This is "A Life-risking Concern."
I need someone to be the husband.
He seems to be someone like you,
so you can play the husband.
Your husband?
Hey. Don't I get a say in it?
(Don't barge into my heart like that)
Don't get me excited.
That made my heart race.
Hello, I'm a woman in my fifties
who has just given up.
I've given up on my husband.
My husband has had an affair for 30 years.
(For 30 years?)
"Honey. It's raining today.
Why don't we have a drink together?"
"I can't. I have to go play soccer."
"Honey, it's almost 105 degrees today."
"But still...
I have to go play soccer."
Yes. My husband is crazy about playing soccer.
He's having an affair with soccer.
"Oh my. Oh my. Oh my."
"What's wrong? What's wrong?"
"I broke my rib while playing soccer.
But that's okay. I scored a goal."
(Oh my)
He may live without me,
but he can't live without soccer.
I had given up on him,
but I can't do that any longer.
In 2011,
he was diagnosed with a type of blood cancer.
Blood cancer.
"Honey, please stop playing soccer.
The doctor said you can't overexert yourself."
"I will play soccer
as long as my body is able to move."
Is soccer more important than his life?
I am quite desperate.
Please stop my husband from playing soccer.
Kang June.
Choi Minsoo doesn't play soccer, right?
Soccer... No, he doesn't.
But this is terrible.
I'm more worried about him having an affair.
It breaks my heart.
What?
Didn't you say he's having an affair?
With soccer.
(June has become a star once again today)
You thought he was having an affair, too?
Then that's a serious concern!
Why are you clapping?
Choi Minsoo said that
teasing you is his hobby.
Let's bring her out now.
Sangjun, can you escort her?
- All right. / - Okay.
Please come on out.
(Who's concerned about her husband?)
(Bang Hyechun)
(Please come this way)
Help her up from above.
- From above? / - Push her up.
Can you please help me?
(Please help me)
Thank you.
(It's Sangjun's first time here, too)
How often does he play soccer?
I think exercising wouldn't be so bad.
Does he play soccer too much?
We've been married for 34 years now.
He's been crazy about it for the past 30 years.
He goes to play soccer 3-4 times a week.
He plays from 8-10 in the morning.
That's the 60s soccer team.
On Sundays, he plays in the neighborhood.
He comes home at 9-10 p.m.
- He plays all day? / - Yes.
He plays soccer so much that
I think he has forgotten about his family.
June got confused at first.
Please don't tell her.
You said that he's having an affair,
and she thought he was with another woman.
That's not true, right?
That was years ago.
(A refreshing blow)
I once caught him years ago.
That's not the concern anymore, right?
No. Just soccer.
Let's move on now.
Let's move on.
For his night shift, he goes to work at 3 p.m.
He's supposed to come home in the morning,
but he takes his uniforms with him.
- He plays after he works all night? / - Yes.
(He's eager to play even after a night shift)
You said he has blood cancer.
How can he overexert himself like that?
He had a runny nose, so he went to see a doctor.
They diagnosed him with a blood cancer.
Even when he's that sick,
he's so crazy about soccer. It's useless.
He doesn't care about his family.
When was he diagnosed?
He was declared to be cured 5 years after.
- Completely recovered? / - Yes.
But...
When he got a physical exam this year,
they found many small tumors
in his kidneys. Both kidneys.
But he can't get surgery for that.
That's why you're worried about his health?
I'm worried that he'll collapse.
But you can't say playing soccer is bad for him.
- If he plays it moderately... / - Yes.
I'm not saying that playing soccer is bad.
He just needs to play it in moderation.
He sometimes comes home with a sprained ankle.
One time he slipped in the rain
and had to wear a cast on his arm.
He once broke his ankle.
Have you tried talking to him
about your concerns?
I told him, "You're sick. Play moderately.
You're not on the national team."
He's not going to earn money. He's spending it.
He ends up spending money on soccer.
Sure. He also risks his health.
Yeah, sure.
Either way, he's not on the national team.
So I told him to play in moderation.
What did he say?
He said, "I can take care of myself."
He said, "I can take care of myself.
I'll take care of me. You take care of you."
You must be here because you're very worried.
I have so much to say.
I could write more than 100 books on my concerns.
- That's an exaggeration. / - I'm serious.
In my opinion,
you could write about 30 books.
What do your children say about it?
My daughters tried to stop him, too.
- You have 2 girls? / - Yes.
They wanted to be here today,
but they were too busy.
