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香港人流落澳洲 vlog018 澳洲大變天 | 人口破 2,500萬😱 | 帶大家賞花🌸 | 廣東話 中ENG subtitles - Duration: 6:43.Recently, I noticed my outdoor walking v-blog decreased
Because, I'm can't outdoor walking everyday in rainy season
second half in Melbourne is rainy season
When you watching this tube is SEP
But I took that in end of AUG
Actually, end of AUG in Melbourne is not in spring
But don't know why
Look! the flowers are in full bloom
Unusual weather
Melbourne um…
Australia is located in the southern hemisphere
Um…
Melbourne Spring is start at end of SEP or OCT
every area is a bit different. Oz is so big
But this year flowers are in bloom early
If you have watching news you will know
NEW South Wales and Queensland
is drought
In fact, now is rainy season in Australia
But they're drought
drought in rainy season is very very severe
Here haven't drought
Few days before have hail
Look at my dressing
You know here is still very cold
today is sunny day so let walk around
And flower viewing
Melbourne is a famous flower capital in Australia
the weather is good for flower
not too hot, but very cold
Hot days per year is not too much
Melbourne summer hot is little bit special
big temperature difference
In summer have few days over 40C
But that few days night is only 20C or be low 20C
Normal summer 2xC to 3xC some in daytime
But at night almost is 1xC to 20C
It's Melbourne distinguishing feature
Australia in southern hemisphere
our weather is upside down with northern hemisphere
Oz summer is very dry and hot
and little rain almost no
northern hemisphere summer is a lot of rain
and typhoon
of course, not all northern hemisphere area have typhoon
Yes, Oz is no typhoon area too
Ozzie is more live in house "bungalows"
And we love planting flower in the garden
Look! So pretty. right!?
Compare with apartment people living in house is more
Almost living in apartment is into city CBD
But now so many apartment have be built not only in city
In Melbourne have a indigo flowers very famous
But this year I don't know when they bloom
This year unusual weather so many flower have been bloom early
So I don't know the indigo flowers what happen now
Some streets both sides have planting the indigo flowers
Very pretty!
If have a chance I'll try show you guys
Except the unusual weather
Australian Prime Minister has exchanged again
I have movie to Australia almost 7 years
this is my 5th Prime Minister now
Australia's population to hit 25million people on 7AUG18
But this number is not include
Refugee without refugee visa and the some other people
like study visa,
and no need visa people
like Kiwi and British
They no need visa and live in Oz
But they can't work in Oz
And so many illegal worker and Illegal immigrant
Also some people just have the tourist visa
when the visa expires they'll go out
and take the new visa come back again and again
So Oz now is little bit too much people living in city
You know!
So many people live in Oz
but just have few city in Australian
Stop here now
see you next
bye bye
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5 Reasons Narcissists Can'T Have Intimate Relationships - Duration: 5:30.5 Reasons Narcissists Can'T Have Intimate Relationships
If you currently have a relationship with the narcissist, then I believe this short
video will be useful for you.
Narcissism, or Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD), is defined as a strong sense of "grandiosity,
a lack of empathy for other people, and a need for admiration."
People diagnosed with NPD are often defined as arrogant, demanding, manipulative, and
self-centered.
Surprisingly, narcissists have an extreme self confidence, which draws some people attention
to them, however, you should know that this projection is merely an illusion, because
deep inside, they are actually quite a fragile individuals.
Moreover, they also often use this fragility as a source of simpathy from others.
Because of their traits as a narcissist, you'll hardly find a good relationship with any narcissists.
Narcissists tend to take advantage of any kind person's act.
Worse, they will see a person's kindness as an act of weakness, imagine a great white
shark that detects blood in the water.
While intimate relationship happens when the couple loves, understands, and respects each
other.
Such relationship is only a dream when it comes to relationship with narcissist.
If you are wondering why, here is the reasons.
#1 - They only want power
Narcissist demand appreciation of their power from their partner.
They do this by pretending to be weak, hurt, and desperate as a way to seek attention,
care, and kindness.
However, narcissist will use this to take advantage of others and leech their energy
to feed what they want, which is attention and attention.
