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The Guided Meditation You Need ♥ 15 Minute Mindfulness - Duration: 14:51.
Welcome to our meditation for living truthfully in our meditation today our focus will be on finding truth
Love and beauty within ourselves
So that we can project it out into the world around us
Many of us so often tend to complicate life in many ways
We feel that we must have a specific job title
On a specific car or live in a particular neighborhood in order to truly feel happy and accomplished with ourselves in our lives
Yes all of these things are wonderful in many ways, but they are not the root of our happiness
Actually finding happiness is quite simple
It doesn't come with a price tag because it is here within us every single day if we simply choose to look a little closer
Observing sometimes can be the first tool in helping you find happiness
Seeing the beauty of our existence around us whether that is a smile of a child a beautiful sunset
the smell of the ocean
Or the leaves falling off a tree on a sunny autumn day
Happiness lies in the simple things and once we open our eyes to the everyday miracles of life
existence itself becomes a miracle
Once we start to see how magical life really is we must look a little closer
Everyone around us that shares similar walk of life the human existence
Yes, we may have our differences in politics or religions, or simply how we see the world around us
But in the end if we truly realize that we''re all
Two-legged breathing talking loving human beings we will all begin to realize that we are all the same
We are all in this together
We are all one
We all want to be happy healthy and loved
Accepting this idea is one of the ways in helping us understand one another a little better
Understand that we are all struggling in our own personal ways
We all want to be loved and heard in one way or another and that we all want to find that happiness whatever
Way happiness looks to us
Once we start to understand that behind the egos and the power games deep down
We all share the same goals and purpose
We will see that the only way to living authentically and truthfully is through opening your minds to all paths and ideas of life
With that said let's begin our meditation
Begin by sitting comfortably on your mat your bed or the floor
Close your eyes
Rest your hands on the knees and begin to bring your awareness to your breath
Inhaling and exhaling slowly
Relax your face
Let go of any motion in the forehead allow your eyes to feel heavy and clench your jaw
Just simply allow all that tension to release out of your face and then out of your shoulders
Feeling yourself grounded and appease
Paying attention to your inhale and your exhale as you let go of everything else
Feel the coolness of the air as you breathe in and the warm of the airs you exhale
Let go of any thoughts to duel us or plants just simply be with yourself
Inhale
And exhale
Notice how you're feeling right now
Do you feel any tension in your body
Pay close attention
And with each exhale let it go
Let slowly introduce her mantra for today
Repeating this mantra in your mind are
Simply using it to bring you back to the present moment if your mind begins to go elsewhere throughout this meditation
I see beauty I seek truth. I am one with all
I see beauty I
Seek truth I am one without
I
See beauty I
Seek truth. I am one with all
And now silently in your mind
Until you hear a soft Bell letting you know that it's time to release the mantra
It's time to release the mantra
Slowly begin to deepen the breath
Inhale and exhale
Take your time here you
May sit in this stillness for as long as you like
Or if you're ready go ahead and open your eyes
As you go on through your day try to stay present today
Notice the beauty around you and the little things be grateful for each breath each moment that you have in this beautiful world
Choose to see the beauty of existence allow yourself to be guided by truth and wisdom of the universe
Share love and kindness with everyone around you
Open your heart and mind to all possibilities of life and
Know that as you start to change the way you look at things
The things you look at change
Love and light namaste
You
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4 Tips How To Identify An INTJ In Public - Duration: 5:55.
4 Tips How To Identify An INTJ In Public
As one of the rarest personality types in the Myers Briggs lineup, INTJs enjoy a special
status that often comes with being rare.
On top of that, INTJs are also introverts which makes them even harder to find since
they spend less time out in the open where most people graze.
They are very private individuals and prefer quiet environments with moderate human interaction.
They don't need much socializing when they can busy themselves with passion projects
and making progress toward big-picture plans.
Many people may be interested in meeting an INTJ in person or want to determine whether
someone they already know is one.
From a distance, it can be difficult to distinguish an INTJ from an INFJ or ISTJ.
You likely know a few INTJs without realizing it.
Here is a helpful list of signs to look for that will show you how to spot an INTJ wherever
you encounter them.
1 - INTJ at the Market
If you go to the supermarket, you can spot an INTJ by the efficiency with which they
shop.
They don't like to tarry or linger.
When they go to market they go with a clear purpose in mind.
They may carry a list with them or have thought out in advance with great detail, everything
they intend to buy.
Because they dislike being in crowded places any longer than necessary, they will waste
little time tracking down their target items and completing their errand as quickly and
painlessly as possible.
They grab and go, and avoid engaging anyone in chit chat along the way.
They carry themselves with a sense of mission and they seem to know exactly what they're
doing and where they're going.
If a salesperson approaches them they will likely be terse in their responses and say
whatever they need to encourage them to go away.
They avoid eye contact with other shoppers as they briskly make their way to checkout.
If it were feasible, they would do all their shopping online.
Bookstores are the only stores where they really can take their time and browse.
2 - Resting Bitch Face (a.k.a the "Death Stare")
If you've followed the Myers Briggs long enough you will likely have heard of the INTJ
"death stare" or their infamous "resting bitch face".
INTJs get asked "why so serious?" in one form or another by concerned or intimidated
colleagues and family members.
If you see someone who seems to have a perma-scowl as their default facial expression, they are
probably an INTJ.
In most cases, the INTJ's appearance of displeasure is nothing more than their "thinking
face".
You may spot them staring off in some direction during which they are probably just immersed
in deep mental processing.
