"Is Love Supposed to Be Like This?"
"Hello. I'm a man in my 30s who feels
suffocated because of love.
I have a girlfriend who is 9 years younger
and loves me very, very much."
It's the opposite from the previous concern.
"'Honey. You are so cute and handsome.
Oh my.
What if every woman falls in love with you?'
Are you jealous?
I'm scared of my girlfriend.
My girlfriend gets very jealous.
We both work at the same hospital.
I can't even look at other female colleagues.
I do X-ray exams."
He is a radiologist.
"'Honey! You did an X-ray on a female patient.
Right? How ridiculous.'
My girlfriend keeps tabs on my female patients."
What?
"'Don't be so jealous.
It's hard to do my work when you get so jealous.'
'Every woman gets this jealous!
Not being jealous means I don't love you anymore.'
Is love supposed to be like this?
I don't think it is.
Please stop my girlfriend from getting jealous."
He is here because of his jealous girlfriend.
Please come on out.
(Who's concerned about his jealous girlfriend?)
(Is he so handsome to cause jealousy?)
You don't have to go and greet him.
(Bursts out laughing)
(Oh...)
Try to keep a straight face, everyone.
You all have this look that says "Why?"
Please don't.
Please introduce yourself.
I'm 35-year-old Jeong Uiseong.
What's your name?
Jeong Uiseong.
I thought you said "Jung Woosung."
I'm glad your name is "Jeong Uiseong."
(1 loss for him)
So you both work in the same hospital?
Yes. I'm a radiologist.
My girlfriend works in the ultrasound department.
It's hard to work because of her.
At first, seeing her being jealous
was cute and lovely.
But it started to get worse.
When I'm chatting with other female colleagues,
she comes up behind me and glares at me.
Did you ever get caught cheating on her?
No, never.
How can you ask him that from the start?
What if he said, "Yes, I did."
What would you have done then?
You can't ask randomly like that.
Do you give certain looks to other women?
No, I don't.
He does look very naive.
He looks like a gentleman.
My girlfriend is the only one that I care about.
Many women get chest X-ray exams.
They can't be wearing anything metal,
so they do the exam with just a gown on.
In order to get better results,
I have to hold their arms or shoulders.
Like this, right?
No, not like that. Just a gentle touch.
No, this is how the patients pose.
(You scared me)
I meant this is how the patients take X-rays.
Their shoulders must go against the board.
Yes. But she doesn't understand that.
She asks me, "Did you enjoy that?
Did you ask her for her number?"
(I see...)
She's asking if you asked for the patient's number?
You said that she always tells you
how cute and handsome you are?
My girlfriend thinks I'm very handsome.
So she always tells me how handsome...
I'm so jealous.
And how cute I am.
She thinks other women will fall for me,
but I don't worry about that.
(Ha ha ha ha)
You're so cute.
He thinks it's absurd, too.
- Even he thinks it's absurd. / - He's charming.
Have you told her that you feel suffocated?
It's very inconvenient.
I did tell her that I'm suffering.
Yes, you do look like it.
I can hear it in your voice.
I told her, but she said that
all women get this jealous
and if they don't, it means they aren't in love.
(Well...)
Let's meet his girlfriend now. Hello.
Hello.
Do you understand your boyfriend's concern?
No.
As you can see, he's very handsome.
Let's say that we agree and move on.
He has well-defined features.
(Well-defined features)
I'm worried that other women will think the same.
Can you look to your left?
(Glance)
Is he more handsome? Or is your boyfriend?
Who is more handsome?
My boyfriend.
My boyfriend.
(No way)
Liar.
You really do love him.
Even if your boyfriend is that handsome,
isn't it absurd to get jealous of patients, too?
I do think it's absurd. My head knows it.
But my heart won't follow.
When I look at beautiful women,
I can't help but think that
he enjoyed doing their X-ray exams.
You do sonograms, right?
You must get male patients, too.
Imagine that your boyfriend gets jealous of that.
I'd like that.
You want him to get jealous?
He never gets jealous.
(Speechless)
(I won't say anything)
Why didn't you get jealous?
I did.
(It's not fair)
Let's say you fractured your rib
and went to a hospital.
The radiologist is handsome.
Would you ask him for his number?
No, because I have a boyfriend.
Let's say you don't. Would you ask?
Oh, you'd ask.
That's why she gets jealous.
(I'm kidding)
Seeing him chat with his colleagues upsets you?
Yes.