#2 - They cannot trust others
Trust is one important element in a relationship.
Unfortunately, narcissists just cannot afford that.
They fail to trust others because narcissists are wired to see themselves as the one who
can be trusted.
Others are just additional objects that can be stirred to feed the narcissists.
#3 - Looking for motives
Narcissists always try to find out how to victimize their partner.
They will do it through some motives ranging from giving and taking affection to pretending
to be hurt, and being frustrated.
All of these are only used as bait so that the narcissist can have higher chance to use
their victims.
#4 - Abusive
If the other partner starts to make defensive move against the narcissists, things can get
worse.
They usually will start doing crazy things such as throwing stuffs and scratching their
body.
However, this can get worse when the other partner becomes the target of abusive behavior.
Literally, the other guy can be the punching bag for the narcissists.
#5 - It's impossible
It is just impossible to establish a good or even intimate relationship with narcissists.
They really just want you to be the victim.
Nothing else.
Despite the fact that they give you attention, care, and support, they will take everything
back, leaving you with nothingness.
All in all, that's the 5 reasons narcissists can't have intimate relationships.
Really cool information isn't it?
Please share your thoughts and experiences in the comments below!
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Catharine Arnold Interview! We talk to a writer who is ALSO the Sheriff of Nottingham! - Duration: 14:04.Hello everybody Here I am at the
Nottingham Council house on my home turf
with Catharine Arnold who is a prominent
writer and historian so it's lovely to
meet you today Catharine and obviously
thank you and obviously Catharine is
also the Sheriff of Nottingham.
Can we start by talking about your book
on the Spanish flu pandemic of 1918, why
did you choose that subject? Um family
history really my own background because
my father's parents both died in the
Spanish influenza pandemic of 1918 and,
frustratingly, he would not speak about
it, it was obviously a formative time in
his life and it had repercussions for us
as it did for millions of others over
the years. And so I'd always been
intrigued by it, it had always been at
the back of my mind as something to
write about and then I was kind of going
through some ideas with my my agent and
we suddenly thought "hmmm
three years time 100th anniversary of
Spanish flu - yes that is something I'd
really like to write about!" Strictly
speaking it was a virus, but in those
days they didn't really know what a
virus wa, as opposed to a bacteria, but
it was global, yes it took out (we think
now) around about a hundred million people,
which is then about a third of the
population of the earth, so there wasn't
a single place that went untouched, from
the remotest parts of China and India to
Australia, New Zealand, Greenland, Russia
it was everywhere! And was that a
personal journey for you? It was more
that I could understand what his, his
family, his household, I could understand
what he had gone through in Leamington
where it happened, and I could then see
kinda like the waves rippling out, you
know, from one little boy losing his
parents in the West Midlands, to a
similar pattern echoing throughout the
country and then throughout the world. So
I was um reading, for instance, about an
American boy at school, gradually losing
his friends one by one and seeing the
nearby graveyard filling.
I could think "Oh yes - that's what
happened back in Leamington!" So
although it wasn't explicitly personal,
it was very, it would have been
impossible to write about it without it
being personal, so I'd say it's probably
the most personal of my books and it had
a considerable impact on me as a result.