If they are unaware that they are being watched, you may even catch them silently mouthing
words as though they were pantomiming a discussion with themselves.
Alternately, the INTJ death stare may also appear as a "deer in headlights" look
or "resting bitch face".
Each of these expressions may appear angry or perturbed but generally, there is no emotion
behind them.
INTJs are often unaware of how intense their expressions appear to others and do it without
consideration.
They mean nothing by it in most cases, they just get lost in such intense concentration
that they become unresponsive to what's around them.
Whatever they are staring at, they are not actually looking at, but looking through.
People and objects just happen to be in the line of their gaze.
INTJs rarely show their anger so most likely they are not mad.
3 - INTJs Like the Sound of Silence
INTJs are quiet and comfortable with saying nothing where others would be compelled to
disrupt the serenity with conversation.
INTJs have no problem keeping to themselves even while sharing a small space with another
person such as on a plane or bus.
They're comfortable with being alone and may not bother to hide themselves in their
cell phone or pretend to be doing something.
The INTJ is probably that person sitting by themselves with a resting bitch face.
Don't worry they're okay.
Out in public, INTJs try to blend in and float under the radar.
They actually like having friends who enjoy being the center of attention because they
would rather observe and learn.
The INTJ pairs well with ENFPs who can provide a social lubricant that helps INTJs meet and
get on with new people.
4 - INTJ Clothing Style
INTJs prefer utility and practicality in their wardrobe.
They are something of minimalists and less likely to be found wearing colorful peacock
clothing and fancy accessories.
Many of them have simple tastes wearing things like cargo pants and turtlenecks.
They like to dress in simple modest attire that looks orderly and respectable.
They like jeans and dark colors and black and white is probably their most preferred
colors.
Some may wear light but cold hues such as blue, and in many cases they may wear variations
of the same ensemble every day.
Their wardrobe choices tend to follow a consistent theme and is meant to avoid drawing excessive
attention.
As Judgers, INTJs are more likely to dress properly and may even be somewhat stylish
and edgy.
But as INTs, they are likely to be disconnected from the physical world and may fail to see
any point in "dressing to impress" so to speak.
It's a toss-up for this type, but they do tend to dress better than their gauche NTP
cousins.
All in all, that's The 4 Tips How To Identify An INTJ In Public.
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Hello everbody, welcome to a new vlog! If you're not Dutch, please turn on the subtitles!
I'm going to We Are Electric tonight. I enjoyed the outdoor festival so much this summer, so I'm really excited for this.
Tonight it's We Are Electric presents Elrow in Klokgebouw Eindhoven, and the lineup is sick.
I'm going to enjoy this so much. They all play long sets, so I'm quite curious.
Of course I'm taking you with me, I'll see you there!
We've just arrived as you can see. The queue was enormous, but it looks great so far….
That's officially the sickest area I've ever seen.
We're gonna have a look up there.
That was some kind of secret area, really cool actually. I've no idea who was playing, sorry, so if somebody knows let me know!
It's time to go home. Sorry, I've been at the Elrow stage pretty much all night.
But that area, the stage and the atmosphere were so good. I just enjoyed myself so much there.
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Navigating Holiday Gift Giving Stress | Coffee With Kelly - Duration: 18:49.
- Well, hello, hello, my friend!
Cheers, and welcome to today's edition
of Coffee with Kelly, where we're talking
all things Christmas gift giving sanity.
'Cause it can drive you a little nuts, can't it,
when your relatives maybe ask for a specific list
of gifts for the kids, and then they don't end up
buying any of it.
Or maybe you're not sure how many gifts to buy.
Or maybe your kids are acting a little bit ungrateful?
How to deal in the moment, or how to manage
kids' expectations, we're covering it all,
so grab your coffee, and we'll get right to it!
(upbeat music)
Okay, so kicking things off, our first question
comes from Lisa via YouTube, and she asks,
"How do I start the conversation with relatives
"that mean well, but ask for a list of gift ideas,
"and then go and purchase something else?"
Woo-hoo, Lisa, I think you hit on a little bit
of a hot topic there, because I have gotten this question
from several other people, the struggle is real!
And in answering it, I'd have to ask, I guess,
I know it's annoying when people go to answer a question
and just ask more questions, but,
what is the real issue, what's really getting
your goat here?
Is it that your kids are really wanting something
and they're disappointed?
Are your kids feeling like, grandma, or Aunt Sandra,
isn't really paying attention to their interests
or what they're looking for?
Do they feel like they're not special,
do they feel like there's not much thought
going into the gift?
Or is it something more on your end?
Are the kids totally fine with
what the relatives are getting them,
but you're feeling upset,
are you feeling like maybe you're being overshadowed?
Or are you feeling like they're spending too much money,
or do you feel like they're spoiling their kids,
there is a two-parter, actually, to Lisa's question,
where, you're trying to cut back,
you're trying to go a little bit more minimalist,
but then the relatives are still going overboard
on the gifts.
So first, I would try to get really real with yourself,
as to what's actually bothering you, and then go from there.
So whatever it was from that list of,
all the list of reasons we can get upset about gift-giving,
and they're all real, they're all real,
I've had so many questions surrounding this.
The key, then, is just to have a convo.
Have a really direct, open conversation.
And I know that's hard, I'm not trying to sweep that
under the rug, that can be challenging sometimes,
but sometimes I think we can feel like,
if we're going against what someone else wants,
or we have a different opinion on something,
that we're somehow being mean,
or we're somehow hurting someone's feelings,
and I really don't believe it has to be like that,
because, I think there's a lot to be said for being clear,
and setting boundaries, because if the roles were reversed,
and I was doing something that was pissing off
one of my relatives, or hurting someone's feelings,
or someone thought that I was out of line,
I would wanna know about it,
I would absolutely wanna know about it.
