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YouTube Channel Trailer Examples 2018 [Make yours AMAZING] - Duration: 6:09.
Sunny Lenarduzzi: Today I'm going to teach you how to create
an amazing YouTube channel trailer that grabs attention and subscribers, and if you want
to subscribe to my channel make sure you hit the subscribe button and the little bell to
get notified every time I post a new video.
For the bright side of branding, business, and being your own boss.
Your channel trailer is really the first impression of your channel, and you want to make it a
good one.
There are five factors that a good channel trailer must include.
Who you are, so you want to introduce yourself and give people your name.
Why you're a credible source, i.e., you're the founder of a certain company, you're an
author, you're the creator, or even if you have a blog that you want to tell people that
you founded.
Just give them some kind of a source of why you're an expert on the topic you speak about
on your channel.
You also want to have a content benefit for your viewers, so how will your viewers benefit
from watching your videos?
That gives them a reason to stay tuned and subscribe.
How often you post, this is really important because if people don't think you post often,
they won't subscribe to your channel.
Finally, your channel trailer should absolutely have a call to action to subscribe to your
channel and also to go to your website or wherever you want to drive them for more information.
I'm actually going to show you how to upload your channel trailer to your channel at the
end of this video, but before I do that, I wanted to give you a glimpse in to my very
first channel trailer that grew my channel from scratch to 50,000 subscribers, and it's
simple, and you can create one very similar to it.
I wanted to give you guys a glimpse into what that looks like.
Hi, I'm Sunny.
Welcome to my YouTube channel.
This is where you'll find social media tips and tricks, tech and app reviews, behind the
scenes vlogs, and so much more.
Each week I'll bring you brand new videos, so be sure to subscribe to my channel so you'll
be the first to know when I upload a new video.
Make sure you comment below to say hello.
I'll see you soon.
Try and keep it under two minutes, because you really want to make it quick and give
people a reason to watch the entire thing.
In order to script your video and keep it under that two minute mark this is a sample
script that I recommend using.
It should go something like hi I'm, introduce yourself and your name.
Welcome to my YouTube channel.
I'm an entrepreneur, gamer, blogger, makeup expert, whatever you happen to be, and on
my channel I'll be posting videos about X, Y, and Z every single Tuesday, every single
week.
Make sure you're giving people the frequency of how often you post.
You're going to give them that viewer benefit next, so you'll learn how to X from my channel.
Be sure to subscribe for new content and comment below to introduce yourself.
You can take this script and use it for your channel trailer as well.
Now, as far as getting the right footage for your channel trailer, here are a few things
that you definitely need.
You want to have yourself on camera so people can see who they're subscribing to.
Next you want to make sure that you have some B roll footage, which means footage of the
things that you're talking about.
If you are a beauty blogger, you want to have footage of you doing makeup either on yourself
or somebody else.
That's called B roll.
Then you want to include some vlog style or action shots to draw people's attention in
and show that you're a real human being.
Then finally it's always good to add a little bit of music on your channel trailer as well.
I have a whole video on finding good royalty free music on my channel.
I'll link to it below this video.
Now, you know how to create your YouTube channel trailer, so now I'm going to show you how
to actually add it and upload it to your channel in the right spot.
To add a channel trailer to your channel, you're going to go to your channel on YouTube.
Make sure that you're actually logged in, and go to the little gear wheel or the settings
wheel on the right side, beside the subscribe button.
You want to look right here, customize the layout of your channel.
Make sure this is turned on.
You can see mine is turned on.
This is for when you want to add your channel trailer.
It allows you to do other things as well, add playlists into sections, that kind of
stuff.
Make sure this is turned on first, otherwise you won't be able to do this.
Then you want to go to this section here.
It says either for returning subscribers or for new visitors.
This is what new visitors are going to see and this is your channel trailer right here.
I already have a channel trailer added to my channel, but if you're going to add a new
channel trailer this is the place to do it.
It would have a little button here that says add new channel trailer.
