Matt: Many guys are completely lost when it
comes to attracting women not too long
ago I was that guy myself although after
everything I've learned about women and
how much my life has changed as a result
it seems like another lifetime and this
is good news for you because if I was
able to learn how to attract women as
needy and insecure as I was back then
then you can learn how to my name is
Matt Artisan from The Attractive Man and
i'm gonna show you how to attract women
effortlessly.
Matt: Now I'm gonna start off by giving
you a conceptual overview of how to
attract gorgeous women into your life
using energy polarity and then I'll get
more concrete giving you three practical
tips that you can use right away to
become more attractive and it's
important that you understand the first
part in order to build context for the
three actionable tips later on alright
let's dive in did you ever play with
magnets as a kid if you did then you're
probably familiar with the concept of
polarity attraction magnets have two
poles right positive and a negative if
you put two of the same poles together
they repel each other but if you put two
opposite poles together a positive and a
negative they attract each other the
same concept applies to attracting women
like magnets
humans have polarities masculine and
feminine
unfortunately masculine traits such as
aggression assertiveness and dominance
are often demonized by our society this
and a few other contributing factors
leads to a culture of wimpy and
effeminate men who according to the law
of energy polarity can only attract
masculine dominant women not the
alluring more feminine women that you
probably desire much of attracting the
women that you actually want in your
life comes down to embracing and
deepening this masculine polarity that
is your birthright now this can be a
daunting task because it takes a lot of
retraining your behavior in your belief
system however once you're rooted in the
solid foundation of your masculine
energy not only will you feel amazing
but gorgeous women will flock to you
because they want to bask in the
presence of your masculine energy with
almost no effort on your part in fact
all the techniques in the world can't
replace the effortless attraction that
being rooted in your masculine polarity
provides so what are these masculine
traits that women find so attractive and
how can you go about developing them
well to understand the answers to these
questions it helps to step into the
shoes of the woman you want while men
are primarily focused on physical
attraction when it comes to dating
at least initially women are a lot more
physically fragile than men and largely
depend on the physical and psychological
strength of a man for protecting her not
only do their instincts look for
protection they also seek provision
giving women an in Grain desire to be
around men with high social status men
with higher status have more access to
resources such as food shelter and
allies and can therefore better ensure
her survival and that of her offspring
if you're thinking this all sounds kinda
caveman-esque well you're right these
traits have been hardwired into the
female psyche over hundreds of
generations of female evolution and
you're not gonna change it so the best
thing you can do is develop the
masculine polarity traits that will
trigger a woman's deeply ingrained
evolutionary bias to get a better
understanding of what type of behavior
masculine polarity traits would include
think about the way Conor McGregor
handles himself during MMA press
conferences and matches he comes across
as assertive strong-willed and even
aggressive when needed he's not timid
and doesn't shy away from calling people
on their shit you get the feeling
watching him that he's confident in his
ability to handle himself against all
opponents and probably wouldn't hesitate
to throw a punch if the situation called
for it now obviously if you want to
attract a girl the last thing you want
to do is get in a fistfight however when
you're able to project a sense of
dominance and grounded confidence that
comes willed from being able to stand up
for yourself in all scenarios women
can't help but take notice of you so now
we know that the shortcut for attracting
women is developing high status
masculine polarity traits and now we
kind of have an idea of what that looks
like in a man but just knowing that
information is not enough in order to
develop attractive traits you need to
practice these behaviors until they
become ingrained into who you are that
means creating specific measurable goals
just like you would in any other area of
your life or a skill set do this with
the following masculine traits and I
guarantee you you'll have more gorgeous
women in your life than you ever
imagined now let me give you my top
three masculine high status traits and
first
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okay number three is high-status body
language when you've developed the
masculine polarity traits you'll
naturally find yourself expressing those
traits through your words and your body
language indicating your high status
automatically conveniently it also works
the other way around
using high status body language causes
you to feel a sense of confidence
dominance masculine presence and higher
status within yourself remember that
your psychology influences your
physiology and your physiology
influences your psychology here's some
high status body language keys to keep
in mind you gotta have solid eye contact
because high status men do not shy away
from eye contact when you meet a woman's
gaze do so with calm grounded laser-like
eye contact you don't want it to feel
creepy or intense rather you want it to
feel comfortable and relaxed halves
deliberate movements avoid fidgeting
jerking or sudden movements as those
indicate emotional distress associated
with low status instead make slow
deliberate movements that project an air
of calm confidence and finally being
nonreactive in a social interaction the
high status individual is the one that
others are reacting to not the other way
around so avoid physically reacting to