I know it's not like that in all cases, of course,
there's all kinds of different family dynamics,
but don't be afraid to have a really open conversation
with them about the issue, and about what's going on.
Another really important thing, I think too,
is to give our relatives a heads up.
If there is one really special gift our kids are wanting,
and when we're kind of, I don't even know
what the right word is, but like, divvying up,
like who's gonna get what,
give them a heads up that your child
is really, really looking forward to that gift,
and that if they're not going to get it,
to give you a heads up, so you know.
So that there's no disappointment on Christmas morning.
So just give them a heads up,
if it is a particularly special gift,
if it is something the child is really, really wanting --
it's totally fine if they wanna get something else,
but just to let you know. That way,
everybody's on the same page.
And this is a tricky one too, 'cause sometimes,
sometimes you do all of that, Lisa, right,
like sometimes, you have a really open conversation
with them about trying to cut back,
and trying to go a little bit more minimalist,
or you're upset about, I'm not saying this is you,
but I know this is the case for other people,
being overshadowed. It's like,
have you seen the movie Four Christmases?
Where everyone's kinda cut back on gifts,
has a $10 gift, and then the aunt and uncle come in
and buy the kids an Xbox?
Hello, hurt feelings right there.
So sometimes, you can do all that,
you can have all the conversations,
and there's still some disappointment, and it falls flat.
And sometimes, that's just how it goes, unfortunately.
All you can do is do your best, be open,
and then, you can use that even
as a lesson in gratitude for your kids.
As in, "I know you were really looking forward to this,
but grandma really wanted to get you this,
and she put a lot of effort into getting that for you."
And talking about things that way.
But I'm always about putting the relationship first, right?
Because really, in the end, a gift is a gift.
It's really about the relationship,
and that's what the holidays are all about. So,
I hope that helps! I know, it's tricky, it's tricky!
I don't wanna minimize it, but just give it a try,
and see what happens, have those conversations.
First get really real about what's bugging you,
and then have a conversation, and don't be afraid
to be really clear, get that little bit of gusto,
and you'll be good to go.
And along that similar theme, our next question
comes from Nakia and Ben, and these are actually
high school students, isn't this cool?
I had some questions submitted from Clarksdale, Mississippi,
Coahoma County High School, I really hope
I'm saying that right, and I'm sorry if I'm not,
but this next question is from Nakia and Ben,
and they ask, "What would be a good number
"of presents for my kids?" and the second question,
"How do I stick to buying gifts
"that are age and price appropriate?"
And for me, when it comes to an appropriate number of gifts,
I feel like that's completely individual,
and I really don't feel like it's my place to say
what the appropriate number of gifts are,
but it's something just to take note of,
when you see your kids opening your gifts,
and when you see your kids starting to lose interest.
My husband and I had a massive wake-up call
in this department, when our kids were probably,
they were probably two and three,
the first Christmas we really noticed
that we had gone overboard, because our kids,
they just wanted to play with their stockings,
we weren't even finished their stockings,
and it was time to move on to opening their real gifts,
and they had no interest. They just wanted to play
with what was in their stockings.
So if that's happening for you,
as soon as that point when your kids are losing interest,
or when they're not actually focusing
on what they're getting, and enjoying it in the moment
and having gratitude for what they got,
but are just on to like, "Okay, I want the next gift,
what's the next gift?"
When it becomes a process of opening and unwrapping
as fast as they can, just kinda take note of that for you.
So while that's something I can't say
what the right or magical amount is,
I kind of lean on the less is more.
But again, it's totally up to you.
Because then that way, your kids can really develop
an appreciation for what they have,
and be thankful for what they have,
and really focus on what they've got,
rather than being buried in a pile of toys,
and not really knowing how to crawl out of it, right?
It's hard, it's hard, the struggle is real.
And this kind of also ties in with another question I got
from Sunshine, who sent me a question via email,
and her question was, "How can I convince my kids,
who are three and six, to be happy with only one big gift?"
This is a big one, right?
Like, managing expectations, and wanting our kids
to feel happy and thankful on Christmas morning,
and not feel like they've been,
I don't think shortchanged is the right word,
but have them be ungrateful for what they've gotten.
And one thing that I think we can do as parents
that I think often gets overlooked,
is involve our kids in the gift-buying process.
Like, how many of you out there,
just go and take care of it all, right?
You do all of the shopping for everything,
and don't really involve, necessarily,
your partner or the kids in any of it,
you're making the list, you're doing the shopping,
you're wrapping, you're setting everything up.
It's hard to be grateful for something
when you don't have an understanding
of the process of what goes into it.
So my challenge for you would be to start involving,
and everyone, for all of us,
start involving your kids in the gift-buying process,
so they can see what's involved,
they can see all the hard work,
and all the thought that goes into buying gifts,
and it's not just as easy,
as, "Oh wow, look at this, my favorite GI Joe,
on to the next thing."
Because then they'll have an understanding
of what's going into it.
So sit down with your kids, and make your list,
and have them brainstorm, "What would be a good gift
"for grandma, what do you think your uncle would like,
"how about your cousin, what do you think he would like,
"what about dad," make those lists, take them shopping,
I'm not suggesting that you do all of your shopping
with your kids, of course, I'm not trying to send you off
the deep end completely, but some of it.