If you want to change your trailer or remove your trailer, you just hit the little pen
or pencil up in the top right corner.
If I wanted to change my trailer, I can pick any of my videos as you can see, or I can
just enter the URL of the video on my channel I want to make my trailer.
That's it.
That's as simple as it is to get your channel trailer set up on your YouTube channel.
You're good to go.
Now you know how to create your channel trailer but did you know there's still 14 other steps
that you might be missing in setting your YouTube channel up for success?
Make sure that you grab my boss YouTube channel checklist below this video.
I give you all 14 steps and exactly how to do them.
Also, below this video I've added a link to my new channel trailer, which has garnered
a ton of views and is a little more creative and flashy.
You can check that out to get some inspiration and ideas.
I've also linked to one of my favorite channel trailers on YouTube, which belongs to Miss
Karlie Kloss.
She has an awesome channel, and her trailer is on point, so check that out as well.
If you like this video, hit the like button below, share it with your friends, and be
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4 Tips How To Identify An INTJ In Public - Duration: 5:55.
4 Tips How To Identify An INTJ In Public
As one of the rarest personality types in the Myers Briggs lineup, INTJs enjoy a special
status that often comes with being rare.
On top of that, INTJs are also introverts which makes them even harder to find since
they spend less time out in the open where most people graze.
They are very private individuals and prefer quiet environments with moderate human interaction.
They don't need much socializing when they can busy themselves with passion projects
and making progress toward big-picture plans.
Many people may be interested in meeting an INTJ in person or want to determine whether
someone they already know is one.
From a distance, it can be difficult to distinguish an INTJ from an INFJ or ISTJ.
You likely know a few INTJs without realizing it.
Here is a helpful list of signs to look for that will show you how to spot an INTJ wherever
you encounter them.
1 - INTJ at the Market
If you go to the supermarket, you can spot an INTJ by the efficiency with which they
shop.
They don't like to tarry or linger.
When they go to market they go with a clear purpose in mind.
They may carry a list with them or have thought out in advance with great detail, everything
they intend to buy.
Because they dislike being in crowded places any longer than necessary, they will waste
little time tracking down their target items and completing their errand as quickly and
painlessly as possible.
They grab and go, and avoid engaging anyone in chit chat along the way.
They carry themselves with a sense of mission and they seem to know exactly what they're
doing and where they're going.
If a salesperson approaches them they will likely be terse in their responses and say
whatever they need to encourage them to go away.
They avoid eye contact with other shoppers as they briskly make their way to checkout.
If it were feasible, they would do all their shopping online.
Bookstores are the only stores where they really can take their time and browse.
2 - Resting Bitch Face (a.k.a the "Death Stare")
If you've followed the Myers Briggs long enough you will likely have heard of the INTJ
"death stare" or their infamous "resting bitch face".
INTJs get asked "why so serious?" in one form or another by concerned or intimidated
colleagues and family members.
If you see someone who seems to have a perma-scowl as their default facial expression, they are
probably an INTJ.
In most cases, the INTJ's appearance of displeasure is nothing more than their "thinking
face".
You may spot them staring off in some direction during which they are probably just immersed
in deep mental processing.
If they are unaware that they are being watched, you may even catch them silently mouthing
words as though they were pantomiming a discussion with themselves.
Alternately, the INTJ death stare may also appear as a "deer in headlights" look
or "resting bitch face".
Each of these expressions may appear angry or perturbed but generally, there is no emotion
behind them.
INTJs are often unaware of how intense their expressions appear to others and do it without
consideration.
They mean nothing by it in most cases, they just get lost in such intense concentration
that they become unresponsive to what's around them.
Whatever they are staring at, they are not actually looking at, but looking through.
People and objects just happen to be in the line of their gaze.
INTJs rarely show their anger so most likely they are not mad.
3 - INTJs Like the Sound of Silence
INTJs are quiet and comfortable with saying nothing where others would be compelled to
disrupt the serenity with conversation.
