean that's you should
definitely talk about those things I mean I think any relationship I think it
was hard at first to talk about the future but it's so
important mm-hmm do you have anything to add no what qualities do you love the
most about each other what was the detail it struck you the
most when you minute for Rachel it was her her independence
she's a very like confident doer of things like you know making videos
writing you know it's even when it was just you know a hobby and you had a lot
of going on when you were in college and you were working you were still
committed to blogging as well um what was the detail that struck you most well
that was the decision but what about the qualities that you loved about me how
hardworking and confident and driven you are that's me
I know what struck me when I first met you was that I guess in a way like that
you were so supportive of me and my blog and I think that I had had other
relationships or experiences where people were really dismissive of my blog
and it was really hard because you don't want to be overly confident or
narcissistic but at the same time I am really proud of what I've done with my
blog and I don't want to have to understand it and I didn't ever feel
that way with you I felt like you understood it on our first date he
literally asked me to tell him more about my audience demographic all my
flaws of my readers and it's so nerdy and it's so cute and I don't know I feel
like kind of then I knew that I wanted to start dating you because you were
really kind and very supportive first week where do we want to travel to
together oh my god everywhere everywhere we've got this like running list
yeah of places that we want to go to and like just from the top of my head we
really want to go to Berlin together we want to go to Vienna we want to get
Amsterdam's we want to go to Prague we want to go Portugal Lisbon was just
added to the list yeah the long-running list we want to go to I mean even in the
u.s. we want to go to Nashville that's where I went to college and Jerry's
never been to Nashville we're gonna go into Atlanta
we've never been to LA together Charleston Charleston Savannah Austin
and then like going back to International we want to go to Tokyo
Seoul Shanghai yep I love to go to Kyoto Morocco we've got a very long list of
places that we want to go home we're slowly knocking things off the list we
went to Spain earlier this year we're about to go to Copenhagen we're
really excited about that that was really high on the list of places that
we want to go to we still want to go to Stockholm want to go to Greece you want
to go to Italy and Italy you wanted to go to pasta uh no mm-hmm and oh my god
something yeah we want to go everywhere so we should just retire now yeah if you
want to send us anywhere it doesn't matter where we're probably game to go
yeah if you guys have places that you would love for us to know about please
leave them in a cause below cuz we would love even more suggestions so if you
guys are from somewhere super awesome let us know yeah I think there's there
really isn't anywhere that we don't want to go I mean there's some places if
there's like an ongoing genocide skip it well there's so many places in chemical
weapons United States Portland to with you okay um will you stay in New York
City if you were to live somewhere else together where would it be we've talked
about like where else we could live obviously like Paris would be on the
table because it's just really cool and really fun
yeah no Aris never one if I could make it happen just not speaking French very
well but like I don't yeah I think to move from New York to somewhere else
like where we're very spoiled by everything that New York has to offer
just like things to do and the conveniences of living in a big city
that we would you know if we were to move somewhere else it would have to be
a fairly metropolitan yeah we're City please for sure describe your ideal day
just a lot of just being outside going to different places maybe an art gallery
or an art museum involved I like to drag Rachel to art museums a lot of eating we
like to go dance together okay well here's the ideal day since you're not
gonna answer it this is it it's gonna have to be your you know I already know
step by step yeah so get up early we ride our bikes for a few hours and then
we come home shower then we have a big brunch and then we walk around the city
you know be it for a New York or in Paris on London we can ride our bikes
there and then we we love to eat brunch and then just like walking around
enjoying the sights smooching and going to a museum or going to a park taking
some photos then having happy hour then maybe having dinner then maybe a sunset
cruise see this is my oh oh say up until the sunset cruise that's pretty much
every day that we're on vacation yeah well we could go on a sunset cruise all
right we'll do the the Copenhagen sunset cruise I'm doing country sign us up with
it so you're an influencer and I have my own career going on oh wait so the last
