Greetings and welcome to Awakening With Brahma Kumaris. Welcome, Sister.
Om Shanti.
Om Shanti and welcome to Soul Reflections.
Thank you.
We were discussing about forgiveness and there was an incident
Where the sister got her brother imprisoned because of a loss in business deal.
The outcome of the discussion was good
Earlier I had got myself entangled as a third party
I radiated resentment from my side
So there was a heavy exchange of resentment.
And later I wrote to them that they are beautiful people
They would have never done that if not for a past Karmic account
It happened with you and it can happen with all of us.
Now let us resolve it. This is what I wrote.
Now we will not think of whether we will get a positive response or a negative one
Now I want to understand what is to be done until we get a reply from that side.
I can't ask everybody to study spiritual Gyan and meditate.
I can't tell that to the brother who is in jail. He will not be willing, he might get angry.
What do I do?
You mentioned - " the person with whom something wrong happened"
If we have that person to create right thoughts
He will say he cannot do it.
But it is actually very important for him to do it.
Can I do something for both those souls?
You will anyway do it. Let us take it one step at a time.
So first you will do it. What would you do?
There is a Karmic account between these two souls, today that Karmic account is not pleasant.
The reason is that there was something unpleasant in the past.
Now both are creating resentment towards each other.
If you try to convince them, neither of them will be ready at this moment.
The sister will not be willing to revoke her action.
She is not ready to forgive.
The brother who is suffering will create hatred for his sister and her family.
He will also not forgive because he is already suffering.
So both the souls who have that Karmic account
If we advise them with our words at this time
They are not ready for it.
What can we do as a third person?
We often see our family members, extended family members or friends having to face past Karmic accounts.
We will also want to do something for them.
But we feel that we cannot do anything as such.
Because they do not understand, no matter how much we explain.
Many people say they understood what we are saying.
That we should not create negative thoughts for that soul.
But other people in our family are creating.
So how will this problem get resolved?
How to solve the problem when other members of the family are radiating negative energy?
One step at a time.
We need to change their thought process very slowly and gradually.
How can we change somebody's thought process?
By radiating our thoughts to them.
When we try to talk to them verbally
When we try to speak to them, it turns into an argument.
Everybody's ego and pain stands in the way.
And they cannot understand what is being said for their welfare. The intellect will not receive it.
If you ask me to forgive somebody
Then today, I am not talking about a few years back but today
If I put in a little effort and explain it to myself
By taking Gyan, my understanding past Karmic accounts
Thinking about the present and the future I will still be able to do it.
But if I tell somebody who has been to trade and has just come back
Then it will be difficult for him to forgive.
First of all if we had to do it ourselves
Everyone can check for themselves
Is there anyone whom I need to forgive?
Many of them.
Then let us do it first.
After that we will see how to heal others.
If there is someone whom I need to forgive
Now I have the understanding that exchange can be healed only through forgiveness.
All the understanding of why I need to forgive.
Acceptance.
Forgiveness seems difficult because
Is because we create a statement - it is their fault.
It becomes very easy to forgive if we change the statement and say
Both of us had made a mistake in the past.
It is very easy then to take the next step.
The first step has to be right.
If I say it is your fault
You did this to me
Then I will find it difficult to forgive you.
Why should I forgive you?
Even if I understand that it will have a future consequence
That it will continue in future, even then
We will not be able to create good energy for the other person.
We can't create the right energy as long as we say it is their fault.
When the energy that is radiating is - it is their fault
How can the healing happen?
This one line first needs to change.
We can check the energy levels of both the lines.
One is I create a thought - it's his fault.
What is its energy?
Second is I create a thought - there was a Karmic account created in the past between both of us.
Both of us had done something wrong at that time.
Isn't the energy of these two lines different?
If I create a thought - it is your fault
What am I radiating to you?
But if I create a thought that something unpleasant was created by both of us in the past
What happened in the past is an imagination.
And the present is a fact because I have seen it.
How can pass be an imagination?