INTJs have no problem keeping to themselves even while sharing a small space with another
person such as on a plane or bus.
They're comfortable with being alone and may not bother to hide themselves in their
cell phone or pretend to be doing something.
The INTJ is probably that person sitting by themselves with a resting bitch face.
Don't worry they're okay.
Out in public, INTJs try to blend in and float under the radar.
They actually like having friends who enjoy being the center of attention because they
would rather observe and learn.
The INTJ pairs well with ENFPs who can provide a social lubricant that helps INTJs meet and
get on with new people.
4 - INTJ Clothing Style
INTJs prefer utility and practicality in their wardrobe.
They are something of minimalists and less likely to be found wearing colorful peacock
clothing and fancy accessories.
Many of them have simple tastes wearing things like cargo pants and turtlenecks.
They like to dress in simple modest attire that looks orderly and respectable.
They like jeans and dark colors and black and white is probably their most preferred
colors.
Some may wear light but cold hues such as blue, and in many cases they may wear variations
of the same ensemble every day.
Their wardrobe choices tend to follow a consistent theme and is meant to avoid drawing excessive
attention.
As Judgers, INTJs are more likely to dress properly and may even be somewhat stylish
and edgy.
But as INTs, they are likely to be disconnected from the physical world and may fail to see
any point in "dressing to impress" so to speak.
It's a toss-up for this type, but they do tend to dress better than their gauche NTP
cousins.
All in all, that's The 4 Tips How To Identify An INTJ In Public.
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Navigating Holiday Gift Giving Stress | Coffee With Kelly - Duration: 18:49.
- Well, hello, hello, my friend!
Cheers, and welcome to today's edition
of Coffee with Kelly, where we're talking
all things Christmas gift giving sanity.
'Cause it can drive you a little nuts, can't it,
when your relatives maybe ask for a specific list
of gifts for the kids, and then they don't end up
buying any of it.
Or maybe you're not sure how many gifts to buy.
Or maybe your kids are acting a little bit ungrateful?
How to deal in the moment, or how to manage
kids' expectations, we're covering it all,
so grab your coffee, and we'll get right to it!
(upbeat music)
Okay, so kicking things off, our first question
comes from Lisa via YouTube, and she asks,
"How do I start the conversation with relatives
"that mean well, but ask for a list of gift ideas,
"and then go and purchase something else?"
Woo-hoo, Lisa, I think you hit on a little bit
of a hot topic there, because I have gotten this question
from several other people, the struggle is real!
And in answering it, I'd have to ask, I guess,
I know it's annoying when people go to answer a question
and just ask more questions, but,
what is the real issue, what's really getting
your goat here?
Is it that your kids are really wanting something
and they're disappointed?
Are your kids feeling like, grandma, or Aunt Sandra,
isn't really paying attention to their interests
or what they're looking for?
Do they feel like they're not special,
do they feel like there's not much thought
going into the gift?
Or is it something more on your end?
Are the kids totally fine with
what the relatives are getting them,
but you're feeling upset,
are you feeling like maybe you're being overshadowed?
Or are you feeling like they're spending too much money,
or do you feel like they're spoiling their kids,
there is a two-parter, actually, to Lisa's question,
where, you're trying to cut back,
you're trying to go a little bit more minimalist,
but then the relatives are still going overboard
on the gifts.
So first, I would try to get really real with yourself,
as to what's actually bothering you, and then go from there.
So whatever it was from that list of,
all the list of reasons we can get upset about gift-giving,
and they're all real, they're all real,
I've had so many questions surrounding this.
The key, then, is just to have a convo.
Have a really direct, open conversation.
And I know that's hard, I'm not trying to sweep that
under the rug, that can be challenging sometimes,
but sometimes I think we can feel like,
if we're going against what someone else wants,
or we have a different opinion on something,
that we're somehow being mean,
or we're somehow hurting someone's feelings,
and I really don't believe it has to be like that,
because, I think there's a lot to be said for being clear,
and setting boundaries, because if the roles were reversed,
and I was doing something that was pissing off
one of my relatives, or hurting someone's feelings,
or someone thought that I was out of line,
I would wanna know about it,
I would absolutely wanna know about it.
