Waching daily Jan 22 2018

Hi!

Welcome to this section on serverless computing paradigm.

In this section, we'll look at what serverless computing is, how is it different from traditional

"server-based" computing.

And, we'll also look at the four main benefits of serverless computing.

Before we look at Serverless Computing, let's first understand how the traditional "server-based"

computing works.

Server-based Computing typically follows a 3-tier architecture.

In 3-tier architecture, we have a database layer, an application layer, and a presentation

layer.

The database layer is where the database server is.

Application layer is where your application code runs.

And, presentation layer is where the UI is provided to the end user.

End users can interact with your application or your website in variety of ways.

They can use their web browser, or a mobile smartphone, or even an IoT device depending

on how you've designed your application.

Now, even before you start writing your server-based application, you have to make sure that a

couple of things are in place.

You've to create and setup your server, you've to install operating systems, install necessary

software, and, on ongoing basis, you also have to manage the server, manage the operating

systems, take care of the hardware upgrades, software updates, and so on.

You also have to make sure that your application is highly-available and fault-tolerant.

You might also need to have load-balancers in your applications.

And all this comes with added resources, added infrastructure, added costs.

Serverless Computing changes this paradigm altogether.

All the steps that we discussed just now, apart from writing your application code,

are no longer needed with serverless applications.

Serverless applications allow you to focus on your application logic without having to

worry about any servers.

There are no servers to maintain, no operating systems to take care of, no software to manage,

no hardware to upgrade.

And, your applications have built-in high-availability and fault-tolerance.

This simply means faster time to market.

You can really focus your energies on your core application logic and build your applications

with high-availability virtually at any scale, without having to worry about any servers

or operating systems.

Now let's look at the four main benefits of serverless computing.

First, as we discussed, there are no servers or operating systems to maintain.

You don't have to manage any servers or even have to install any operating systems or supporting

software.

Second, easy and efficient scaling.

Serverless applications can be scaled automatically or at the most with a few clicks to choose

your desired capacity.

There is no need to create any specialized scalable architecture or designs.

Third, high availability.

Serverless applications have built-in availability and fault tolerance.

So you don't need to have any specialized infrastructure to make your applications highly

available or fault tolerant.

All this is available to you by default.

Fourth, and this is a big one.

No idle capacity.

You pay only for what you use and no more.

For example, with traditional architecture, say you created a server with 100 GB of memory

and you're using only 10 GB of it.

But still, you'll have to pay for the 90 GB that you're not using.

But with serverless architecture, you pay only for what you use.

So if you're using 10 GB, you only pay for 10 GB.

Also, with AWS lambda which is the core component of Amazon's serverless platform, you pay only

for the time your code runs.

So there is no charge if your code is not running.

So if your code runs for say 100 milliseconds you are charged only for that 100 milliseconds

and no more.

That's really a very fine grained control and results in a substantial cost savings

for your business!

This brings us to the end of this section.

In this section, we looked at what serverless computing is, how is it different from the

traditional "server-based" computing and we also looked at the four main benefits of serverless

computing.

In the next section, we'll look at AWS serverless architecture and I'll also give you a quick

rundown on different web services that are part of Amazon's serverless platform.

So see you in the next section.

Thank you so much!

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5 things you didn't know about me - Duration: 15:00.

Hi guys and welcome to everydayidraw.

Today I wanted to share five things, you

did not know about me. And as you guys

probably know, I'm not the person, who

shares a lot of their personal life.

Simply because...

I have none. =D

I really want this channel

to be more about drawing

and inspiration, and stuff like that. And

since I work from home, I don't really

have a life. I mean, seriously. I might be

home for a whole week and don't really

go out that much. It's really hard to

share anything non-existent with you. But

today I wanted to talk about 5 things.