Your books tend to focus on the darker
side of humanity; so what is it about
asylums and vice and the criminal
underworld that so fascinate and inspire
you to write? I think I've always been
interested in the dark side of life, I
grew up in a very spooky house and I
think early on I learnt that to stop
being frightened about something, it was
interesting to explore it, and I also
liked to to scare and be scared, I have
to admit, that there's... there's kind of
like a a frisson of telling my friends
a frightening story, or writing a ghost
story at school or something, it both
frightens us and it reassures us because
we're making it into a story, we're
making some sense of what could
otherwise be a meaningless existential
threat. And if you could choose any era
in history what is your favourite that
you're most inspired, by what era would
that be? I suppose really it would be the
Victorian era, I can remember my agent
speaking to somebody else and saying "Well
Catharine's a Victorian, really." And I
thought I'm not sure I like the sound of
that, but I think what he meant was that
I was interested in kind of an almost
steam-punk sensibility; this mixture of
fashionable, the new, the scientific and
the modern, and this consciousness of a
much older world and an older world
beyond that, of myths and legends; and
also the Victorians were great show-men
and show-women, I mean you think of
something like Dickens reading aloud to
his audiences, he'd love to act out all
the parts and to be an entertainer not
just a writer and that speaks to me as
well, kind of the performative aspect of
it, that's one way to describe the kind
of writing I do would be as a mash-up,
because while I'm attempting to pull
together lots of facts and ideas and
historical incidents and make them fresh
and new for a new generation and
for people who haven't read them before,
I'm also drawing on a whole existing
canon of writing, so for instance if I'm
writing about death in the Victorian era
then it would be impossible not to
mention Dickens and his descriptions of
graveyards, or other writers and their
descriptions of pauper funerals. I'm
very conscious that I'm not necessarily
doing something new or different, but I'm
working within a medium of stuff that
already exists, so when I say "mash-up",
perhaps sounds self-conscious, but it's a bit
like being a DJ, you're just pulling
together lots of different elements and
then putting them together in a slightly
new way which you hope people enjoy. And
is there a particular historical
character that most excites you? Quite
recently I became obsessed with the Ruth
Ellis case, as you know, she was the last
woman to be hanged and I was writing a
book about crime and capital punishment
and I spent the entire book writing
about the history of capital punishment
and how ghastly it is and how cruel and
barbaric, when I came to her case, I was
very, very intrigued by it, because from
from a legal point of view, it can be
said that she put the noose around her
neck herself, she walked right into it/
There was plenty of senior defence counsel
bending over backwards to get her off,
there wouldn't have been a great fuss
among the general public if she'd been
pardoned, or at least if her service
had been commuted to imprisonment.
There was immense public sympathy for
her and as it began to come out that
quite clearly she'd been brutally beaten
on a regular basis by her boyfriend,
there's not a surely, you would have
thought, a jury in the world that would
have convicted and yet she appeared to
want to die; it was almost as if, having
killed Blakely, she felt that she had to
die herself. It was tremendously
engrossing because it was an example of
a kind of twisted romanticism, and I was
also fascinated by the way Ruth was
portrayed in the media at the time, by
the fact that the famous crime writer,
the American crime writer Raymond
Chandler,
who really invented the concept of the
'femme fatale with a smoking gun', Raymond
Chandler pleaded for her to be spared, so yes,
I became completely obsessed by that
case and I think you do, I think it's a
bit like being a detective - you think
"Here all the facts of the case - is this
what really happened?" So you've written
about the greatest literary genius in
Shakespeare; what is it about him that so
inspires, and he's so relevant to today,
and has been through the ages? First
thing that intrigued me about
Shakespeare is he was coming of age as a
dramatist and an actor at the point
where British theatre suddenly kicked
off; so from people doing a few plays in
cloisters and on the back of carts, you
suddenly had purpose-built theatres and
suddenly a whole load of unemployed
graduates from Oxford and Cambridge hit
London trying to get into the media
scene
(nothing really changes) and they have the
the knowledge and the ability to
translate and write and put on plays and
at the same time there's a huge upswing
in the urban working-class, who wanted
entertainment, so they would pile into
these theatres, equally happy to watch
somebody from Oxford strutting around
quoting from Catullus (sorry) or,
you know, a good fight scene from a
history play; it's almost as if you could
compare the development of Elizabethan
theatre with gaming in this in our age
over the last 10 or 15 years; something
that came from absolutely out of nowhere and
suddenly became a million-dollar
industry overnight. The other side of
Shakespeare, what really fascinates me
him, what fascinates me about him as a
writer was his curiosity, his humanity,
his ability to get insight inside the
mind of almost anybody, from a jealous
guy like Iago - Desdemona - poor old
Lear, senile and mad on the heath with his
fool; to portray their their feelings and
their, their plight in language that is
understandable (okay, some people, there
are some words that you need
a modern translation for - that's fine)
but you get, you get what he's all about,
there's never any doubt that his heart
is in there; the other thing that got me
about Shakespeare was um starting to
write about him was terrifying because
it was a bit like this 'lovey' thing, you
think "Shakespeare - oh I can't do that,
it's just too much!" But anybody can write
about Shakespeare, but you have to overcome
that, but it's the sheer amount of books,
and I'd studied Shakespeare at
university, but I started off by going to
the UL at Cambridge and looking at all
the books about Shakespeare (thousands of
them!) and I felt "hHw am I going to do
this?" And then I realised that the reason
I write like I do, is it's my particular
take on things and I felt "I've read 'em
all and qualified to sort of comment."
