How dare you ask me if I want to touch the baby's head when his head is stretching
my vajajay into oblivion
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you might that might speak to you so you know check it out today I'll be talking
about pregnancy and being at the end of it I call it pregnantitis well let's
get to it so I'm sitting there early that morning
hmm unable to sleep anymore bright-eyed bushy-tailed looking at the ceiling for
answers that aren't there I was 39 and a half weeks pregnant I want
to say month and I don't even think I could wait another day to have this baby
but I reminded myself just to hang in there and surely as life is minutes by minute
hour by hour time pass I could barely move my legs and turning
from left to right and the bed was becoming a chore it was impossible I
couldn't walk straight i waddled everywhere I went, I was peeing every
second every five minutes and even that became tiresome, I was eating 3, 4 o clock
in the morning this year was actually supposed to be about my weight-loss
journey but that turned out to be the opposite when I found out I was pregnant
with my first pregnancy which was twins. I was 125 pounds and I gained 50lbs ok
after they were born I lost about 30 pounds immediately but the side effect
of my choice of contraception was weight gain and boy did I gain. I ended up gain
gaining 10 pounds at 160 pounds I wasn't gaining any more so according to the BMI
it's my BMI I was overweight with this pregnancy though my starting weight was
160 pounds and by the 39th week I gaind 25 pounds already so you can guess
what I'll be doing this year yeah I'll be getting back to my pre-baby bod
yeah you're welcome I bought a baby doll for my daughter, at one time I remember I
was so bored during this pregnancy that I put it over my belly pretending the
baby was lying in my womb I was trying to see where he was you know starting to
see how many pounds he would weigh you know by this time I was done. I couldn't
take it anymore I just wanted to have this baby, I'd been pregnant since
February and it feels like the whole year I've been pregnant, just when I thought
it would be over my husband took some maternity pictures around
I think I was thirty eight weeks when we took their pregnancy pictures it was so
cold in November I I wish you know we could have taken better pictures but
after that when I saw myself glowing that kind of boost my confidence and
that helped me during the birth of my baby. I'm one of those girls who you know
when she was size 2 to 4 I thought I wouldn't um I thought I wouldn't get
heavier but pregnancy had its own agenda on my body as I would learn so if you
are like me thinking your body is gonna snap back and it's not gonna change and
you'll remain thin forever, good luck to you I got I got a rude awakening I
struggled with body image issues with both my pregnancies but I pretended
through it all that's all you can do the big nose of a protruding belly the
weight gain the warning and forgetfulness swollen feet acne oh my
goodness I had to get more uniforms bigger uniforms I just continued to ride
the wave to like got to shore I love the bigger boobs part though I
can't lie so in the second day of the 39th week I started having contractions
you know after being home for about a week with my you know my maternity leave
I was so happy that something was happening finally I was already tired of
staying home and eating up all the food in the house. I called
my mom, packed my bags up I called my doctor and at this time the contractions
were about six or seven minutes and from 4 p.m. to 8 p.m. you know it was just on
and on So I was instructed to keep tracking but
stay home you know don't go to the hospital unless the contractions were
closer and stronger so I fell asleep on the couch after a couple of hours I was
so disappointed when I woke up the next day nothing happened the next day also I
was like come on so the fourth day of my 39th week my
husband and I built it you know for my doctor's appointment
that was my last appointment contractions were coming in at five
minutes apart on the way there and when I was at since I was four centimeters
dilated I was like yes I was instructed to go home if I wanted and you know to
go to the hospital in about two hours so that I wouldn't be sitting around in the
hospital waiting I was so excited oh my goodness finally good news let's have this
baby well we decided to go home and get a couple of things wrong move there was
so much traffic so my darling husband decided to take a shortcut every
possible light we could hit turned red and I tell you we hit every pothole and
every speed bump we could find which made every contraction 1 million times
more unbearable by the time we got home, contractions were coming in every three
minutes at one time I contemplated going to the hospital directly from 1 p.m. at
the doctor's office we made it to the hospital and I was admitted around 4
p.m. by this time I was 7 to 8 centimeters dilated and four more hours
my baby was delivered so during his birth the nurse asked me do you want to
touch his head I was like oh no I don't want to touch his head, I was so
determined in my choice when I say in my mind I was like how dare you ask me if I want
to trust a baby's head when his head is stretching my vajayjay into oblivion
immediately they place him on my chest and we bonded. there aren't a lot of
advantages of having a c-section but the ones I know are that you know there's no
pushing involved it is recommended you know for previous complicated um vaginal
delivery and it can also be elective so that makes it predictable you know
regarding the baby's date advantages of vainal delivery is you know you're able
to get out of bed a couple of hours afterwards with assistance compared
to a lot more time after a c-section or next day sit-up time another advantage
um is a shorter hospital stay immediately you can also bond with the
baby you can also feed the baby immediately I
also ask some questions after the birth of my son my son so I'm gonna ask you
guys what did you struggle with when you were pregnant you know for me it was the
nose it got so big you know you can tell from across the hall also I'm a nurse I
had to get unit on bigger uniforms as I go to the end and also weight gain was
another problem for me another question that I asked was on how
did you cope with the struggles you had when you were pregnant I for me I
pretended a lot throughout the whole pregnancy I just pretend that everything
was fine I bought larger clothes I went from
large I think it was extra-large you know I ate I tried to eat less portions the
other question that I asked myself was what would I have done differently you
know with the struggles that I had with pregnancy I definitely wish I ate better
you know vegetables and I wish I exercise I really didn't walk but hey
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