thing Kerry did not read that heading I organized all of these questions into
categories so the third category or whatever kind of girl wrong is questions
about blogging and social media I'll read this one
meant for me obviously you're an influencer and he has his own career
going on do you guys deal with the pressure of your own jobs your 24/7 on
social media what's it like for him you you put up with me coming home sometimes
kind of late I mean that's just the nature of working in New York and I feel
like like the content creation side of things like posting is not you know time
intensive or like it gets in the way of vacation but we've we've gotten good at
like taking photos which is the time-consuming part and like integrating
that into our weekend our vacation our lives and so like I know that when we go
out to dinner there's a chance that like we got to spend five minutes taking a
photo while we wait for for dinner while we wait for a table and that's fine you
know it's you get used to it and you learn little tricks to like make that
happen a little bit faster and to anticipate things and to be ready for
things because I realize that that's the nature of her job and so being is you
know ready and efficient in you know doing what she needs to do in the day to
day makes things as easy as possible and as seamless as possible yeah I mean I
feel so lucky Jerry is very supportive of what I do and that hasn't always been
the case in my life and Jerry I think in some ways you kind of like being a part
of sometimes I sure it's annoying but I love doing Instagram stories with you
and and having you I mean because to me I just like sharing my life and Jerry is
such an important part of my life so that makes a big difference and I think
with the photos and things like that like it's something that as a couple you
have to learn together I think that it was harder at the beginning because
obviously that's a different way of life and I think that I'm really blessed that
Jerry is cordovan knows the reason what we're
doing this he's not he's not just thinking oh she's just taking these
photos like to be vain or to annoy me it's obviously my career and the because
he knows that this is the really career choice that I made he's supportive of
that and so he has patience when we we do even making this video like thank you
honey for taking the time to sit down it's 9:30 at night when you could be
relaxing and video with me I'm gonna push back on that a little bit you said
it's a different way of life I think is that you said well then I mean have you
ever had a girlfriend that made you take thousands of photos of her not thousands
but the next question is is he the best Instagram husband is it just too much to
always take photos and have to wait to your meal and like I hate I hate the
term Instagram husband because like who who hasn't like of all the guys out
there who hasn't like taken a picture of their girlfriend for Instagram like it's
2017 every every woman out there wants a great picture for Instagram wait okay
men and men too man yeah we all want a dope picture for Instagram and so it's
and it's the easiest to ask our boyfriend or girlfriend to say and say
hey our partner hey like this is a cool place to take a picture like the Sun
setting life looks really good like we're at this cool restaurant that my
friends really want to go to when we're the ones who are going to it like take
this cool picture for me and I'm a little bit better at it than most people
but that doesn't make me an Instagram husband because like who hasn't taken a
picture for their partner to post yeah but I think that and not that I like the
term interim husband but I think that it's you do he's downplaying it I mean
he will take because most you most people it's like you asked the your
person to take a photo of you and they take five I mean Jerry will come out
with me on the weekend then take I mean it takes hundreds of
photos to get a good photo sometimes and he does have a lot of patience and he's
just downplaying how sweet he is no I think you know every everyone's
everyone's their partners photographer at times I'm just better at it than
those people yeah he's gotten very good media takes time but we've had a lot of
practice we've been practice what do you like least about being a blogger slash
blogger boyfriend what do you like the most
I like the trips and thank you the perks so if you work in a PR company and you
want to send us to just rewind to all the places that we want to go yeah those
are my favorite perks wait how funny was it when okay so Jerry
and I posted pictures of us with sheet masks on on Instagram stories which we
looked so frightening a fight remember I'll put a photo and the next day a
brand sent us like 25 sheet masks and literally wrote on the know like you and
Jerry are so cute doing sheet masks like here's a bunch of sheep mask and it was
so cute um so thank you mask bar thank you master bar but there's definitely a
lot of perks I won't let you I won't let you undermine that well you play that
down because we've gotten to go on yeah had a lot of amazing experiences which