other people now that doesn't mean you
ignore them it just means you take your
time to deliberately respond to them on
your terms for example last night I was
writing my book which is one of my
biggest goals and missions right now is
to finish this book and my girlfriend
came in trying to get my attention but
I'm so focused in the zone you know I
had to get my you know the rest of my
thoughts out before I turned and
responded to her in any and all
interactions throughout your day begin
to notice your body language is it high
status and dominant or is it low status
and submissive and of course make those
adjustments accordingly
number two is become a leader and this
has two parts to it
number one is become a leader of self it
means you're living life deliberately
based on your turn
in your values most people actually live
a life that other people wanted for them
and they're living somebody else's
values often time their parents in fact
I did that for a long time when I went
to college and studied computer science
it was only because that's what my
parents told me to do it's what they
told me to study and then after college
get a nine-to-five job which I did and I
wasn't really happy it wasn't until I
started this career and helping guys you
know overcome fear and anxiety that's
when I started really becoming happy and
then I almost gave it all up again to
live somebody else's values when about
six years ago my fiancee at the time
wanted us to move back to North Carolina
where I was originally from I went to
high school and live closer to my family
and worked for my family business and
eventually become you know really high
up in the business or maybe even the
owner and it's a great business it's
huge
I would be making a ton of money have a
really safe job because you know my
family is probably not gonna fire me
unless I do somebody something horrible
and have this gorgeous you know
girlfriend who loved me very much but I
realized it's not what I wanted it
wasn't my values it was somebody else's
values her values and I had to make a
decision do I want this life or not and
I ended up giving it all up I ended up
breaking up with my fiancee and saying
no to that job and moving out of the
country and I've never lived back in the
u.s. since then and that was definitely
one of the most important hardest and
best decision that I ever made you only
have one life so you got to live the
life that you want so what are your
highest values what are the things that
are most important to you and are you
doing those things if not it might be
time for a change and start living like
deliberately on your terms with a clear
purpose and second is leader of others
men that are leaders are incredibly
attractive to women because the fact
that others are willing to follow your
lead indicates your high status and it
makes it a lot easier for you to meet
and attract women becoming the leader of
your social circle is actually pretty
simple it's just a little bit more
effort than the average
Joe is willing to put in timbal ease
start planning events that are centered
around your interest and just invite
others to attend this can be huge epic
parties or it can be just a small
get-together it doesn't really matter
what's important is that you lead your
social circle in a way that makes people
feel good about following your plan and
number one is calm under tension a
masculine high status man does not break
under pressure think of the hero of
pretty much any action movie where he
kills the bad guy and gets the girl at
the end he's usually very masculine and
he's not freaking out despite all the
danger that's happening right who's the
one that's freaking out it's the other
characters and they usually die but not
the hero he remains calm and he takes
control of the situation
the same kind of idea applies for women
just approaching a woman is an intense
situation right when you feel calm and
grounded in that tension of that
interaction trust me she will notice and
become attracted to you because just
like the action hero she can feel that
you can handle tense situations and
protect her if shit hits the fan she
might even say or do something just to
test to see if you really are as cool as
you seem or if it's just a you know
facade you know where did you get those
shoes and just like in the movies the
attractive hero doesn't get emotional
when the woman objects to him or even
insults him he's strong unaffected like
a rock he never crumbles look senior
maybe in a different life what offended
you about the offer surely not that I
find you both beautiful notice I become
as attractive as possible we want to
develop high status masculine traits
while systematically rooting out all
traces of low status behavior the way to
do this is the repeated trial and error
that is going out and approaching women
and making incremental improvements
there will be failure there will be
rejection excuse me real quick one
second no wait
ejected in fact if you're not failing
then you're not pushing yourself nearly
hard enough failures often represent a
weakness in your game or in your skill
the faster that you can fail and improve
faster you can live the life that you
want and then you'll look back and
you'll you'll think your past self for
putting it all that effort that's
required for greatness trust me man I
put in the work and I still do and it
does pay off now to help you out on your
journey
I created a free escalation cheat sheet
because after she feels attracted to you
you have to escalate you have to move
things forward and make your move it's
filled with advance escalation
techniques that will turn a friendly
platonic interaction into a more
romantic I want to rip your clothes off
vibe this is very useful when you're
talking to a girl but it's going nowhere
so click the link down in the
description or to the right of the
screen right now to get your free copy
of the escalation cheat sheet trust me
man you'll want to have this handy
before you go out and if you're not
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in the next video!
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