I did not really have to think that hard,

because this is just the thing, that are

on my mind recently, and if you remember

from the last video, I was saying, that

everything, that I would get from my

lovely patrons in December, in January,

I will send to an orphanage. And this is a

very specific one. I don't think, I've shared

this on this channel. But I do have an

adopted younger brother. He's with us for

two years now. I will give the donations

from Patreon, and I probably will add

something on top. I will give it to the

orphanage house, that he came from. And it

was a really hard experience to go there.

We had to actually go there for two

months, once we knew that we are adopting

him into our family. And to wait for the

whole paperwork to get through, we would

go there like every day. And it looks

like a normal kindergarten. And they only

allow you to visit, when kids are outside

playing. So this is like maybe one hour

per day. Every group in this kindergarten

has a very specific part in the yard,

where they are allowed to play. So they

are not allowed to leave this area. And

when you come there, all of those kids,

they know, that you might probably be

their parent. And they just follow you

with their gaze everywhere you go. It's

extremely heartbreaking to be there,

when you know, that when you talk to them

and when you play with them, you

don't really make anything easier.

Because you will not be there in, like a

couple of months. And knowing, that my

brother would have to stay there, because

I would have to leave in an hour, and he

would be there for another whole day.

It was just, like, I really felt a lot of

this weird feelings, that did not really

got easier. And this is why I know, that

I cannot really do much. And I extremely

appreciate my parents for doing this thing.

They are crazy and amazing. And extremely

brave. And I just wanted to give as much

help, as I can. Because it's better, than

nothing. So this is why I'm giving my

donations to the orphanage house. And

I mean, there are a lot of good causes, that

you can support. Like chronicle illness

patients or anything like that. But for

me, since I was there, and I had a very

personal contact with this reality. This

is why I'm supporting this one. But

I really want to encourage you guys this

year, try to give at least something,

maybe to the Goodwill, or any good charity

of your choice. I mean, we can all

complain about world being not a good

enough place, but I really want to

encourage you to do something, to make it

a better living for all of us.

Let's get to the next one.

If you guys met me in

the real life, and a lot of you did, you

know, I don't eat meat. I don't really put

any label on that, so I'm not calling

myself a vegan or vegetarian or anything

like that. I wanted to try and maybe not

eat meat for some time, and see how my

body would react. And from that point it

kind of stick. I do like animals,

excluding spiders of a very specific

size, when they are not cute anymore,

because they are big enough, but they're

not so big, that you can kind of mistake

them for something cute, like a mice, but

those spiders, that are in between, like

No.

I'm not really a big fan of saying, like,

"I will never do something". Like, "I will

never drink alcohol", or "I will never eat

meat", or "I will draw every single day",

because I feel, like, it was so much

pressure on you. So I find, that what

helps me a lot, is to say, like, I'm trying

this now. So I'll see, how it goes. So, if

in the future I will feel, like I really

crave meat, like a steak, or, I don't know,

whatever... I would probably consider

eating it. I will not be restricting

myself, but for now I feel, that my body

goes better without meat. And my skin

gets clearer. So I'm just sticking to

that routine. There is one exception though.

(vain attempts to say the name)

You know, this Vietnamese soup.

I'm a huge fan of Vietnamese cuisine.

I mean, like, guys, let's just take

this moment and praise Vietnamese cuisine,

because this is just...

Sadly, not any place

I go, they serve this soup without meat. Even if

In a lot of places, If you ask, they would

switch your chicken or beef to tofu. But

the stock would still be meaty. If I'm

craving for, and this happens to me

with scary frequency, like, a lot, I would

definitely go and eat a bowl of meaty soup.

Because, soup is just so good.

I think about death a lot.

Before you freak out,

let me just explain myself.

I was reading Mark Mansons's book.

It's called "Subtle art of not giving a fuck".

It had a lot of amazing ideas. But one,

that stuck with me the most, was that

death... Inevitability of death - Is the only

certainty, we have in life.

Everything else, that we have, is our

perception. Is this good or bad?

Do I like this person, or not? Do I really want

to draw or not? This is just, like, my thoughts.