So that they have an idea of what it's like
to go to the store, what it's like to go to the store
when you go and maybe, what you wanted to buy
is out of stock, what that's like.
Then involve them in wrapping the presents,
have them involved in remembering to take the gifts
to the party, right?
Sometimes that's half the bottle,
just remembering to put it in the car!
So then that way, they have an appreciation
of everything that goes into buying the gifts,
because sometimes I think we can have these expectations
of our kids, and we want them to be grateful,
but we don't actually include them in the process
of seeing what goes into it,
so that they can really develop an appreciation.
So often, we just kind of hand it on a silver platter,
and then expect that our kids are gonna have
those deep feelings of gratitude.
So involve them, include them, and I think that'll go
a long way, in helping build that sense of gratitude.
And then, Ben, with your question,
just regarding age-appropriate gifts,
if you find your kids are getting gifts from relatives
or family or whoever, and it's either not age-appropriate,
or it's just not appropriate at all,
it's still a really good lesson
in showing gratitude and appreciation to the giver.
You can set it aside, or if there's a gift receipt,
by all means, exchange it.
And if it's something really inappropriate,
if it's something that, the first thing for me
that comes to mind is guns, I know a lot of people
have really strong opinions on guns,
if it's something like that, where you don't want it
in your house, just a really open conversation.
It doesn't have to be like right there
under the tree on Christmas morning,
but just, I am all about open communication,
honesty's the best policy.
It doesn't mean you have to be a jerk about it, right?
But just keeping things open, keeping things open,
it goes a long way.
Okay, and our next question is tied in again
with the theme of gratitude, and it comes from JanNise.
"What should I do if my child doesn't want their gift?"
Ugh, I know, who's been there? (raises hand)
It's hard, it's hard enough when it's just you
and your family on Christmas morning,
but then add in your child doing that,
or expressing their displeasure with what they got
at a family function, and it can make
your blood pressure go up, right?
It can be a real challenge.
So the first thing with this, I think is just
giving yourself a little reality check,
because so often, we hold these crazy expectations
for our kids, that they should always say the right thing
and do the right thing, and always be grateful,
but it is hard, it is hard when you are expecting something,
it's hard enough for us as adults, right?
To, I don't wanna say disguise our disappointment,
but it can be hard to be grateful in those moments
where your expectations were maybe out of line with reality.
So just kind of reality check that,
and have a little bit of compassion for your kids, that,
okay, heck, if it's hard enough for me
to show gratitude sometimes, no wonder
it's a challenge for them.
And of course, avoid, I say avoid,
and this is so hard, because for many of us,
myself included, it's our knee-jerk reaction to say,
"You should be grateful, you should be thankful,"
going all negative on our kids.
That is not going to create warm and fuzzy feelings
in anyone, it's just gonna make our kids
want to run in the other direction.
So I know it's hard, but try to zip it,
and avoid those knee-jerk reactions.
And then what you can do instead is practice,
and coach them ahead of time.
And I talk about this all the time,
practice and coaching our kids in these situations,
because again, I think oftentimes our kids
are in these situations, that they've had
no experience with, or no guidance with,
and we just magically expect they're gonna know what to do.
So one thing you can practice is just role playing
gift giving and gift receiving.
Role playing how to say thank you.
Role playing, "Oh my gosh, I just unwrapped
"this stuffed pineapple that I didn't want,
"how am I gonna respond?"
So your kids have a chance to practice,
and then, because it's really not
until you start going through the motions,
that your kids can see when it's gonna be a challenge,
and you can see when your kids are gonna be stumbling,
and then you can give them some alternatives
of things to try instead. So that they go
into these family situations, feeling ready,
and feeling prepared.
And sometimes, you will do all of those things,
you will practice, you will role play,
you will coach them through all these different situations,
trying to set them up for success,
and they will still be incredibly rude in the moment,
and hurt somebody's feelings.
And that is so hard, that is so hard.
So in those moments, one thing that I like to try and do
is just model gratitude, and model respect.
So I myself will thank the person for the gift,
because we can tell our kids to do things
umpteen million times, but there's really nothing
speaks louder than actions, and having that model.
And then of course, speaking to our kids after the fact,
about, "You know what, when you said that,
"it really hurt your uncle's feelings,
"he worked really hard at getting that gift."
Just having that open conversation with them
so they can see that there were hurt feelings,
and they can see that you don't always have to love
everything, and just appreciating the thoughtfulness
that went into it. Because I think sometimes
it's so easy, heck, for us adults as well,
to get wrapped up in the actual contents of the gift,
when that's really not what it's about, right?
It's about thinking of someone else,
showing our love for someone else,
putting a little bit of time and effort into
getting something that we think they would like,
that's what it's about, not the end product,
so teaching our kids, behind the scenes, of course,
I'm not suggesting you do this, again,
underneath the Christmas tree,
but talk to them after the fact,
and then maybe they could write a note, or give a call,
apologize, say thank you. I feel like,
so much of the stress that we face as parents,
and so many of those, like,
what the fricking heck is happening in this moment,
it's not about what's happening in the moment,
it's about how we handle it,
and how we deal with it after the fact. So,
give it a try, coach them through it.
But if, hey, if all hell breaks loose,
it's always a great opportunity
to clean things up afterwards.
And by cleaning things up, I mean clean things up
*with* our kids, not doing it for them.
Helping them and coaching them,
and walking through the process of what that's like.
Alright, and our last question comes from J'Brianna,
and she asked, "What would you do if your kids expected
"more than what you gave them?"