My boyfriend is a considerate person.
He offers food or water to other co-workers
at dinner or holds the elevator for them.
Things that women can do on their own.
One time, we went on a trip for work.
He called a female co-worker by her nickname.
- Her nickname? / - Yes.
I hated that.
It sounded like he was calling her a pet name.
So we had an argument.
Then what must he call his co-workers?
By their last names.
You don't want him to be on a first name basis?
No.
Are you worried that his smile...
Right.
He has a dimple on one cheek.
Smile for me. Let me see.
- On the left. / - Right here.
(She loves his dimple)
I think we can wrap this up quickly, Taekyun.
For some odd reason.
It is cute.
Do you smile kindly to other women?
No. I just give businesslike smiles.
I can't frown when I talk to my patients.
Of course not.
Do your colleagues know about your concern?
They know that you two are together, right?
Yes.
The funny thing is, I think she has a spy.
(Absurd)
- She has a spy? / - Here and there?
I work on the first floor
and she works on the 5th floor.
We don't see each other during the day,
but she later asks, "You chatted with other women?"
I never told her about it.
Maybe she views the surveillance cameras.
We're curious. Do you have a spy?
No.
Then how do you know?
I wish I didn't know.
No one else knows how jealous I get.
Other staff members come and tell me
what my boyfriend does at work.
You two work at the same hospital,
so couldn't you be more understanding?
It's not just my co-workers.
She gets jealous of all women.
Older women who pass out fliers,
or a part-time worker at a convenience store.
I can't even look at a waitress.
If a woman walks by me,
she asks, "Did you look at her?"
I didn't mean to look at her.
I have a friend who's a hairdresser.
I go to get my haircut from her.
My girlfriend tags along every time.
Every time you go get a haircut?
Yes, she tags along and
glares at me the entire time.
Do you really tag along every time?
At first, I went with him because
I was worried about his friend.
But I am okay with her.
But there is another woman at the hair salon.
I don't like it when she touches him.
I went to her friend's birthday party once.
I took her friend's side and she got mad.
She ended up crying at the party.
- I was so upset. / - Why?
I can't drink.
It'd be nice if he can drink for me.
But instead of doing that, he was yelling,
"Drink! Drink!" along with my friends.
I hated him at that moment.
I wanted to punch him.
Why didn't you drink for her?
I did a couple of times.
You can't do that every time.
I can't do that every time.
Is he wrong or is it true?
Are you jealous of all women
including older women who hand out fliers?
Not women who hand out fliers.
Why are you excluding them?
That could upset them.
Why won't you get jealous of older women?
Do you know how much you've hurt their feelings?
They're not women?
I get wary of beautiful women with great bodies.
(She's wary of these type of women)
Did your boyfriend ever do anything
to make you doubt him?
He lied to me once.
Of course there's a reason.
After working all night,
he should've gone home to sleep.
But one time, he only slept for an hour or two
and went out because his female friend called.
He didn't even tell me about it.
I've become more obsessed since then.
Why did you lie to her?
Is she talking about the hairdresser friend?
It's another friend.
You have many female friends.
You said you only have one female friend.
It was my friend's child's first birthday
so we went to pick out a gift together.
I got caught because I wasn't being consistent.
- Why did you lie? / - You didn't have to lie.
Was she suspicious back then, too?
Did you think that it was better not to say
anything so that she doesn't misunderstand?
It was my fault.
That could make her doubt you.
Do you have any time for yourself?
If I work the night shift, I go to work at 5:30.
My girlfriend goes to work at 8:30 a.m.
We always eat lunch together.
Then I go home and come back to work at 5:30.
My girlfriend gets off work.
What about on weekends?
We are together on our off days
so I don't have any time by myself.
It's important to have some time to yourself.
- Even if the two of you are dating. / - Right.
You should let him have some time alone.
Then he wouldn't lie. What do you think?
I want to be with him all the time.
And I can't get a hold of him when he's at home.
He won't text or answer my calls.
I get curious about what he's up to or get worried
so that's why I don't let him be alone.
You can only trust him when he's with you?
- Yes. / - Even though he's your boyfriend?
Does she check your phone, too?
She has her fingerprint registered on my phone.
She checks my phone every day.
She asks me why I talked to a woman on the phone.
I don't check her phone every day.
I don't know why she gets suspicious.
Are you planning to marry her?
Yes.
We are thinking of getting married next year.
You already made plans?
Then you came here today because it'd be hard
to marry her if she keeps this up?