And I cannot really be sure all of the

time, but what I can be sure off, is that

everybody will die, including me. They say,

this a lot. "Live every day, like

it's your last one",

and stuff like that. But you never

really think about it. If you try to

think about it, and this year I actually

tried a lot. Always it scares the sh*t

out of you. But then it gives so much joy

to life. Like, to everything, that you have

to face. For instance, the other day I had

my toilet clogged. It was a nasty thing.

And I was home alone. And to my horror,

I did not have this thing, that you used to

clean clogged toilet... How do you call this?

Let me google that.

"Plunger", or "force cup".

Let's call it force cup. So I did not

have a force cup, because last time we

moved, our old one was really scary, and

not cute looking. So I threw it away,

thinking, like, "oh I'll buy a new one"... and

I never did. So force cup was out of my

reach. I decided, I would just put

rubber gloves and there is no better way

to do it, but just dig deep into the

toilet. And I was home alone. But then

I figured, that during... The last time, I was

washing my floors, the last rubber gloves,

that I had, were punctured with

holes. So, I threw them away, thinking, like,

"I will buy a new pair", and I never

did. So, I had to do something with this

clogged toilet. And there was no better

way, like, no other way, but to really dig

with my bare hand and dig deep and clean

this clog. And...

...it was disgusting, but I did it.

Because it was Christmas time.

In Europe, if something happens

during Christmas,

you are alone to face it. No supermarkets

are working. And there is a very

low chance, that you will be able to call

to some professional and get a help

really quickly. After I did that, I was

like,... I scrubbed my hand with,.. with every

might I had. I would, even, like, after 2 or

3 days, I would still, like, sniff it a

little bit. But you know what? After

I thought, that I would die at some point...

This thought quickly transformed this

clogged toilet experience into something,

I was glad to have. Because I was alive.

And I was

enjoying life at its fullest.

yeah...

This thought actually helped me. And I'm still

working on that. But it helps me a lot to

get rid of anger and negative emotions.

Because I really want to help people.

And I really want everybody to feel better.

I have a limited amount of time. So why

would I want to spend it on making

myself feel, like I'm better, than

everybody else.

I would rather help people. And I would

rather make people feel better, because

they also have a limited time on this

planet. It's so much more fun to live it

in a very positive way, rather then

trying to explain, that somebody on the

Internet is wrong. This helps me a lot.

When, for instance, I face negativity on

the internet or, if somebody in real life

tries to be an a**hole, I feel like, I'm

invincible. Because I'm thinking, like,

Nooooooo!...

My camera died.

Okay, we are back after a

short break, after my camera died.

I totally forgot, where did I end the

previous section. So I will gradually

move to the point number 4.

I am gradually trying to reduce the number of

litter, that I produce. This is why this

year I've decided to first of all, get

rid of the one time use plastic bottles,

that we buy all of the time. So I bought

myself a bottle with the charcoal,...

charcoil filter by BUproducts.

Links will be listed down below.

I extremely love this one, because it

looks amazing. And I carry it around.

And sometimes I would remove the filter and

just use it as a bottle for my juice or

anything else. And also I started to use

my thermos more. This is actually the

termos, that my friends gave me.

It's a Japanese one. It is really tiny, it's

only like 250 ml. I enjoy

drinking tea or coffee, when, for instance,

I'm walking, talking. In the morning

I would just pour some coffee and enjoy it

while looking at this city,

and enjoying the morning. And then

I would also want to start to carry it

around more. When I'm in the city, for

instance, if I'm going for a coffee,

i would not use this one time paper cup with the

plastic... lit (cap). But rather pour it into

my thermos. The second thing, that I use

is menstrual cup. If you are a girl and

you hate all of those menstrual products,

as I did. I absolutely despise all of

them, because I just feel, that they're so

not convenient. And also I am pretty

scared by the chances of getting toxic

shock. I will leave a link to an

interview with an amazing extremely

brave girl, who did go through a toxic

shock herself. And she lost her leg.

And usually those kind of things, like, those

kind of risks... You don't really get

enough information about them, especially,

when you're young and you're just

starting to use this product. So

I started to use menstrual cup. And I just...