is one of my favorite parts about being a blogger too is you know we've been
able to go on trips to Paris together we've gone to that we went to the VMAs
last year we went to all the other cool shit we've done why isn't we've gone to
Montauk twice yeah you travel so much more than I do
well it's cuz of your job let's see we've done a lot of really cool things
like neither of us would have done had it not been for Rachel's career for
Rachel's blog for Rachel's you know commitment to posting so all right well
posting Rachel what's the least your least favorite part oh and we met Casey
nice dad at the polo match so I had already made
easy' nice that I met Casey nice day see nice look on a panel together in 2012
and he remembered me and I oh so sweet yeah I can't believe you remember we we
were on a panel like five years ago before and we're at the yeah we're at
the polo match and he walked up and was like hey Rachel and I was like hi Casey
because we literally sit here on the couch and watch his videos like every
day so I think he said I follow you on twitter I love your outfits yeah okay
now your least favorite come on there's there's just some times that like we got
to go to a thing or we got a ghost like a certain place to shoot something yeah
oh you know we need to take a picture if this like specific place in the city and
like sometimes you just don't want to do it yes you just want a tired fall asleep
on the couch instead yeah I want to like you know just do your own thing read a
book yeah so that's that's few and far
between I do feel like when we are traveling it
it's hard because for me actually when I'm traveling unlike most people that's
their vacation but for me I'm actually working a lot more when I'm traveling
because I want to make sure that I'm getting so much content in a new place
so we're traveling I I even sometimes feel bad because I can be like I know
for Gerry he only has a certain amount of vacation days and he's taking these
days to go on a trip with me and I'm sometimes being so annoying and asking
for a million photos and I think sometimes it's hard I mean just for me
answering this question personally I think one of the hardest parts about
being a blogger is kind of separating yourself from your brand and your blog
and because sometimes it does get you down sometimes I've read a comment and
it really hurts my feelings or sometimes I have a huge pimple and I makes me hate
myself I mean more than maybe somebody else would because I have to be on and I
have to make videos and I have post photos and it can be I think it's a
lot of it's really internalizing your own insecurities and then people also
telling you your insecurities to your face in a way that maybe in Martin Roby
will don't have to deal with like that's probably one of the hardest parts and
sometimes yeah I just wanting to relax and I mean every day I post on Instagram
every day I do Instagram stories there's no days off as a blogger but at the same
time I always say this I always say I never have a vacation but my whole life
is amazing because I get to spend my life sharing the clothes I love the
travel that I love and I feel so blessed that that has become my career thanks to
you guys emotional but let's just do this one since we're do that one was
Jerry a good photographer before you met yes and no I went to film school way way
back before I got into advertising and so like the technical side of
photography like in f-stop in ISO and like even like things like loading film
that old film but you know the just knowing the like technical aspect of
aspect of photography mm-hmm I learned but I never really picked up a camera
and shot a lot of things and so like composition I was like a complete newbie
at and once but I feel like for fashion fashion yeah yeah so I didn't know
anything about composition but like I could like I could nail the exposure I
knew would look you know though the lighting would be good the you know the
exposure would be right but I would cut her feet off oh yeah her part of her
hair wouldn't be in the shot so that took a little while to learn yeah and I
as any blogger anyone who's had their photo taken a lot it's like you become
very specific about your style the way that you want to look and you have this
vision in your head and trying to explain it to someone else
who maybe isn't a even too professional photographer but especially to someone
who's not a professional photographer explaining exactly what you want and
then you see the photos and it's not what you want and it can be hard but
Gerry has learned a ton and now we can do shoots really fast because he's used
to it he knows the angles that I like and and we have fun with it yeah yeah
and the last one does Jerry get annoyed to take a million photos not really you
do sometimes sometimes but I think we've got a lot better at it yeah well thank
you guys so much for watching special round of applause for this
beautiful man here oh thank you to Jerry for being a part of this video let us
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