Hello friends, In today's video we are going to talk about "Over Parenting"
There are times in our life, when our child comes back from school
And his bag is lying in some place, his clothes are all over the house
And our child has got some project from school & he's having problem in finishing the project
Or may be he says its very boring and I don't want to do it
But you wonder Oh !! If my child doesn't do it he'll not get grades
So what you'll do on his behalf you are doing the project
There would be times when you tie the shoe lace for your child
Because you wonder its easier to tie and we are getting late so let me just do it
Your child is capable of doing it but you don't permit your child to do it
So in all these 3 instances, what are we doing ?
Aren't we Over Parenting our child
Tomorrow our child has to go and face the real world as an adult
Then from childhood itself if we keep on doing all these things for our child
Slowly and gradually we are robbing our child of their capabilities
Not letting them believe in themselves
Not letting them take their decisions on their own
Not letting them that they can finish any given task
Not making them realise their responsibilities that if they have come back from school
Things have to go in the right place
So is this good for my child
Am I helping my child or am I making my child helpless
Actually we parents get anxious at times because we can't bear the pain
Of seeing our child failure or under perform & we go to rescue our child
Why are we doing these things?
Are we not robbing our child or not helping the child to develop the competence needed to face the world as an adult
So as parents, let us all try not to do all these things because
Today we might feel that Oh, we are doing the great job as a parent
We are taking care of our child and his projects, his studies and everything
But these things will affect our child which we might not realise it today
In future there might come a situation where our child has to take the decision
And he is capable of taking the decision on his own
But he might rely on others for their decision
Because from childhood what they have found ?
There were always somebody to help them, to guide them
Or they must have always rely on your decision
Because we were always there as parents
But in this bargain our child is not learning to rely on his own believes
On his own thoughts, on his own decisions
So this is not letting our child unleash the true potential the child has in him
So as parents, from now onward let us try to help our child in believing in his potential
And unleash his true potential and emerge victorious
I hope these tips helps you to make your child an independent person
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