Guys (girls), I praised by it. It's so, so good.

It's so convenient, it's extremely clean,

extremely easy to use. And it's super

safe. So, Menstrual Cups y'all ! =D

The final thing, is that

I started to work on my

wardrobe. And I'm not a fashion person.

But I really like my outfit to look neat

and putted together. So I was really

inspired by the idea of capsule wardrobe.

And now I watched videos by danish girl.

Her name is Signe. And I will leave

links to her channel somewhere here in

the carts. So you can check her out. She

talks a lot about capsule wardrobe,

building one, finding your own style,

sticking to your style, working with a

minimal amount of accessories. And since

I've started to budget myself, I don't

feel need anymore for spending money to buy fast

fashion things from Zara and H&M.

I would rather buy one pair of extremely

expensive... Like, well, not extremely.

One pair of expensive

designer jeans, that will last me for

five years. And they would fit me

perfectly. Rather than buying fast

fashion jeans. Biggest problem, that

I have, is that they fit my butt. And

everything is perfectly... legs, everything

is OK.

But the length is just... Where did they

see girls with such long legs. I mean, if

they do exist, I extremely envy them.

I'm a short legged person. I think... I don't

know. If I would buy jeans from fast

fashion brands, they would have

extra 20 centimeters, dragging behind me...

Last thing, is that I really enjoy

working from home and, as you can see,

in most of my videos, like, I do have a

costume of normal person on the top. So

I would wear a t-shirts, or preferably clean

t-shirt for you. But on the bottom

I would usually wear my yoga pants, or

pajama pants. Because this is the perks

of working as a freelancer. I am this

kind of person, that is extremely

organized, when staying at home. So

I don't really struggle with organizing my

working day. I used to think of myself, as

a very bad company worker. Because I'm

just so much better working from the

quiet space of my home. This would makes

me a good freelancer, I guess. Or at least

I hope so. I hope you learned something

new and exciting, or maybe not, from this

video. As always, I want to thank my

patrons for allowing me to be here and

for sponsoring good cause

this year. If you liked this video, please

give it a thumbs up. And if you want to

share one thing, that I did not know

about you, please do so in the comments below.

Please, subscribe to my channel and

follow me on social media. All the links

will be listed, as per usual, in the

description box below. And I will see you

guys next time.

Bye!

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Grown Dude Gets Dressed By His Mom For A Week - Duration: 8:46.

- For this video, my mom is dressing me for a whole week.

We did a similar thing two years ago,

where she chose one outfit for me.

You like it?

I feel super hot right now.

I can't wait to slip into shorts.

I'm not used to wearing sweats,

and like, this hoodie, all day long.

Thick cotton material.

People had opinions all over the place,

definitely feel a lot younger, cooler ...

- Like a ... artsy cool side that I never dress myself in.

What is this?

- I am not used to expressing myself in such loud colors,

kind of like a fun side of me that my mom pulled out.

A childhood side of me

that I've not gotten in touch with in a while.

I'm pleasantly surprised.

I would probably wear this again.

- What the semi-turtleneck is this?

I've never worn this color ever in my life.

I'm normally very particular with the type of hat

that I wear, I usually have a specific shape that I like,

and this is not it.

It makes my head too flat.

Wait til you see this text.

Also looks like prescription.

I'm reading it by word,

because I'm reading it-- - [Lien] I-den-tee-fee.

- What is this? - In-te-freh.

- What? In Asia, you know how those memes,

it'll say like, cuss words with flowers around it,

it just doesn't matter.

It's just words and font.

Obviously, the words on here don't matter.

- I really like it a lot.

- [Kane] Uh huh. Yeah.

- I'm not mad about it. Your mom did a really good job.

This color on you is everything, like--

- Yeah?

- You need to wear this color more often.

- I'm starting to think that my mom

might be more fashionable than I am,

because some of the Instagram photos that I posted

have three times the likes that my normal photos would get.