I know it's not like that in all cases, of course,
there's all kinds of different family dynamics,
but don't be afraid to have a really open conversation
with them about the issue, and about what's going on.
Another really important thing, I think too,
is to give our relatives a heads up.
If there is one really special gift our kids are wanting,
and when we're kind of, I don't even know
what the right word is, but like, divvying up,
like who's gonna get what,
give them a heads up that your child
is really, really looking forward to that gift,
and that if they're not going to get it,
to give you a heads up, so you know.
So that there's no disappointment on Christmas morning.
So just give them a heads up,
if it is a particularly special gift,
if it is something the child is really, really wanting --
it's totally fine if they wanna get something else,
but just to let you know. That way,
everybody's on the same page.
And this is a tricky one too, 'cause sometimes,
sometimes you do all of that, Lisa, right,
like sometimes, you have a really open conversation
with them about trying to cut back,
and trying to go a little bit more minimalist,
or you're upset about, I'm not saying this is you,
but I know this is the case for other people,
being overshadowed. It's like,
have you seen the movie Four Christmases?
Where everyone's kinda cut back on gifts,
has a $10 gift, and then the aunt and uncle come in
and buy the kids an Xbox?
Hello, hurt feelings right there.
So sometimes, you can do all that,
you can have all the conversations,
and there's still some disappointment, and it falls flat.
And sometimes, that's just how it goes, unfortunately.
All you can do is do your best, be open,
and then, you can use that even
as a lesson in gratitude for your kids.
As in, "I know you were really looking forward to this,
but grandma really wanted to get you this,
and she put a lot of effort into getting that for you."
And talking about things that way.
But I'm always about putting the relationship first, right?
Because really, in the end, a gift is a gift.
It's really about the relationship,
and that's what the holidays are all about. So,
I hope that helps! I know, it's tricky, it's tricky!
I don't wanna minimize it, but just give it a try,
and see what happens, have those conversations.
First get really real about what's bugging you,
and then have a conversation, and don't be afraid
to be really clear, get that little bit of gusto,
and you'll be good to go.
And along that similar theme, our next question
comes from Nakia and Ben, and these are actually
high school students, isn't this cool?
I had some questions submitted from Clarksdale, Mississippi,
Coahoma County High School, I really hope
I'm saying that right, and I'm sorry if I'm not,
but this next question is from Nakia and Ben,
and they ask, "What would be a good number
"of presents for my kids?" and the second question,
"How do I stick to buying gifts
"that are age and price appropriate?"
And for me, when it comes to an appropriate number of gifts,
I feel like that's completely individual,
and I really don't feel like it's my place to say
what the appropriate number of gifts are,
but it's something just to take note of,
when you see your kids opening your gifts,
and when you see your kids starting to lose interest.
My husband and I had a massive wake-up call
in this department, when our kids were probably,
they were probably two and three,
the first Christmas we really noticed
that we had gone overboard, because our kids,
they just wanted to play with their stockings,
we weren't even finished their stockings,
and it was time to move on to opening their real gifts,
and they had no interest. They just wanted to play
with what was in their stockings.
So if that's happening for you,
as soon as that point when your kids are losing interest,
or when they're not actually focusing
on what they're getting, and enjoying it in the moment
and having gratitude for what they got,
but are just on to like, "Okay, I want the next gift,
what's the next gift?"
When it becomes a process of opening and unwrapping
as fast as they can, just kinda take note of that for you.
So while that's something I can't say
what the right or magical amount is,
I kind of lean on the less is more.
But again, it's totally up to you.
Because then that way, your kids can really develop
an appreciation for what they have,
and be thankful for what they have,
and really focus on what they've got,
rather than being buried in a pile of toys,
and not really knowing how to crawl out of it, right?