We will have to imagine it, isn't it?
Not at all. See this is what happens.
When we have the knowledge - as is the Karma so will be the destiny.
Is there a guarantee to this statement? For example you are sitting in front of me.
If we say even in the previous birth we were sitting this way, I can only imagine it.
It is not a huge fact.
There is a difference between imagination and understanding.
How do we understand when it is an imagination?
Okay. Today if I do not take care of my body
Tomorrow I will fall ill.
There are a number of years between the today and tomorrow in this case.
There could be a gap of 5 years or 20 years
That I did not take care for 20 years
I did not eat on time, did not rest enough
Exercise was not even in my routine.
I did a lot of those for 20 years.
So after 20 years
There were a few illnesses is in the body
What will the doctor say as the reason for it?
You had not done something right over the years
And this is the consequence.
Today you cannot see what is it that you did not do in those 20 years.
Because you didn't do something 10 years back, or 10 years back or something had happened.
What can you see today? You can see the illness in your body.
But if I do not take responsibility for this illness
Then I cannot create a solution.
Now I understood. Since I did not pay attention to my health
That was the cause and what has happened today is the effect.
We need to look at the effect and believe in the cause.
When we see the effect and take responsibility of the cause
Then we can heal it.
If I saw the effect - illness.
Cause - wrong lifestyle.
Healing - correct lifestyle.
Who has the power? It's with me.
If I saw the effect that the body is ill
And if I ask - Why did God do this to me?
Why is my health bad?
If I say the city is like this, the weather is like that, air is not clean
Water is polluted
Something or the other is bound to happen
It means I didn't look at the cause.
I did not take responsibility of the effect.
So I will not be able to create a solution.
Solution and healing can happen only when
When we take the responsibility that I created the cause
Today if I change the cause
The future will change.
It applies everywhere, even and relationships.
Let us not consider about past birth for now.
Suppose relationship between two souls is not good today.
It doesn't happen that with the first thought they create, the relationship gets spoiled.
They met, a situation came, they lived together for some time, something happened
One of them did something and the other retaliated. So conflicts happened between them.
Today that conflict is visible in their relationship.
What is the cause for that conflict?
Effect cannot be created without the cause.
A knotted relationship cannot get created with the first thought itself.
He said something which I did not like.
I said something which he did not like.
Today there is a problem in the relationship. It is the effect.
We need to heal it now.
We need to see the cause for it.
We look at the cause and see what we thought and said to each other.
The effect and cause are connected.
Present is the effect and past is the cause.
I want the future to bring a beautiful relationship.
So I need to take responsibility of the cause
Today I need to change the cause.
I need to take responsibility of the past and in the present
Change that process
With that the future will change.
Suppose I don't talk properly with somebody today.
Tomorrow she may not talk to me, feeling upset.
So then I need to talk to her, put in effort and speak to her lovingly.
So in the present I understand that it is a result of what I did yesterday.
So either I say sorry and tell her I understand what I did yesterday.
After I do that it all becomes fine.
But when will it happen? Only when you take responsibility.
Which means we need to take responsibility of the past.
Without taking responsibility of the past
You will not be able to correct the present.
Suppose she is upset with you today but you do not take responsibility for the past.
If you said - I did not do anything, so I don't need to do anything now.
Then what will happen to the present?
It will continue with the same quality and flow into the future also.
The moment you took responsibility for the past
And changed, the present also changed.
Future also changes.
So the Gyan of Karma
It is not an imagination.
We can see it in one lifetime.
Everything is not always past Karmic account of the past birth.
It can be a past Karmic account of the present birth also.
This is a past Karmic account of yesterday.
Yesterday's Karmic account comes in front office today
By correcting it today we will correct our destiny of tomorrow.
When we understand it we can see
Karma and its result, Karma and its result.
It is between two souls
While you were doing this
Yesterday you did not speak properly
Today that person is not behaving right with you.
You remember yesterday.
So what did you do today?
You changed.
So you are today and tomorrow will both change.