- I'm going to a friend's birthday party today.

This is 100% something my dad would wear.

This pattern, this polka dot pattern.

I've actually never had a real watch before.

I've had an Apple watch, but like,

I've never actually had a legit watch.

I look like a dad.

This pair of shoes, pretty simple and clean.

Good job. What do you think, mom?

- Oh! So handsome boy.

Yeah, so I hug you.

- Okay. What do you think about the watch?

- I'm actually surprised that your mom is quite stylish.

- It's very hip. It's very shocking.

- I was actually very surprised.

Literally none of the clothes she chose,

I would've chosen for me now, but after wearing it,

there were definitely items that I would wear again.

- Update! It's been a few weeks since I filmed with my mom.

What's wild is that I had no idea this whole experience

would impact my style so much.

Literally, if you look at my Instagram,

I have a completely new look,

my wardrobe is completely different.

I had no idea that in my 20s,

my mother would refresh my wardrobe.

What?

Just started getting into watches,

I've started wearing different types of hats,

just more color in general.

Jumping over that hurdle about like, this is not me,

I look awkward in it.

The fact that I did it, and things were okay,

now I feel a little bit more daring.

This video has probably impacted my style the most,

out of all the videos that I've done.

So thank you, mom!

Let me know which one is your favorite outfit

which one should I continue wearing more of,

and would you let your mom dress you for a week?

(laughter)

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How To Avoid Embarrassing Yourself In An Argument - Jordan Peterson - Duration: 11:45.

We've all found ourselves in conversation and felt attacked

like we started off talking about one thing and then the other person twisted

our words and before we knew it, we lost our cool, lost respect in their eyes, and maybe even acted like a jerk.

Now, I don't normally do the same person twice in a row but

this interview between Cathy Newman and Jordan Peterson

was just too interesting of an opportunity to discuss how you can handle someone

who uses subtle conversational tricks to bully you into looking dumb.

So in this video, you're gonna see firsthand some of the most common tricks

that people might be using on you and you're also gonna learn

how to reverse those so that you can walk out of a kind of aggressive situation

having earned more respect than you had going in.

So first off, to stop a conversational bully,

you have to realize what's going on before it's too late.

Now, typically, a person will reveal their aggressive attitude early on

with their tone of voice and their word choice — kind of like this —

...but I wasn't specifically aiming this message at young men to begin with;

it just kind of turned out that way but—

And it's mostly, you admit, it's mostly men listening.

In this case, Cathy is indicating very clearly that she thinks Jordan has done something wrong.

Otherwise, why would she use the word "admit?"

She makes her stance clear a moment later when she implies that he should be bothered for being divisive. Just watch.

Does it bother you that your audience is predominantly male? Is that a bit divisive?

The point here is that even when they're being passive-aggressive,

people will often indicate that they're about to attack you before they actually do.

So if you hear someone say something like,

"Well, what do you have to say for yourself?" be prepared.

That person thinks that you've done something wrong and you need to be

very careful what you say next not because you did do something wrong

but because a conversational bully may be trying to trap you into saying

something that you disagree with so that they can attack that straw man.

And the first way that this often happens is called the "so-you're-saying trap." Here's what it looks like.

So you're saying women have some sort of duty to sort of help fix the crisis of masculinity?

Women want to dominate — is that what you're saying?

So you're saying that anyone who believes in equality whether you call them feminists or whatever you want to call them

should basically give up because "it ain't gonna happen."

Let me just get this straight; you're saying that we should organize our societies along the lines of the lobsters.

The general pattern here is that someone says, "So you're saying..."

and then proceeds to oversimplify or mischaracterize what you actually said.

I won't spend too long here because it's very easy to spot

and it's rather simple to avoid and get around by saying,

"Well, actually, what I was saying is..." and then repeat yourself.

...along the lines of the lobsters.

I'm saying that it's inevitable that there will be continuity

in the way that animals and human beings organize their structures.

But there's a much sneakier way that people may mischaracterize your beliefs and then attack them.