Oh goodness, is this ever a hard one,
and this does not just apply to the holidays.
This can apply to going to the drive-through,
this can apply to candy machines after hockey.
This is such a good question,
dealing with our kids' expectations.
And first and foremost, the biggest thing is,
I don't know if standing your ground is the right word,
but, resisting the temptation to give in, and give more.
Give more, do more, be more, because that really is just
teaching our kids that, "You know what,
"we complain, we get more."
It doesn't really teach them to deal with what they've got,
and have gratitude for what they've got. So really,
if you have a set number of gifts that you're gonna get,
or whatever the limit or boundary it is,
I really encourage you to stick to it.
And it's also a really good opportunity
if you find that this is happening a lot with your kids,
if your kids are disappointed
in the number of gifts that they got,
or they had all these big expectations,
you feel like they're developing that sense of entitlement,
just reality check yourself, and just look at,
if you're spoiling your kids or not.
Are you giving them every single thing
that they're asking for?
And I know we can think of this in terms of gift giving,
receiving, but sometimes, I know for me,
it was a big a-ha moment when I realized
every time I went through the drive-through,
I would get my kids a Timbit, or I would get my,
a Timbit is a very Canadian word,
so for anyone watching outside of Canada,
like little mini donut holes,
or every time after hockey practice, getting a candy.
Our kids sometimes need to practice
the act of not getting.
So they know that it's not just,
"I ask for something, and I get it,"
so that's something to just practice all year-round,
the act of not getting.
So if they're used to always getting that treat,
or always getting something at the grocery store
checkout aisle, start the process
of not making it an every time kind of thing,
because that's what creates expectations,
and a sense of entitlement,
and we can't really blame them
if we have been handing everything over on a silver platter.
So just practice the art of not getting,
not giving in to everything, so our kids
have a chance to deal with disappointment,
because it really is a life skill.
I actually think it's a massive life skill,
developing a sense of resilience, a sense of,
it feels funny saying like, a sense of grit,
and not dealing with getting candy,
but sometimes, it is a pretty tough pill to swallow,
if you want something. And it won't always be easy,
they'll probably be pretty vocal about it,
but sometimes standing your ground
is the best thing you can do for your kids.
So guys, I really hope that helps,
I know Christmas gift giving, and holiday gift giving,
can be like a massive minefield,
it can be a real challenge for such a variety
of different reasons, so just try to involve your kids
in the gift giving and receiving process,
to help them develop that sense of gratitude,
coach them through the process of gift giving
and gift receiving, so they know how to say thank you,
they know how to deal, when maybe they got something
they didn't like, and then also work on broadening
your kids' worldview, so they can see that,
you know what, not everybody has a mountain
of presents on Christmas morning.
And just to be thankful, just to be thankful
for what they've got, and to not be afraid to cut back
on the number of gifts, because hey, less is more.
The more we can teach our kids to appreciate
what we've got, the better.
Like, is there really any better gift for our kids
to learn that?
To learn that lesson from an early age,
so I hope that helps, of course,
if you have any questions, comments,
join the conversation below.
I always, always love hearing from you!
Happy holidays, and I'll see you in the next video!
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Miracle Pictures and Miracle Images in Medjugorje - Duration: 2:32.
In Medjugorje ...
In the middle of the night …
Under the rain … The prayer group ...
With a lot of courage ... Went up the hill ...
They want to change the world ... They want love ...
Reign in the World ... They pray for you ...
They pray for me ... They pray for us ...
They pray for France ... The change will be ...
By France ... It's time to change …
It's time to learn to pray ... it is time to pray with the heart ...
No matter what you did before ... Today change ...
Open your heart to prayer ... You alone to pray ...
Well pray alone ...
You suffer ...
It's hard … It's difficult …
Finally … You go in the fight ...
Hang it will shake you ...
It is Mary who guides us ...
To victory ...
Pictures of Medjugorje taken by pilgrims ...
We can see the figure of Mary in the sky ...
One can see, again, the figure of Mary in the sky ...
Look closely at these pictures is pictures taken by pilgrims in Medjugorje ...
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【DOS AND DONT'S】5 Watercolor Mistakes to avoid - Duration: 10:01.
In this video I will give 5 dos and don'ts regarding watercolors that I have figured
out over the years, and some even just recently.
Personally, I feel like the "dos and don'ts" format often simplifies things too much, because
lots of aspects just aren't black or white.
But we should still take a closer look at our medium, because there are topics that
affect not only beginners but all kinds of artists.
Please feel free to share it with the people you think this video could help out.
Let's start with number one
1.When you start painting you really want to make sure what colors are granulating.
Have you ever had watercolors dry down crumbled on your paper, making it god damn hard to
paint those sweet smooth areas?
Worry no more!
That effect is called granulation and it's not a lack of quality of your paints, but
a natural property of certain pigments to agglomerate on the paper.
you just ought to know which ones granulate and which ones don't.
Let me illustrate that with an example: Here I use 2 ultramarines from Schmincke,
one is ultramarine finest and the other one is french ultramarine.
Both have a very similar tone, but don't let them fool you, they are not the same.
I apply them with the same amount of water and let them dry.
You might notice the french one dries down differently, that cheeky scrub.
And as I said, it's not a question of quality.
Here's what happens: When water is added, the pigments separate from the binder and
settle into the "valleys" of the paper.
As it dries in the "valleys" it leaves a grainy texture.
Cheaper colors actually tend to granulate less, because they are less pigmented.
Using colors without knowing about this specific property might ruin the results we have in
mind, leaving us in frustration when we try to get something even and clean.
