5 Reasons Narcissists Can'T Have Intimate Relationships
If you currently have a relationship with the narcissist, then I believe this short
video will be useful for you.
Narcissism, or Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD), is defined as a strong sense of "grandiosity,
a lack of empathy for other people, and a need for admiration."
People diagnosed with NPD are often defined as arrogant, demanding, manipulative, and
self-centered.
Surprisingly, narcissists have an extreme self confidence, which draws some people attention
to them, however, you should know that this projection is merely an illusion, because
deep inside, they are actually quite a fragile individuals.
Moreover, they also often use this fragility as a source of simpathy from others.
Because of their traits as a narcissist, you'll hardly find a good relationship with any narcissists.
Narcissists tend to take advantage of any kind person's act.
Worse, they will see a person's kindness as an act of weakness, imagine a great white
shark that detects blood in the water.
While intimate relationship happens when the couple loves, understands, and respects each
other.
Such relationship is only a dream when it comes to relationship with narcissist.
If you are wondering why, here is the reasons.
#1 - They only want power
Narcissist demand appreciation of their power from their partner.
They do this by pretending to be weak, hurt, and desperate as a way to seek attention,
care, and kindness.
However, narcissist will use this to take advantage of others and leech their energy
to feed what they want, which is attention and attention.
#2 - They cannot trust others
Trust is one important element in a relationship.
Unfortunately, narcissists just cannot afford that.
They fail to trust others because narcissists are wired to see themselves as the one who
can be trusted.
Others are just additional objects that can be stirred to feed the narcissists.
#3 - Looking for motives
Narcissists always try to find out how to victimize their partner.
They will do it through some motives ranging from giving and taking affection to pretending
to be hurt, and being frustrated.
All of these are only used as bait so that the narcissist can have higher chance to use
their victims.
#4 - Abusive
If the other partner starts to make defensive move against the narcissists, things can get
worse.
They usually will start doing crazy things such as throwing stuffs and scratching their
body.
However, this can get worse when the other partner becomes the target of abusive behavior.
Literally, the other guy can be the punching bag for the narcissists.
#5 - It's impossible
It is just impossible to establish a good or even intimate relationship with narcissists.
They really just want you to be the victim.
Nothing else.
Despite the fact that they give you attention, care, and support, they will take everything
back, leaving you with nothingness.
All in all, that's the 5 reasons narcissists can't have intimate relationships.
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