Basically, it's when someone's words imply that you believe something you don't and they don't actually say it.

So in business, they call this "assuming the sale" like when a car salesman says,

"So would you like that with the leather interior or with the fabric interior?" before you even decided to buy the car.

Now, with the several thousand dollar purchase, you're likely to notice this and say,

"Whoa, whoa, whoa. Who said I was buying in the first place?"

But it's very likely that this is happening to you in conversation all the time and you don't even notice. Here's how it might look.

[Cathy talks over Jordan] Yeah, but why? Why should woman put up with those reasons?

Embedding the question "why should women put up with it?" are several important presuppositions; namely —

one, that there is something to put up with and two, that Jordan thinks woman should put up with it.

Now, the trap here for Jordan would be to answer Cathy's question directly

and many of us fall into it in similar situations

then we start arguing for things that we don't even really believe just out of habit.

Instead, you need to identify that hidden presupposition and then call it out.

So watch how carefully Jordan listens to Cathy's questions

so that he can catch what she's not saying.

"Why should women put up with it?" I'm not saying they should put up with it. I'm saying that the claim—

Here's another example of assuming-the-sale from later in that conversation.

See if you can spot the hidden presupposition and ask yourself what you might say to respond to it.

...which women do a lot of.

But why shouldn't women have the right to choose not to have children?

So what's the hidden presupposition —

that Jordan thinks women must have children. And of course, he defends a woman's right to make any decision about that.

...the right to choose and demand it, correct?

They do. They can. Yeah, that's fine.

But you're saying that makes them unhappy.

Here's one more example. See if you can spot the hidden presupposition here.

[Cathy talks over Jordan] So you want to say to your followers now, "Quit the abuse. Quit the anger."

Did you catch it? The presupposition is that Jordan's followers are abusing people.

Now, he can't answer that question directly; he has to address that hidden point first and he does.

Well, we'd need some substantial examples of the abuse and the anger before I could detail that question.

There's a lot of it out there.

When I cut the clips like this, it makes it very easy to see these hidden presuppositions but in real time, this can be difficult.

One simple thing that you can do to make it easier on yourself is to purposely

assume a relaxed posture as Jordan does throughout this entire conversation.

Now, this posture actually helps you to think less frantically because your body

is signalling to your brain that everything is okay; you're in control.

You'll also want to give yourself some time to pause after each question

which Jordan definitely does. In addition,

you're going to want to study up on frames and frame games because

there's a clearly a whole level of conversation that is going on behind the words.

Now, I've talked about this in other videos

specifically the one on Tyrion Lanister from Game of Thrones

and I'll leave a link to that in the description if you want to check it out.

Moving along though, the last clip contains a small example of the third conversational bully tactic

in this video which I'm naming the "smash technique." Take a look.

[Cathy talks over Jordan] So you want to say to your followers now, "Quit the abuse. Quit the anger."

It's subtle here but Cathy smashes together two very different terms — abuse and anger.

Now, by ending on anger, it would be easier for Jordan to just forget it and answer the question.

But that would tacitly accept that his followers were abusing people.

That's why the smash technique is so frustrating; people are embedding hidden statements that you actually disagree with and

then moving through them before you have the time to voice that disagreement.

You may also have seen people barrage you with questions

just to overwhelm you into having to accept their points like this —

...otherwise, why would that only be seven women running FTSE 100 companies in the UK?

Why would there still be a pay gap... [Jordan talks over Cathy]

Why are women at the BBC saying that they're getting paid illegally less than men—

It can be easy to get overwhelmed and to lose focus as you try to answer

all of these questions but with the smash technique in general, the best policy is

to slow down the tempo of conversation

and tackle one question or one point at a time.

Let's just go to the first question; those both are complicated questions.

So hopefully, now you're more aware of the so-you're-saying trap

when people "assume the sale" and of course, the smash technique.

This moves us to the second section of this video which is

how to persuade someone in these kinds of situations.