So what we DON'T want to do is letting these backstabber paints screw our painting when
this effect is not needed.
But granulation isn't inherently bad, we just need to know about it so we can work
with it and can create interesting and beautiful paintings.
In portrait painting it's great for freckles for example.
Just use a tiny amount of granulating paint and spread it in the wet area.
It's also a great tool to add texture to your landscape paintings.
For example, you can simulate surfaces like rocks and foliage with a nice and crisp grainy
texture.
The question you might have is "How do I find out whether a color is granulating?"
Depending on the brand, you can check their website or simply swatch them on a different
sheet of paper before using the colors on an artwork.
2.
DO acknowledge that some watercolors stain your paper more than others and DON'T just
ignore that.
Different watercolors are made from different pigments and just as with granulation, some
colors are more likely to stay on your paper forever.
No matter how hard you try, you can't remove them, while other colors are almost fully
washable, which makes correcting much easier.
There are some that stain your paper, which means it is hard or almost impossible to wash
them off.
Knowing this about your colors comes in handy especially if you want to sketch with your
colors and not pencils.
Here for example I sketch a landscape with washable colors that in this case is the french
ultramarine from earlier.
With non staining watercolors you can do something like an underpainting and with every new wash
your initial sketch will disappear.
On the other hand, it might not be that beneficial if you are working on a lets say deep and
dark background.
With every new wash you push and rub the colors away because they just won't stick to the
paper, making layering hard and the whole job feel unrewarding and you won't have
a fun time.
So again DON'T get demotivated by certain colors that just won't come off your paper
or that leave holes when you strike over them with a brush.
What you should want to DO is using staining or non staining colors purposefully or at
least know their features.
To figure that out with your palette do tests or look it up.
Granulating colors normally also are non staining, but it's safer to just try it yourself and
go by experience.
3.
The third tip is about watercolor edges.
I noticed a common struggle with watercolors when trying to paint smooth gradients: It's
easy to unintentionally add watercolor edges where there shouldn't be any.
I experienced a lot of people get frustrated by that.
Especially when it comes to painting skin because it becomes most visible when the skin
almost looks like it got burned.
The Do and Don't to this one might sound simple but it's essential to achieve the
intended result : DO wet the whole area that you want to have
a smooth gradient and DON'T just wet a tiny spot when the colors are supposed to bleed
together with the rest.
Watercolors need water to flow.
When you are working on a face and want to have a blended look, it's essential to wet
the whole area and only then start adding color.
Wash after wash you have to wet everything again to keep that look.
Sometimes the paint dries unevenly, so you have to keep an eye on the drying process
as well.
If you have puddles on the paper, watercolor edges might appear around those areas where
the paper already dried while the puddles are still wet.
All of this comes with experience but still it is important to make behaviour like this
present.
4.
A lot of you started wondering how I had so much control over the water in my brush.
Don't start stroking without a tissue nearby.
Regardless of how messy or abstract your painting is going to be, you never want to miss the
option to clean your brush.
And it doesn't matter if it's a tissue, toilet paper or a cotton rag, as long as it
absorbs water and color.
This way you can affect whether you apply just a light shade or bold colors.
It offers a way to match the tones with the color you previously used so you don't unintentionally
use too much color.
Not only can you control the amount of color, but also the amount of water that is left
in your brush.
Knowing how wet or dry your brush is, is mandatory to avoid watercolor edges or purposefully
use them.
You don't want to have a big drop of water accidentally ruin your work.
You can also use it to take color from your paper as long as it's wet, to lighten areas
or to create textures like clouds.
It's essential to correct mistakes.
Use a tissue, always, for cleaning your brush, the paper and controlling the amount of water
in your brush.
5.
Use the right paper.
That is not to say that there is the wrong watercolor paper in general, but it should
match your purpose.
Depending on your usage, with watercolor paper you can go wrong sometimes.
There are different purposes for different papers: I figured, when your goal is to draw
sketches with only one or 2 washes, 200g are alright.
This paper won't bend as much as thinner paper, but it still happens sometimes, especially
if it's not glued or stretched.
I usually recommend 300g paper.
It's thicc enough to endure heavy washes of water and erasing pencil sketches as well.
Normally you can't go wrong with it.
Also, using an eraser won't affect that paper as much as thinner products.
Of course the texture should also fit your motive.
Paper that was pressed by heated rollers is called hot pressed and due to that it has
almost no texture at all.
This makes it perfect for any kind of illustrative drawing, since it not only gives your painting
a smooth look, but also because it's just simply easier to scan and print your work.
Cold pressed paper on the other hand is still more common among watercolor artists.
It has a rough and grainy texture that creates the typical watercolor look.
It's more suitable for extreme wet in wet techniques.
Stroking the brush rapidly on the dry surface gives an attractive look that you can't
really achieve on hot pressed paper, making it interesting for landscape painting and
those of the more expressive kind.
So check if your paper matches your purpose.
Paper that is too thin and gets wavy all the time, or paper that tears or creases when
you use an eraser, is depressing and you won't find joy in working with materials that can't
handle your project.
To prevent situations like these I recommend to do tests, ask for and use sample paper
from your store if that is possible and decide what paper fits your interest the best.
You will figure out that it doesn't need to be expensive or high end, but that it depends
on your intentions.
Alright, that was my 5 Do's and Don'ts for watercolors.
As I said in the beginning I don't want to dictate what to do and what not to do.
All I wanted to say is that it's best to inform yourself before getting started.
And I hope that I could achieve that with this video.