Sure. It gets tougher after you get married.
It's harder if you two are living together.
Why are you so worried?
Can't you trust him?
Maybe she had a traumatic experience.
When I was dating someone else,
my boyfriend blatantly cheated on me
and liked someone else.
I was hurt by that.
I met my current boyfriend after that.
That's why I've become more obsessed.
So you think he will cheat on you
if you don't keep an eye on him?
It's not that.
But I have to keep an eye on him
for me to feel secure.
You don't care that he feels suffocated?
I do care,
and I tell myself that this is wrong.
But it's out of habit.
"Did you look at her?"
I ask that out of habit.
Are you mad that Chaeyeon and Gyeongree are here?
No.
They are celebrities.
What about me?
Am I like that woman who hands out fliers?
(Unable to answer)
Tell me. Go ahead and answer me.
Yes.
She feels secure.
You got your answer. She doesn't mind you.
You said that you want to marry her.
What are you most worried about?
I'm worried that she'll get worse.
It'd be suffocating.
Because you'd be living together.
I'm grateful that she loves me so much,
but if things get worse...
When a person feels trapped,
they struggle even more to be free.
I'm quite concerned.
I'm concerned, too.
I'm worried, too, that this will continue
even after we get married.
What will make you be less suspicious?
I don't want him to be so considerate of others.
But that's his personality.
He's not doing it to flirt with other women.
Don't you feel apologetic to other women?
That you assumed they want to take your boyfriend?
They have their own morals and their own taste.
You disregard those completely.
I don't feel apologetic at all.
He's so handsome.
(Sigh...)
Why don't you just stop?
Why don't you just stop?
We have 200 people here.
They are objective.
Let's do a vote.
Who wants to steal her boyfriend?
I want to know where he works, get an X-ray
and get his number.
Who wants to ask him for his number?
- One, two. / - No way.
Three. Please press the button.
(Oh my!)
(Oh my god)
No!
(Shocked)
Stop pressing the button!
Hold on. Hold on.
Men shouldn't press the button.
I get it now.
He is such a considerate guy...
- I get it, too. / - He seems like a great man.
But we are talking about his looks, right?
- Yes. / - Yes.
Please vote based solely on his looks.
How frustrating.
He walked by you on the street.
He walked by.
"Ooh. Who was that?"
(Ooh. Who was that?)
(I am drawn to this strange man)
(Understood)
Don't look at his personality. Just his looks.
What a tough day today.
One.
Two.
Three.
(A nerve-wracking vote)
I don't know what we're doing here.
See? (Quiet)
(It was her misunderstanding)
(There's one person)
There's one person!
One! One!
We can't end this shoot because of you.
Who pressed the button? Was it a joke?
Who was it? Was it an accident?
We didn't press it.
Was it the son? Son!
(It was an accident)
Son! It was the son.
Son!
Oh, what a relief.
Girlfriend! Were you surprised?
Yes.
It was the son.
(They almost filmed "Love and War")
You are planning to marry her
even if she doesn't change her ways, right?
- Would you still marry her? / - Yes.
It is impressive that he is willing
to marry you even if you don't change.
But what I'm most concerned about is that
if you continue to do this,
he may drift apart from you one day.
Yes. He'll want to be free.
I had a boyfriend who got jealous
and cared for me very much.
At first, I liked that.
I felt loved.
But it got worse.
When I missed his call,
all these thoughts would run through my head.
"What should I say so we won't fight?
What should I say so that..."
You have to start making up lies.
- You end up lying. / - Then,
though I didn't have any ill intent,
I ended up lying or telling him less.
He was very upset when he found that out later.
Don't make the person you love lie.
What do you want from her?
Let's be good to each other.
Be more lenient when it comes to other women.
I love you.
Let's start with Kijoon.
I don't think it's a concern.
I think it's a concern.
I think it's a concern.
I don't think it's a concern.
I think it's a concern.
I want you to make her feel more secure.
Something like, "You're prettier than Chaeyeon."
You're definitely prettier.
"I met Gyeongree in person..."
- What did you think of Gyeonghee? / - She's ugly.
She's not ugly.
(Angry)
You two were meant for each other.
Please press the button.
(What does the audience think?)
5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
Please stop.
It'll take a while, but I will try to change.
I love you.
Please show us the result.
The last digit is a 3.
Did they get over 100 votes?
Yes.
Currently, the winner has 163 votes.
103 votes.
(They got 103 votes)
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