One unfortunate subject which should not have exit existed but right now it's
become a national debate which is rape
because of a certain horrible incident that happen in New Delhi the whole
country is talking talking about rape so
this needs to be understood that though
there may be a sexual stimulus to rape it is not about sexuality alone it's
about the power to possess this wanting to possess comes from various things one
fundamental mistake that societies have done is somewhere in the minds of the
youth the male youth in the world we have put the idea that a female is a an
object a thing that you can possess either somebody's father can give you
away if he refuses you can take it still there isn't it in the background
somewhere very deep in the psychological structure there is an idea that a woman
is a commodity a commodity is if something doesn't have a mind of its own
that's a commodity so this probably in some places consciously implanted in
many of the places unconsciously implanted but it's deeply implanted in
people's minds without taking this away just one more law hang the rapist
castrate the rapist he's not going to really produce results and where does
this come from this is a pretty wonderful thing in the ancient ballot or
India the Hindu law proclaimed a man cannot go to heaven without his file
you must understand the significance of this I want you to understand the
significance of it a few thousand years ago in many ways today the playing field
has been leveled for men and women not because of any great social evolution
but because of technology the technological development which has made
a woman being capable of participating in many global activities if there was
no technology if it was a question of your physical strength which carried you
from place to place definitely a woman would be still very homebound not that
she shouldn't be home and saying being home is one thing being homebound is one
thing being home is nice being bound by home
is a different thing so yes definitely when somebody perpetrates a violent act
they need to be punished but still if you want a better society not just
better Long's
hello or a punishment is only relevant after things have gone wrong hanging
somebody doing something else is still not going to fix somebody's life if we
want to see that things don't go wrong there may be no absolute fix but
definitely there is something called as lowering the percentages or heightening
the percentages when you're dealing with a larger world it is only question of
lowering the percentages maybe there is never going to be an ideal society where
no such thing will happen but in striving towards that possibility the
most important thing is we need to understand right now the chant that we
were doing it's just about that still in most mines a woman means body parts an
accumulation of body parts yes a breast an able a curve long hair something
that's whyyou many of you have short hair this
one part of it you've gotten rid of it is still a sum of body parts wives a
woman a sum of body parts in someone who is not a woman yes
essentially this is springing this is not just for the man with the woman also
but she doesn't conclude the she does not make the same conclusions that a man
makes but she is also bound by the same limitations the moment the boundaries of
your physicality becomes ultimate boundaries of life
you do not experience your breath you do not experience any transaction that's
happening to keep you alive this you think is ultimate boundary if
this is ultimate boundary if I look at this
those who look like just like me their enemies we would like to get rid of
those who look different those who seem to have different kinds of body parts or
something that you want to possess so essentially the problem is rooted in
investing too much in physicality of life if societies are human beings who
are experiencing their lives little more than their physical boundaries these
things would simply go down just like that
maybe not eliminate it but would go down dramatically and considerably to a point
where a few offenders you can deal with them with punishment you cannot deal a
vast majority of population with punishment suppose ten fifteen twenty
percent of the people are committing crime in a society you cannot punish
twenty percent of the population if it's 1 percent you can punish them you can
deal with punishment if it's 20 percent you cannot deal with punishment it's not
going to help you want to hang twenty percent of the population that's going
to be worse than rape and that's not going to help so punishment people think
is a deterrent
to some extent it is maybe for most people it is not they will just try to
do it more carefully yes they will try to take more precautions about it maybe
because they have two more procore take more precautions it may come down a
little bit but still what's happening in one's mind
and how it translates into life is the next step but it's happening in your
mind means when there's an opportunity it will happen in reality right now it
seems there are over 500 rape video games very popular the video games go
like this this very popular video game goes like this a mother with two
daughters is in a railway station and the video game is about how to rape the
mother if you successfully do it you will get one of the daughters this is a
video game commercially being sold bought in
millions secretly people playing these games in their homes or offices of
wherever under computers we are nurturing a sick world and we expect it
to not to happen in the railway station it will happen this time it's happen in
a bus and this time it happened in the capital city so it's big news whole
country and the media is on fine attention was needed for this but if it
happened in somewhere some local place in some village in some little town it
would be just one more statistic or it does not even become a statistic because
nobody reports such things so the important thing is this is not about
rape this is about what kind of human beings are we raising Commerce has taken
precedence over humanity Commerce is not about serving humanity
humanity is serving Commerce it doesn't matter what you can sell as long as you
can sell it you're doing great and you have to scale up so there is a lot of
looking at that humanity has to do one particular case of rape has brought the
consciousness of the nation to a certain brink using this it's time that we look
at the essentials of life whether the crime or violence or forceful acts are
committed against a woman or a man or a child it's the same thing it's not one
is not different from the other if we
approve one forceful act the other one will naturally evolve out
of it this must start from the home situation if you can force feed your
child you can be forcefully sexed also tomorrow I want you to understand this
this is how it starts if you think you can force feed your child force is okay
as long as you get to do what you want to do then everything else follows these
are the offsprings of that we don't want to attend or destroy the root we just
want to prune the surface because right now it hurts us that is not a solution
it's a it is disheartening to see on the
national news channel the discussion is should we castrate them or not so today
if you castrate a rapist tomorrow cut off the hands of a thief cut off the
head of somebody else who uses his brain that is there is no limit to this this
is not the solution
whatever sympathies you may have for the person who suffered the victim we must
look for more profound solutions more well thought-out solutions not simply