How are your feelings towards do's and dont's?
Do you think it's helpful or limiting to present tips that way?
And do you have other tips that I didn't mention?
Please tell me in the comments.
:) By the way, my artbook is finally back in
my Etsy shop.
It is the second editiion and I am not sure if there is going to be a 3rd edition so grab
it while it's still there.
If you order in November you have a much better chance at receiving it before Christmas.
Thank you very much for watching, see you in the comments, or in the next video, Bye
and have a great time.
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It's because of the red sunlight.
And trust me, it'll make you weaker than you can possibly imagine.
You did all this just to get me?
Do you know how many innocent people you killed?
Their lives to save mine?
Well they should feel honored.
It's a strange sensation, isn't it?
Feeling vulnerable.
And it's just gonna get worse, because this red sunlight is softening you up,
Until pretty soon, I'm gonna crack you open like a walnut.
Then when I take your healthy heart, I'm gonna put it in her.
Which means we should probably get you going.
Good.
That'll give me time to talk to...
Myself.
Did you hear that?
Everyone else is on Earth-X, and Kara only has a few hours before they go full Mengele on her.
We gotta stop them.
Got any ideas?
I don't know, give me some time to think.
iris, I'm all for girl power and everything,
but how are you and I gonna stop the meaner Nazi version
of my whatever-he-is right now, and people with superpowers?
We don't have to.
I just need to get to the pipeline and get Cisco.
He could turn off all the power to the building and breach us out of here.
Do you know how to get to the pipeline from here?
I think so.
Lead the way, McClane.
Crisis on Earth-X Night 2 continues tonight at 8/7c on The CW.
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KAWAII BOX 💖 NOVEMBER 2017 + GIVEAWAY - Duration: 7:26.
Hello again and today's video is another Kawaii Box review
We'll find out what's in this cute box soon
Remember to stay with us till the very end of this video because we also have a surprise for you!
There aren't any leaflets this time and they used to fell out of the box right after opening it
But we have tips for perfect unboxing!
We have to take pictures
Then we have to share it and just smile
After adding this photo on Instagram and writing #KawaiiBox
we have a chance to win another box worth 100$
so it's worth it!
As always, we're gonna take out one thing
It's like picking a random thing and finding out what's inside
Sometimes those things are very surprising
but they're really cute at the same time
As always, I cannot wait
I'm opening it!
I won't take out the biggest thing yet
I'll pick the thing that fascinated me
Because it's...
The first time when...
we got food!
Everything is written in Japanese so I have to guess what it is
I think these are apple flavored sweets
We'll taste them at the end of this unboxing video
I'll pick another thing ALSO not the biggest one
We decided not to do it so easily
So I'll pick something small again
These are hair pins!
Hair pins with milk, banana milk and water!
I'll open it
And see how they look
I'll put it here
Carol has a new look for today
Maybe I'll find something for me as well
I took out a notebook
I think it's the first time, too
It's a notebook with a very cute girl
She's wearing a familiar outfit but I don't wanna make fool of myself and say what outfit it is
But this feels... Really nice to touch
It's just a simple notebook
It's more like a calendar-diary because you can write down the date
Very cool and useful thing!
I'll take another thing which is quite big
I see it from afar but I don't know what it is... Yet
This is... Oh my God!
This is a rabbit and...
A chicken?
With an ice cream and a pan?
Why not?
I'm gonna open it because I already see that it's very fluffy and nice to touch
I can see it!
Yes, I was right!
It's a really fluffy bag!
You can put there whatever you want
Carol picked one big thing so I'll pick the other one
And this is a blue toy
It's a seal
Can you see it?
It's a seal!
It's definitely not small
It's as big as my hand!
It's very cute!
We had a cat before
But... Please, it's so kawaii!
Oh Gosh, it's hard to find another word for that!
I noticed that there were more colors
White, white with a bow, pink, yellow and we got the blue one
It's so cute!
I'll tell you that I checked and this seal is very plushy and it's hard not to touch it!
I'll pick another thing and I noticed something we already got before...
Yeah, we had it! But a different version of it
Now we got hearts and before there were circle diamonds
These are diamond stickers
Just like I said, we already got those diamonds but circle ones
I think we're close to the ending and there is nothing left for me
But I found something!
This is...
Okay, I'm going to guess whether it's a pen or a pencil
I'll say that it's a pen
It's a shoe
And a writing saying...
Can you keep a secret?
Okay, I'll open it and we'll find out
whether it's a pen or a pencil
I guessed right!
It's a pen!
I just noticed that there is a bear face right here on this shoe
So it's really cute!
We love cute pens!
Really, we have a huge pen collection
We can be proud of it
It's a pity that we're about to finish our studies soon
Because we love pens and we have many of them, various colors, various patterns
and I never feel too old for that!
I think there is only one thing left
No, maybe not the last thing
I'm not sure
I picked something... What is it?
These are... Another stickers!
With gudetama!
Gudetama is an egg
Yolk... And white...
These stickers are transparent
This is something we never got before
I'm wondering whether it'll stick good or not
Some of the previous stickers were better, some were worse
But we'll see!
We finally found the leaflets at the bottom of this box!
The first one is the list of the things we found in this box
It's a November 2017 box
It's a huge list
The other one is... Something I already mentioned
#KawaiiBox on Instagram
You can win another box worth 100$
And the last one is another box, Japan Candy Box
so a box with Japanese candies
As always, we're not the only one to get those cute things!
You also have a chance to win them!
We're organising a giveaway with Kawaii Box!