But it's what Shakespeare means to me
and I thought about the summer I spent
reading all the Shakespeare plays,
because I felt I needed to, to get that
kind of under my belt, really to know
what he was really about. And then I'm
fascinated by the fact that we know very
little about him as a person; we've got a
few facts but where he lived and when he
died, but trying to get a grip on
Shakespeare, it's like looking through a
pair of opera glasses; they're the wrong
way around, so you can just about see
this little figure and you think he's
just coming into focus, I mean he's, he's
elusive but I think that's how a real
writer should be; that the work should
stand, not the person. And conversely to
that, you've also written about Bedlam or
Bethlem Hospital, which is the infamous
asylum; why did you choose to write about
that? Bedlam or Bethlem Hospital seemed
like a natural second after I'd written
about London and death in 'Necropolis' and
it's, again, it's something I'd always
wanted to write about because the
original Bethlem Hospital was the first
psychiatric hospital in Europe, and it
was a very ramshackle sort of small
affair to start off with, run by the
Church and then by the 17th century, it
had moved to an enormous sort of Palace
of Madness where Liverpool Street
Station now stands and could take 600
people
And I was interested by the concept of
mental illness as it had changed over
the ages and how people's response to
the Mad had changed, so in the medieval
period (and I use "mad" as a sort of
blanket turn without wishing to offend
anybody) ideas from mental illness and
mental debility were vague in those days,
so they're quite likely to lock up
people who we would now define as having
learning difficulties, they really
couldn't tell the difference, treatment
of mad people varied from cruel and the
callous, to a much more enlightened
regime under the Quakers, where they
talked about sort of "moral care" and they
believed that if people were mentally
ill, if you fed them properly and looked
after them,
perhaps gave them some opiates to calm
them down, then they probably get better
and quite often they did, and also had
the whole kind of scientific cannon to
go at there, because I got the emerging
enlightenment, interest in science and
scientific writing, so there's quite a
lot of material about different
attitudes towards mental health as an
aspect of Medicine; it's almost as if
there were different avatars of mental
illness, so 17th, 18th, 19th centuries,
you've got these huge mansions of
madness, not just Bethlem Hospital itself,
but hospitals like that up and down in
the country, throughout the world and
then as people became more enlightened
towards their, in their treatment of the
mentally ill, the hospitals shrank and
became more normal and more recognizably
'hospitals'. Obviously you're Sheriff of
Nottingham now and it seems quite
unusual that somebody who's such a
prominent historian and writer, should
take this role; what is it about the
Sheriff of Nottingham that attracted you
to it and does it influence your writing
in any way? I think it's early days yet
as to how it will affect my writing. I
was asked to do this because I've been a
Labour councillor for
eleven years and I've always tried to
run my writing alongside my duties as a
councillor. Then last year, I was asked if
I'd like to take on this enormous
responsibility; and there are various
reasons why that they asked people; that
can be seniority, it can be because
they're reliable,
it's because they're willing to give up
the time because it's very
time-consuming job, but I was fascinated
to do it because I see it as a way of
giving something back, it's... it's my last
year as a councillor and it's interesting
as a historian to see myself in a long
line of other sheriff's, stretching back
to anglo-saxon times and back to about
1446 when the first proper Sheriff
of Nottingham was inaugurated. Catharine,
it's been lovely meeting you today, thank
you so much for letting us come and talk
to you, the information has been
fascinating so thank you so much. Well
thank you, I've really enjoyed it.
And thank you for joining us we'll see
you next time.
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