It's hard, it's hard, the struggle is real.
And this kind of also ties in with another question I got
from Sunshine, who sent me a question via email,
and her question was, "How can I convince my kids,
who are three and six, to be happy with only one big gift?"
This is a big one, right?
Like, managing expectations, and wanting our kids
to feel happy and thankful on Christmas morning,
and not feel like they've been,
I don't think shortchanged is the right word,
but have them be ungrateful for what they've gotten.
And one thing that I think we can do as parents
that I think often gets overlooked,
is involve our kids in the gift-buying process.
Like, how many of you out there,
just go and take care of it all, right?
You do all of the shopping for everything,
and don't really involve, necessarily,
your partner or the kids in any of it,
you're making the list, you're doing the shopping,
you're wrapping, you're setting everything up.
It's hard to be grateful for something
when you don't have an understanding
of the process of what goes into it.
So my challenge for you would be to start involving,
and everyone, for all of us,
start involving your kids in the gift-buying process,
so they can see what's involved,
they can see all the hard work,
and all the thought that goes into buying gifts,
and it's not just as easy,
as, "Oh wow, look at this, my favorite GI Joe,
on to the next thing."
Because then they'll have an understanding
of what's going into it.
So sit down with your kids, and make your list,
and have them brainstorm, "What would be a good gift
"for grandma, what do you think your uncle would like,
"how about your cousin, what do you think he would like,
"what about dad," make those lists, take them shopping,
I'm not suggesting that you do all of your shopping
with your kids, of course, I'm not trying to send you off
the deep end completely, but some of it.
So that they have an idea of what it's like
to go to the store, what it's like to go to the store
when you go and maybe, what you wanted to buy
is out of stock, what that's like.
Then involve them in wrapping the presents,
have them involved in remembering to take the gifts
to the party, right?
Sometimes that's half the bottle,
just remembering to put it in the car!
So then that way, they have an appreciation
of everything that goes into buying the gifts,
because sometimes I think we can have these expectations
of our kids, and we want them to be grateful,
but we don't actually include them in the process
of seeing what goes into it,
so that they can really develop an appreciation.
So often, we just kind of hand it on a silver platter,
and then expect that our kids are gonna have
those deep feelings of gratitude.
So involve them, include them, and I think that'll go
a long way, in helping build that sense of gratitude.
And then, Ben, with your question,
just regarding age-appropriate gifts,
if you find your kids are getting gifts from relatives
or family or whoever, and it's either not age-appropriate,
or it's just not appropriate at all,
it's still a really good lesson
in showing gratitude and appreciation to the giver.
You can set it aside, or if there's a gift receipt,
by all means, exchange it.
And if it's something really inappropriate,
if it's something that, the first thing for me
that comes to mind is guns, I know a lot of people
have really strong opinions on guns,
if it's something like that, where you don't want it
in your house, just a really open conversation.
It doesn't have to be like right there
under the tree on Christmas morning,
but just, I am all about open communication,
honesty's the best policy.
It doesn't mean you have to be a jerk about it, right?
But just keeping things open, keeping things open,
it goes a long way.
Okay, and our next question is tied in again
with the theme of gratitude, and it comes from JanNise.
"What should I do if my child doesn't want their gift?"
Ugh, I know, who's been there? (raises hand)
It's hard, it's hard enough when it's just you
and your family on Christmas morning,
but then add in your child doing that,
or expressing their displeasure with what they got
at a family function, and it can make
your blood pressure go up, right?
It can be a real challenge.
So the first thing with this, I think is just
giving yourself a little reality check,
because so often, we hold these crazy expectations
for our kids, that they should always say the right thing
and do the right thing, and always be grateful,
but it is hard, it is hard when you are expecting something,
it's hard enough for us as adults, right?
To, I don't wanna say disguise our disappointment,
but it can be hard to be grateful in those moments
where your expectations were maybe out of line with reality.