- Your daughters aren't here? / - No.
I thought that woman was your daughter and
thought, "How could she look so nonchalant?"
So she's not your daughter.
Let's meet her husband now.
Please applaud for him. Hello, sir.
Hello.
He's so healthy. Hello, sir.
(He looks healthy!)
You have so many games to play on Sundays.
- That's right. / - How did you come today?
I'm glad you said that.
I have games to play from 7:30 to 8.
- In the evening? / - In the morning.
I played two games in the morning.
I just got here.
He already played.
I kept calling him to make sure he came.
What's your position?
Left wing. I mostly use my left foot and left hand.
That's a crucial position.
It isn't easy to find people who are left-footed.
Did you see how his eyes sparkled
when he talked about soccer?
Ask him another question about soccer.
You know more about soccer than I do.
How many goals do you usually score?
You don't know much about soccer.
(Kim Jongmin / Doesn't know about soccer)
I don't make the goal myself.
I dribble the ball and pass it
to my teammate.
When my teammate shoots and makes a goal,
it's so thrilling.
(He's getting excited again)
Do you like playing soccer that much?
Even if I collapse on the field,
I will continue to play!
I may skip a meal, but I must play soccer.
He's so passionate about it.
Do you play 3-4 times a week?
I play every Tuesday, Thursday and Saturday.
I play on Sundays with another team.
After we eat lunch, there's another game
with people who are in their 60s.
There's more?
I play with them, too.
Let's say a game takes an hour.
I play about 6 hours in one day.
All right.
(He's been doing that for 30 years...)
We understand that you love soccer,
but you're overdoing it.
That's why your wife is concerned.
She tells me to play less, and I don't ignore her.
The blood cancer I had
- is a type of leukemia. / - Right.
I was able to overcome chemotherapy
because I've built up my immune system
by playing soccer for years.
I went to see my doctor recently.
He said, "Continue to play.
There is no other medicine.
Playing soccer is your cure."
- No way. / - That's understandable.
Wait. Your wife just frowned and said, "No way."
He said, "Play soccer, but moderately."
Moderately.
But he plays too much. He even abandoned us.
The doctor told you to play moderately?
Yes.
Yes, he told me to play moderately.
(He changes his words quickly)
But the doctor never forbade me to play.
She said that you abandoned your family.
She seems to hold a grudge about that.
Did you abandon your family?
No. I slept at home last night, too.
You said earlier that you never ignored your wife.
But in what ways
do you think that
you didn't ignore her?
I know my own body more than anyone else.
If I don't exercise, I could take medication.
But by playing soccer,
I am balancing my body
so I don't need medicine to keep myself healthy.
You didn't play soccer when you were sick, right?
I'm asking because you love it so much.
I was crazy about it back then too.
(This is too much)
What?
I was completely bald,
so I wore a bandanna on my head.
You played while getting cancer treatments?
I would fall down after taking a few steps,
but got up to play. Then I collapsed again.
I got chills.
My teammates dragged me off the field.
- When I think about it... / - Unbelievable.
But by playing soccer,
I was able to overcome the chemotherapy.
Ma'am. Did you know that he played
during those cancer treatments?
I didn't know he collapsed on the field.
If I stopped him, he would just yell at me.
He said that he could take care of himself.
If I keep nagging at him, he opens his eyes wide
and we end up arguing with each other.
I'm sick as well.
I didn't argue to keep myself healthy.
In 1995,
my mother passed away from liver cancer.
I know how she was during those cancer treatments.
Taekyun, too.
My mother had blood cancer, too.
It's impossible to play sports
while going through chemotherapy.
I am amazed by your strong mentality.
He was in a sterilized room for 48 days.
Right. That's what I heard.
When his platelet numbers went up,
he walked up and down the stairs.
I'm impressed.
He would walk 10,000 steps a day.
- While he was hospitalized? / - Yes.
He even tried to help other patients
and got in fights.
- Why? / - He was trying to make others walk, too.
He was telling other patients to walk, too?
What did the patients say?
He was comfortably in his wheelchair and
the husband kept asking him to walk.
So he must've said, "No!"
He must've watched what he ate, too.
Of course.
They told me that the room could be contaminated,
so I sterilized the house every day.
I would make sure his food was germ-free, too.
You did everything for him.
When he went out, I made him multi-grain rice.
Oh, talking about this is going to make me cry.
Ma'am.
Let's not talk about that anymore.
She worked too hard for him.