Let us look at it again. Yesterday you did not speak properly with someone.
Between yesterday and today
Suppose both the souls change their costume
Between yesterday and today
Is it not possible that the costume will change?
Yes both of them died and took a rebirth. And they met again.
It can even happen in a gap of one day isn't it?
It can even happen in a gap of one day.
Yes it can.
Why do elders tell us - do not have a fight before you sleep.
We don't know if we will wake up tomorrow. Don't end a meeting with anyone with a fight.
We don't know if you will meet them again to resolve.
These are the reasons. Anything can happen between yesterday and today.
Things happen all of a sudden.
We could be travelling somewhere and something can go wrong.
At least one of them a leave the body out of the two people.
It can happen with both of them too.
When we take the responsibility that yesterday I did not speak properly
So today she is not behaving properly. Accepted?
Do you accept it?
Suppose one of them or both of them leave the body between yesterday and today.
Both will definitely meet each other again.
Their costume (body) has changed and even relationship has changed.
It's not necessary that they come as husband and wife. They can meet in any relationship.
The feeling between them the last time when they had met
The energy exchange they had, was continued.
Whether you meet each other after a day
Or meet after a month
Or meet after hundred years.
It is the energy exchange between two souls
The day they meet, that energy exchange will continue.
It is a matter of taking responsibility between yesterday and today.
But if there is a gap between yesterday and today
You are calling it imagination.
When we would play chess
Parents used to scream at us to come for dinner
But we would tell them not to touch it or disturb the chess board.
We would fall asleep after dinner but till the next day the board would remain untouched.
If we were busy that day we would still keep it the same way and resume the game on the third day.
So that one game which was unfinished
We would make sure all the pawns remained exactly in the position we had left them last
Why would you not take it all away and then put them back just before resuming?
Because it was incomplete.
Only when the game completes, we will restart.
It is incomplete.
Is it an imagination the next day?
No we have just played it half-way
Does it seem like an imagination, the next day?
Isn't it real? This energy exchange is also equally real.
So the next time we meet it will remain continued.
We need to explain this to ourselves repeatedly and accept it.
It is reality.
Should we accept now? Last time we had left it.
Today it is here now.
The win-loss that was happening last time
Today it will start from that point.
Which means the energy exchange we had left at, last time
Whoever was doing wrong, whoever was being troubled, the kind of energy being sent
Who returning that energy
It will start in the same state today.
This is not imagination.
This is real.
The sooner we accept this reality
The better and sooner we can start playing today's game, in a beautiful way.
Otherwise if we engage and blame games
We will not take responsibility.
Again let us see those two lines
You are doing wrong to me
Second line is that last time there was something that was unpleasant between us.
Both are different?
When we say both of us have done a wrong Karma
Rather than saying - you are wrong
It is like we were playing the game of chess last time and the game was incomplete.
Show the first thing that stops now is the energy of blame that you are wrong.
You are doing wrong with me - this energy stops.
Now I need to do a Karma because of which this energy exchange will move in a positive direction.
It does not matter how intense was our wrong Karma last time.
It could have been the worst Karma last time, it does not matter.
Last time however long our Karma towards each other had been
Today I need to take it towards the right direction.
That understanding and that realisation itself
Releases so much resentment and hatred.
Where will the focus shift to?
No blame and not a victim.
You are wrong and I am a victim - this energy finishes.
Responsibility of the past
And responsibility of the present
But it is a responsibility of both of them.
They played the game together.
If even one of them begins, the energy exchange starts.
If we look at it as a responsibility
Absolutely it is both of their responsibility.
So whatever is happening is right then.
Even in the past it was both of their responsibility.
And today if even one of them begins the game
In the right direction
The game will change.
But if we stand here and blame each other
If we blame and become victims
If we say - poor me, I am being wronged.
That person is wrong, he is troubling me.
The past energy was ugly, but with this kind of energy exchange the present also becomes ugly.
Future will also definitely be ugly.
Small effort made today
Will change our present and future.