So just kind of reality check that,
and have a little bit of compassion for your kids, that,
okay, heck, if it's hard enough for me
to show gratitude sometimes, no wonder
it's a challenge for them.
And of course, avoid, I say avoid,
and this is so hard, because for many of us,
myself included, it's our knee-jerk reaction to say,
"You should be grateful, you should be thankful,"
going all negative on our kids.
That is not going to create warm and fuzzy feelings
in anyone, it's just gonna make our kids
want to run in the other direction.
So I know it's hard, but try to zip it,
and avoid those knee-jerk reactions.
And then what you can do instead is practice,
and coach them ahead of time.
And I talk about this all the time,
practice and coaching our kids in these situations,
because again, I think oftentimes our kids
are in these situations, that they've had
no experience with, or no guidance with,
and we just magically expect they're gonna know what to do.
So one thing you can practice is just role playing
gift giving and gift receiving.
Role playing how to say thank you.
Role playing, "Oh my gosh, I just unwrapped
"this stuffed pineapple that I didn't want,
"how am I gonna respond?"
So your kids have a chance to practice,
and then, because it's really not
until you start going through the motions,
that your kids can see when it's gonna be a challenge,
and you can see when your kids are gonna be stumbling,
and then you can give them some alternatives
of things to try instead. So that they go
into these family situations, feeling ready,
and feeling prepared.
And sometimes, you will do all of those things,
you will practice, you will role play,
you will coach them through all these different situations,
trying to set them up for success,
and they will still be incredibly rude in the moment,
and hurt somebody's feelings.
And that is so hard, that is so hard.
So in those moments, one thing that I like to try and do
is just model gratitude, and model respect.
So I myself will thank the person for the gift,
because we can tell our kids to do things
umpteen million times, but there's really nothing
speaks louder than actions, and having that model.
And then of course, speaking to our kids after the fact,
about, "You know what, when you said that,
"it really hurt your uncle's feelings,
"he worked really hard at getting that gift."
Just having that open conversation with them
so they can see that there were hurt feelings,
and they can see that you don't always have to love
everything, and just appreciating the thoughtfulness
that went into it. Because I think sometimes
it's so easy, heck, for us adults as well,
to get wrapped up in the actual contents of the gift,
when that's really not what it's about, right?
It's about thinking of someone else,
showing our love for someone else,
putting a little bit of time and effort into
getting something that we think they would like,
that's what it's about, not the end product,
so teaching our kids, behind the scenes, of course,
I'm not suggesting you do this, again,
underneath the Christmas tree,
but talk to them after the fact,
and then maybe they could write a note, or give a call,
apologize, say thank you. I feel like,
so much of the stress that we face as parents,
and so many of those, like,
what the fricking heck is happening in this moment,
it's not about what's happening in the moment,
it's about how we handle it,
and how we deal with it after the fact. So,
give it a try, coach them through it.
But if, hey, if all hell breaks loose,
it's always a great opportunity
to clean things up afterwards.
And by cleaning things up, I mean clean things up
*with* our kids, not doing it for them.
Helping them and coaching them,
and walking through the process of what that's like.
Alright, and our last question comes from J'Brianna,
and she asked, "What would you do if your kids expected
"more than what you gave them?"
Oh goodness, is this ever a hard one,
and this does not just apply to the holidays.
This can apply to going to the drive-through,
this can apply to candy machines after hockey.
This is such a good question,
dealing with our kids' expectations.
And first and foremost, the biggest thing is,
I don't know if standing your ground is the right word,
but, resisting the temptation to give in, and give more.
Give more, do more, be more, because that really is just
teaching our kids that, "You know what,
"we complain, we get more."
It doesn't really teach them to deal with what they've got,
and have gratitude for what they've got. So really,
if you have a set number of gifts that you're gonna get,
or whatever the limit or boundary it is,
I really encourage you to stick to it.
And it's also a really good opportunity
if you find that this is happening a lot with your kids,
if your kids are disappointed
in the number of gifts that they got,
or they had all these big expectations,
you feel like they're developing that sense of entitlement,
just reality check yourself, and just look at,
if you're spoiling your kids or not.