reacting reacting to one violence with another violence is not going to breed a
right kind of society now is this in one society it is not it is just that in
some societies the law enforcement may be little better don't think people are
better no law enforcement is little better so it's little more contained in
certain societies little less contained in other societies one way yes
protection by law enforcement is needed no question about that but still a
transformation where law enforcement can be limited to a small percentage of
criminals he is the society we want to live in we don't want a big segment of
population being curtailed by law enforcement alone
if there is no policeman they will do something else it's a dangerous
situation to live in the statistics say that 96 percent of the rapes happen
within the home law enforcement never ever gets involved
in this ninety-six percent of the rapes happen within the four walls of the
house so it never goes to the law so this cannot be contained by law maybe
the super violent rape like what happened in Delhi could
be controlled to some extent by law enforcement but not other things the
fundamental thing is that you want to possess humiliate and subjugate another
human being this is happening because of a certain level of inadequacy a certain
level of incompleteness within you that only by possessing something you will
feel little better whether to fulfill this possession you go shopping or you
go raping it's the same thing something is inadequate you want to
fulfill this by getting something this will find all kinds of ugly expressions
some of them you may think is harmless but if you do this today and fulfill
yourself tomorrow you would like to step it up to something else and something
else and something else it will not stop at one thing so the solution is not in
just containing it the solution is in transformation of the individual human
being and nobody is willing to invest any time or life to make this happen
everybody wants an instant solution go on the street protest for two days and
world will change world will not change the world has to change
first thing is willing to invest time for my own transformation only if you
are willing to invest time for your transformation you are willing to invest
time for other people's transformation because you understand the value of what
it is if you are not willing to invest time upon your own transformation where
is the question of doing anything for anybody's transformation if you do not
know the value of what it is experientially
you will never invest you
you see this every day maybe you don't I do every day well you have also seen
morning you get up you want to do your yoga but every day there's something
more important to do than yoga yes look back in your life what great things have
you done which are so important there will be nothing great but when you want
to do your morning meditation you will see there is something more important
true this means you do not hold human transformation as a very crucial thing
you think it's an entertainment you think it's a side thing to do it's not
the side thing to do it is the main thing to do
transformation is the main thing to do if we do not transform individual people
you just have to do with a world full of criminals some will come in some will
not come in some will do it on the video game some will have the courage to do it
on the street closeted rapist or strictly pristine not very different
isn't it maybe for the victim it's different but for the world that we live
in it's not different you're still living with such people isn't it
so if this has to change we need to understand that individual
transformation is the most crucial thing if we are not willing to invest on that
we just have to do with what we have and worse will come not that it will not
come to us will come every time there is no law in a certain place every time a
war happens what happens there apart from the killing what happens there is
worse than the killing almost everywhere
so these are all the same people that you
live with these are your sons and husbands and brothers they are so nice
but if if nobody is watching them they are something else
transformation means just this that who you are is not determined by other
people's opinions or other people's presence you are like this somebody is
there or somebody is not there this is the way you are
this is transformation if this in this direction humanity does not make an
investment in this direction if every parent does not invest upon their
children to transform them into a more inclusive human being inclusion just
means this technically to bring it down to very technical level inclusion don't
teach it in the name of love embracing the world this and that inclusion just
means this that who you are is not limited to the absolute boundary of your
physicality it is little more if it's little more the very way you walk on
this planet the very way you breathe upon this planet the very way you exist
in this planet will be different simply because your idea of who you are is
beyond the boundaries of your physicality this one thing happens to
the human being suddenly he is different in every possible way so investing
investing in a spiritual possibility a possibility beyond one's physicality is
the only ultimate answer there is but if you want long-term benefits it's a
long-term investment short-term shoot the guy hang the guy where you will
breed another 10 tomorrow and don't think these rapists or whoever some
horrible creatures who landed from somewhere
everybody has these drives but many have cultivated the a certain level of
discretion where they will not allow their hormones their urges and their
longings to go beyond a certain point this cultivating this discretion some
people naturally have it to a certain level some people have a little less of
it culturally in terms of home situation in terms of schools if this discretion
is not brought about it individual person is able to employ his discretion
it doesn't matter how hungry you are how long how much you're longing you are
able to stop yourself at a point if this discretion is not taught to every
individual if this is not cultivated one drop of alcohol they'll become animals
it's what is happening very nice people one drop of alcohol they becoming like
animals because the discretion is taken away
they were always animals controlled but once you remove the stopper it goes away
so this is one way but the more important way is to evolve this human
being to your place where he is a being he's not driven by his body alone but is
just one aspect of him if you close your eyes your body should disappear all the
needs of your body should disappear it does to some extent for everybody to
what extent is a question of how much have you invested if you invest enough
if you close your eyes this body and the ways of this body do not apply to you
anymore this needs to happen more than ever now because Humanity is on a
certain threshold we can either fall this way or that way
we are in numbers like never before we have packed on the planet closer than
ever before if you're going to really sit close up with everybody upon this
planet it's very important the people next to you don't stink isn't it no yes
or no if each one of you we're living in your own forest desert or mountain we
didn't care how they smelled so we were living very close up world is getting
more and more populated it's very important that people who sit next to
your clean and well-behaved isn't it
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