She did. You admit that, right?
Yes.
It's not easy for a wife to do this much.
But she feels like soccer is more important to him.
It must be so upsetting.
You may think you've recovered because of soccer,
but it's all thanks to your loyal wife
and your daughters.
It's not because of soccer.
Since you're crying so much,
we'll talk about the cheating.
Because you're crying so much.
What else is your husband into?
Fishing.
(Getting worse)
He likes fishing, too?
Once you get into that...
He likes fishing, too?
(Why did you have to mention that, too?)
You're just into so many hobbies.
Excuse me, sir.
He doesn't play soccer on Mondays and Wednesdays.
So he goes fishing.
When he doesn't play soccer?
Yesterday, he said he'd go to a sauna
and went to play pool instead.
He's into billiards, fishing and soccer.
So he never spends his free time at home.
He doesn't drink though, right?
He'd die if he drank.
He used to drink a lot when he was younger.
Then he doesn't go out to drink?
He still goes to be there.
It sounds like
you are so busy with hobbies
that you don't spend time with your family.
That must be tough for her, too.
My friend owns a billiard hall,
so I went to stay cool in the summer.
Okay. Then what about fishing?
That, too.
I'm an impatient man.
So I go fishing to look at the mountains
and try to slow myself down.
What about going out to drinking engagements?
I have to go because
if I go home right after the games without
spending time with my friends, it's embarrassing.
I've known them for years.
That's why you go even though you don't drink?
Have you ever thought about
doing these hobbies with your wife?
That's a great question.
You can ask my wife.
She hates the sun, which we make Vitamin D from.
That's why she...
That's what you think.
Would you hate doing those things with him?
She hates going out without a parasol,
so I never asked.
Do you really hate doing those things?
If she wanted to, I'd go with her immediately.
Tell us, ma'am.
Do you hate doing them? He says that you do.
We can't do those hobbies without money.
Why? Because they bet.
- That's what you hate. / - They make bets.
Going fishing costs money, too.
He needs to pay about $30-50.
If he wins, he has to chip in money.
He must buy uniforms seasonally.
There's the picture.
- His uniforms. / - He's like a professional.
Oh my.
(He spends lots of money for his hobbies)
They aren't even worn down yet.
He won many awards, too.
You don't get paid for winning trophies.
You don't get paid for winning trophies.
It's all a waste of money.
I see two bottles of liquor in there, too.
How are you doing financially?
We're not well-off.
I work 3 jobs.
- I work for 12 hours a day. / - You do?
What do you do in the morning?
On Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays,
I cook for 18-month-old babies.
On Tuesdays and Thursdays, I cook for
a 75-year-old woman who has colorectal cancer.
Then from 4 to 8 p.m.
I babysit a child.
You're a babysitter.
So you have to work three jobs
just to make ends meet?
He can't even get the treatment he needs.
Because we can't afford to pay $1,000.
He doesn't drive his car to save money.
He takes a packed lunch, too.
(If he could spend less on his hobbies...)
She works three jobs and she's crying.
How do you feel, sir?
I feel terrible.
I wouldn't be a man if I didn't feel bad.
I promise that in the future...
We don't have much time left...
Unless it's an official tournament,
I promise right here and now that
I will spend more time with my wife.
We're touched because we've never heard him say this.
But I guess she's heard this before.
She isn't affected by his words at all.
I will spend the rest of my life for you.
(You caught me)
(I won't be fooled again!)
We invited his friend who plays soccer with him
to ask about what he thinks.
He looks very familiar to us.
You'll recognize him.
Hello.
Hello.
It's been a long time.
There's a soccer game every Tuesday and Thursday.
There's also another club that plays
every Monday, Wednesday and Friday.
I'm with 13 teams in Korea and 4 teams overseas.
Overseas? What's an overseas team?
I wear this uniform to every game.
I will play soccer even after I die.
I will love soccer forever.
(He's just as bad...)
What are you doing here today?
I play soccer 3-4 times a week.
You two play together?
Yes.
Oh my.
Sometimes, he would run
then start panting with his hands on his knees.
(You said you beat cancer thanks to soccer...)
He said he has tumors in his kidneys.
I think it's because he played too much.
I couldn't imagine how his family feels.
Do you think he loves soccer more
or do you love soccer more?
It's true that I love soccer more.
If I'm on level 100...
- He went like this. / - He went like this.
(Embarrassed)
I'm only into soccer,
but he's also into playing pool and fishing.