And I will say, it seems to me that it doesn't look like Jordan is necessarily

trying to change Cathy's mind but simply to debate in front of an audience.

There are still some valuable tips to be gleamed from this video and a few things that I'd add

First, do not straw man the other person's ideas even if they're doing it to you.

And to be clear, I don't know if I mentioned this,

straw manning is when you create a caricature of their ideas and then attack those rather than what they truly believe.

Instead, show the other person that you are truly engaging in their real points,

attempt to understand them, and sometimes this mean that you have to ask them to repeat themselves so that you can.

Seven? Seven women... repeat that one—

Seven women running the top FTSE 100 companies in the UK.

Well, the first question might be.

After you've made an honest attempt to understand them, you need to make sure

that they can understand you which is necessary for persuasion.

And to do that, you often have to use the visual imagery.

For instance, here's a very abstract point without any images that Jordan makes.

...that it's inevitable that there will be continuity in the way that animals and human beings organize their structures.

It's absolutely inevitable. And there is one-third of a billion years of evolutionary history behind that.

Now, maybe you can understand that but it kind of lacks any emotional oomph.

But notice how the addition of a concrete example makes that one-third of a billion years just feel different.

That's so long that a third of a billion years ago, there weren't even trees; it's a long time.

So adding concrete examples especially ones that people can easily imagine

is a smart persuasive move and lastly, when you're arguing, oftentimes

the best way to get someone to change their position is not by changing their mind

but by gently showing them that they are already agreeing with you.

I talked about this in the frame video but here's an example from this interview.

Why should your rights to freedom of speech trump a trans-person's right not to be offended?

Because in order to be able to think, you have to risk being offensive.

I mean, look at the conversation we're having right now.

You know, like, you're certainly willing to risk offending me in the pursuit of truth.

Why should you have the right to do that? It's been rather uncomfortable.

This is huge. Jordan is no longer arguing that her point is wrong;

he's arguing that she already agrees with him — her behavior and her previous statements demonstrate

that she cares more about free speech than not offending people.

And then Jordan doesn't try to make this point wrong; he shows her how they're actually very much in alignment.

You're doing what you should do which is digging a bit to see what the hell's going on.

And I gave you what you should do but you're exercising your freedom of speech to certainly risk offending me.

And that's fine. I think — more power to you as far as I'm concerned.

And then of course Cathy feels stumped because she does actually agree with Jordan and she's proven it herself.

People have a strong desire to remain consistent

with things they've already said and done so oftentimes, this becomes

one of the few ways to persuade someone who's really dug in their heels.

You're basically showing them that they don't have to move

in order to agree with you; they already do right where they're dug in.

And then of course, Jordan hits her with the "gotcha."

...uh, and... [sighs] I'm just trying to work that out but I mean... [sighs]

Jordan: Hah. Gotcha. Cathy: You have got me. You have got me.

Even though I laughed at that phrase at the time I was watching the interview,

I have to say that last bit "gotcha" does not improve Jordan's persuasive case.

It actually makes Cathy feel silly and wrong as opposed to

happy to discover that she and Jordan are really on the same team all along

and if I had to give one last point of constructive criticism,

it would be that Jordan answered all of Cathy's questions

rather than trying to proactively address her deeper unstated emotional concern.

And in my opinion, that emotional concern is that Jordan is her enemy —

that if he believes something, it must be against her interests.

If Jordan could have found that and pointed to a more common ground

that they share which we all of course have, I don't think the interview

would have continued in such an argumentative fashion but

Jordan's role isn't necessarily to convince Cathy Newman of anything —

it's to debate for an audience and to promote his book

which I think he did at an A+ level.

If you think that I missed something or you just want to discuss,

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That way you can hop on if you want to discuss anything with me

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I also think that this video makes a very strong companion for both the Tyrion video

that I mentioned about frames which are super interesting

and the previous Jordan Peterson video which will teach you how to get respect

without being a bully so click the screen if you want to check either of those out.

Hopefully, you guys enjoyed this video and I will see you in the next one.

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