All you have to do it to click the link from the description box
And fill in the forms
Like our Facebook page
Follow Kawaii Box on Instagram
You get an extra point for each thing
and you'll have a chance to win such box for yourself!
We'll announce the winner on our Facebook page
And we have only one thing left
We have to try the candies!
I touched it with my tongue and it crashed
Like Polish powder candies
But Polish ones are harder
These just melt in our mouths
I like these ones more
My flavor was definitely orange
I thought it was a mandarine
I have no idea, honestly
Mine tastes like strawberry mixed with bubble gum
and it reminds me of a powder, hard marshmallow
It was Kawaii Box unboxing
Let us know if you liked it!
Let us know which thing from our box you liked the most
Leave a thumb up!
Remember to subscribe to our channel because there will be more unboxing videos like this!
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The US Health Care System Needs Immigrants - Duration: 6:37.
as a recent eight-nation bracket tournament in the new york times showed
and i've discussed that a lot many people think the united states
healthcare system has a lot of problems so it seems reasonable to think of
policy changes that make things better not worse making it harder for
immigrants to come here to practice medicine would fail that test that's the
topic of this week's healthcare triage
by any objective standard the United States trains far too few physicians to
care for all the patients who need them we rank towards the bottom of developed
nations with respect to medical graduates per population when physicians
graduate from medical school they spend a number of years in a residency program
I did not enjoy mine although they have their degrees we still require them to
train further in the clinical environment to hone their skills
residents are more than learners though they're doctors they fill a vital role
in caring for patients in many hospitals across the country we don't have enough
graduates even to fill residency slots this means that we're reliant on
physicians trained outside the country to fill the gap a 2015 study found that
almost a quarter of residents across all fields were foreign medical graduates
and more than a third of residents and sub specialist programs were even
training aside foreign medical graduates are also responsible for a considerable
share of physicians practicing independently today about a quarter of
all doctors in the United States are foreign medical graduates as in many
other fields foreign medical graduates work in many of the areas that other
doctors find less appealing more than 40% of the American primary care
workforce is made up of people who trained in other countries and moved
here more than half of all the people who focus on caring for older people or
geriatricians are foreign medical graduates as well as if this weren't
enough foreign medical graduates are more likely to practice in geographic
areas of the country where there are physician shortages like non urban areas
and they're more likely to treat Medicaid patients - as a physician who
graduated from a domestic medical school I've often heard others disparaging
doctors who went to medical school outside this country as if they were
inferior those complaints are not supported by data study from health
Fair's in 2010 found that patients with congestive heart failure or myocardial
infarction had lower mortality rates when treated by doctors who were foreign
medical graduates another from earlier this year in the BMJ found that older
patients who were treated by foreign medical graduates had lower mortality as
well even though they seemed to be in general in other words foreign
medical graduates take care of patients who appear to be more ill but seem to
achieve better outcomes a recent study in annals of internal medicine shows
that these graduates are also responsible for a significant amount of
teaching of the 80,000 or so academic physicians in this country more than 18%
were foreign medical graduates more than 15% of full professors and medical
schools in the u.s. were educated elsewhere most often in Asia Western
Europe the Middle East Latin America and the Caribbean foreign medical graduates
also do a lot of research although they are ineligible for some NIH funding
which is granted only to citizens of this country they still manage through
collaboration to be primary investigators on 12 and 1/2 percent of
grants they led more than 18% of clinical trials in the US and were
responsible for about 18% of publications in the medical literature I
spoke to the lead author of the study Dhruv cooler who's a physician at New
York Presbyterian Hospital and a researcher at Weill Cornell he said and
I'm quoting our findings suggest that by some metrics these doctors account for
almost one-fifth of academic scholarship in the United States the diversity of
American medicine and the conversations ideas and breakthroughs this diversity
sparks may be one reason for our competitiveness as a global leader in
biomedical research and innovation the United States is not the only country
that relies on doctors trained or educated in other countries we're not
even the country with the highest percentage of such physician according
to data from the OECD almost 58 percent of physicians practicing in Israel are
foreign medical graduates about 40 percent of doctors in New Zealand and
Ireland we're also trained outside those country
because of the sizes of those nations even though the percentages of foreign
medical graduates are higher there the total numbers aren't as high as in the
u.s. though in 2015 the OECD estimated that the United States had more than two
hundred and thirteen thousand foreign trained doctors and no other country
comes close Britain had about 48,000 Germany about thirty-five thousand and
Australia France and Canada had between 22 and 27 thousand I've listened to
people tell me stories of physicians who leave Canada because they were
dissatisfied about working in a single-payer health care system that
might have been true debt to go but in the last 10 years that
number has dropped precipitously the number of Canadians returning to their
country to practice may actually be higher than the number leaving and
although many feared the coverage expansions from the Affordable Care Act
might lead to an overwhelmed physician workforce that didn't happen that
doesn't mean that America doesn't have a shortage of physician services as we've
discussed in previous episodes especially when it comes to the care of
the oldest the poorest and the most geographically isolated among us even
though we know foreign medical graduates care for these patients just
proportionally we make it very difficult for many born and trained elsewhere to
practice here some Americans need those doctors desperately all the evidence
seems to suggest that policies should be made to attract them not deter them
sometimes talking about drugs and sex education and health insurance aren't
advertising friendly and making those important videos could actually hurt our
bottom line healthcare triage is made possible in part therefore by our
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so thanks to all of them and particularly thanks to our surgeon
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merch as the holidays come up at HCT merch calm and I've got a book coming
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