So overall, I think he's worse than I am.
I put on pain relief patches this morning.
It would've been nice if he asked if I'm in pain.
He doesn't get me medicine even when I'm sick.
I get dressed and go out to buy it myself.
Could you tell us how your health is?
I've been diabetic for 29 years.
But I still operated a restaurant.
One day, I fell down the stairs
and they put 8 metal pins in my ankle.
- In your ankle? / - Yes.
I was supposed to get them removed, but I was so busy
earning money that too much time passed.
Now they are stuck and can't be removed.
I also had disc surgery.
I have 4 metal pins in my lower back.
She has quite a few ailments too.
When were you the most upset during those ailments?
When I got surgery on my hand,
he came to see me while he was
covered in sweat after playing soccer.
I still can't forget that.
All you wanted was a sincere word from him.
It's not because I hate her or anything.
Sure, we know that.
- It's my fault. / - Why do you think you did that?
What?
Why do you think you did that?
You don't care about your family?
I guess that's all I can say.
I'm embarrassed of myself.
I don't want to make any excuses for myself.
Sure.
Why was I so indifferent to her?
I am very heartbroken.
What do you want from your husband?
I want him to play soccer less.
I don't work on Saturdays,
so I wish he would take me out to
a nice restaurant or
to a nice sauna.
I don't ask for more.
You're not asking for much.
If he spends his Saturdays with you,
will you let him play pool and go fishing?
That... That would be hard.
No billiards?
Because we're in a financial bind.
- Do you agree too, Mr. Red? / - Yes.
He doesn't need to play pool or go fishing?
I think he should quit everything except soccer.
(Stop it!)
He's nudging him.
Your family came here before with their concern.
Has that concern been resolved?
Or is it the same? Or did it get worse?
I made a promise with the whole nation,
so I must keep my promise.
I can't keep the promise 100%,
but I'm trying my best to make up for it
by spending more time with my family.
So I will make sure he doesn't play too much.
Really? Is that a promise?
I will make sure he doesn't play too much.
How many times do you think he should play?
I want him to play just once a week.
Just once a week?
What do you think about that, ma'am?
(Applauding)
Oh my.
(This isn't what I wanted)
You agree with him playing once a week?
Once or twice a week only.
She'll allow you to play twice a week.
- Sir. / - Twice a week.
Your friend said once a week,
but your wife will let you play twice a week.
Thank you for saying that, honey.
I will keep that promise.
Don't make a promise that you can't keep.
We'll give you some time. Your wife seems
to be very upset about you opening
your eyes wide and speaking coldly to her.
She won't look at you.
She isn't able to look at you.
You're right. Look at your husband, ma'am.
We'll give you some time.
Think about what promise
you will make to her.
Think about it.
Let's start with Sangjun. Is it a concern?
He goes overboard in everything he does.
I understand how hard it must be for her,
but I understand how he feels, too.
Our family is exactly the same.
My parents have two daughters.
So I always worry that my dad might be lonely.
I hope their daughters watch this
and learn something from it.
Your love for soccer isn't the problem.
It's a problem and a concern because
you're putting soccer before your family.
Is it a concern?
Yes, it is.
You're happy when you play soccer, right?
Yes.
She's happy when she's with you.
Yes.
Then you both should be happy together.
Are you telling her to play soccer with him?
Yes.
Think about how you can be happy together.
I'll think about it with you.
Okay, everyone.
I have no idea what he just said.
If you think this is a concern, press the button.
(What does the audience think?)
5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
Please stop.
Please say a word to your wife.
For the past 34 years,
I never called her "honey."
What did you call her then?
Her name.
Or you could call her by her full name.
Like when you two dated.
Honey.
Ms. Bang Hyechun.
No one can understand
how much your heart has rotten
over the past 34 years because of me.
I will make a promise on this program,
in front of the whole nation!
Starting tonight,
I'd like to have a meal with you at a restaurant.
Until the day we die,
as long as you will allow me,
I will be with you.
Please believe me when I say that, honey.
I've loved and will love you forever.
I love you.
That was so awesome.
You're so eloquent.
- Ma'am. / - Do you forgive him?
I wonder if he'll keep his promise.
Please have faith in him.
I will believe him.
I will work hard and do my best to support him.
How many votes did they get? Please show us.
"A Life-risking Concern."
The last digit is a 9.
How many votes out of 200 did they get?
159 votes.
Please give them a round of applause.
Thank you.
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