Are you giving them every single thing
that they're asking for?
And I know we can think of this in terms of gift giving,
receiving, but sometimes, I know for me,
it was a big a-ha moment when I realized
every time I went through the drive-through,
I would get my kids a Timbit, or I would get my,
a Timbit is a very Canadian word,
so for anyone watching outside of Canada,
like little mini donut holes,
or every time after hockey practice, getting a candy.
Our kids sometimes need to practice
the act of not getting.
So they know that it's not just,
"I ask for something, and I get it,"
so that's something to just practice all year-round,
the act of not getting.
So if they're used to always getting that treat,
or always getting something at the grocery store
checkout aisle, start the process
of not making it an every time kind of thing,
because that's what creates expectations,
and a sense of entitlement,
and we can't really blame them
if we have been handing everything over on a silver platter.
So just practice the art of not getting,
not giving in to everything, so our kids
have a chance to deal with disappointment,
because it really is a life skill.
I actually think it's a massive life skill,
developing a sense of resilience, a sense of,
it feels funny saying like, a sense of grit,
and not dealing with getting candy,
but sometimes, it is a pretty tough pill to swallow,
if you want something. And it won't always be easy,
they'll probably be pretty vocal about it,
but sometimes standing your ground
is the best thing you can do for your kids.
So guys, I really hope that helps,
I know Christmas gift giving, and holiday gift giving,
can be like a massive minefield,
it can be a real challenge for such a variety
of different reasons, so just try to involve your kids
in the gift giving and receiving process,
to help them develop that sense of gratitude,
coach them through the process of gift giving
and gift receiving, so they know how to say thank you,
they know how to deal, when maybe they got something
they didn't like, and then also work on broadening
your kids' worldview, so they can see that,
you know what, not everybody has a mountain
of presents on Christmas morning.
And just to be thankful, just to be thankful
for what they've got, and to not be afraid to cut back
on the number of gifts, because hey, less is more.
The more we can teach our kids to appreciate
what we've got, the better.
Like, is there really any better gift for our kids
to learn that?
To learn that lesson from an early age,
so I hope that helps, of course,
if you have any questions, comments,
join the conversation below.
I always, always love hearing from you!
Happy holidays, and I'll see you in the next video!
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I like that you watch
it has been a beautiful
nice
amazing weekend
certainly
it was...
really awesome
and...
I really could go on and on
it really was...
so beautiful
a big like
it's also been a long time since I went to a concert
or that's actually how it feels
I think the last time was about a year or 2 ago
but anyway
it was really awesome
amazing
and it all worked out beautifully
and went great
and yeah just perfect
and...
so cool that...
I also had the pleasure
to meet 2 bandmembers
do some hugging
hugs are always a pleasure
still got a bit of a bear hug
not from the bear himself
I didn't see him
but that doesn't matter
it was funny...
those musicians were also really good
and...
especially Woody
well his name isn't Woody
but he really made me think of Woody Harrelson
so at one time he was playing a really awesome solo
it made me laugh so loud cause I thought
it really looked like it was Woody Harrelson
getting his groove on
it was good
and the other
the bass guitarist
he was totally passionately chill
cause he...
was playing like....
really cool
I thought that was really funny
yes and the trumpet player was cool...
they were all
and also there was a violin
a violin player
there was a man
violin is that a women (in dutch)
but well
they were absolutely awesome
yeah nice
it was also really good to see Jennifer again
she...
yeah
she is great
the things she is doing
she really is a creative
she travels a lot across the world and
doing all sort of things
and she also gives...
concerts
writes her own songs and music
and also a sort of...
holy cacao ceremonies
and stuff like that so...
on my channel there's a link to her channel
yes really cool
it was nice to see her for a bit and to connect once again
it makes me think of...
yeah for sure
I like
so yeah that are some beautiful things
nice memories
and experiences
right
and do not forget
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