First step is to stop the energy of saying -they are wrong, they are bad.
Stop the energy of saying - poor me.
What is the thought? It is both of our responsibility.
Both of us had done a Karma in the past
Because of which this is the energy exchange today.
Today I take the responsibility of changing this energy.
When the thinking changes, the Energy field changes
The energy with which you talk to people changes
The thoughts we create about other people, its energy will change.
A lot of Karmic accounts become light here itself.
Karmic account will be of this size but by repeatedly thinking about it we escalate it to a bigger size.
So let us first focus on reducing that Karmic account.
With our thoughts.
We need to prepare an affirmation to use during our morning meditation.
I am a divine soul.
He is also a divine soul.
Between both of us who are beautiful souls, sometime in the past
Both of us had created a wrong Karma.
Both the souls are very beautiful.
Both of us divine souls, with some Karmic account in the past.
Sit for meditation every morning and emerge that soul
Not the body and not the relationship.
Not the labels.
Not the conflict that is going on today.
We not bring the photo of that person on our mind?
Soul is a point of light.
But if we need to see or concentrate
We just give a white outline for the body.
We don't need to talk to the face.
When the past Karmic account happened between the two of us
The face was different probably.
The body was different, the relationship was different.
It is soul to soul, so every time we need to talk to the point of light.
We need to talk to the soul.
The moment we start seeing physical things
We get stuck in the present with what is happening.
We need to talk to the soul and this is just a practice.
A body made of white light.
And that soul. We know which soul we are talking to.
The vibration reaches faster when we talk to the soul.
Then I should also talk as a soul
We are already sitting in meditation in a soul conscious state.
When we sit in meditation, it is I the being in the body of light.
God's power is with me.
Then emerge that soul in front of you.
A soul in a body of white light.
The thought - I am a divine being.
I accept everyone as they are.
Now look at that soul and say - beautiful divine being.
We need to say this repeatedly and several times to that soul.
Beautiful, divine being.
Because it is the truth.
I was about to say it is a lie.
How is it a lie?
That brother will ask me - How can I call someone who sent me to jail as a beautiful soul?
Why was he sent to jail?
Because of past Karmic account.
Who were all responsible for that Karmic account?
Both of them.
Again bring the mind back.
I keep forgetting that the original quality of the soul is pure.
Given now that soul is pure and only with me there is an unpleasant Karmic account.
Only he was sent to jail, not everybody else.
With everybody else the relationship is very pure but only with him there is a problem.
Why are we creating these thoughts?
So that the negative thoughts get finished gradually.
I am a divine being and that soul is a divine being.
Beautiful being.
Both of us had a past Karmic account.
Today both of our present Karma
Is very beautiful.
What we are doing is to create a thought of the reality which we want.
Send a very powerful message to that soul.
That both of us have done something in the past.
Let's forget the past.
Let's create a new Karma today.
The new Karmic account which both of us will begin today will be perfect.
Our future will definitely be perfect.
We just need to pay attention that the reality we want
We need to create a thought about that.
And every morning in meditation we need to send that thought repeatedly to that soul, from our mind.
Between the two of us now it's a present new Karma.
You are a beautiful soul and together we will create a miracle today.
Keep sending the thought.
And the specific thought like in this case
Where the sister has sent her brother to jail
Send a specific message to that soul.
O soul, I have a firm faith
That you will release me from here.
I am completely sure about it.
Because both of our Karmic account is very beautiful from today.
Say it with full faith and conviction, and radiate that message to the soul.
Radiate it every day.
When we send that message every day
What happens to the other quality of thoughts and energy automatically?
They will stop.
Even if one of the two people starts sending this vibration.
The healing will begin on the other side.
Should it be done daily?
Yes and it needs to be done many times a day.
It needs to be done.
And to be done many times a day.
We are starting a new thought process.
What will be its benefit?
My own negative thinking will start getting dissolved.
This is forgiveness.
When I stop sending negative energy to you, it is forgiveness.
When I send it to you it will have an influence on you.
When both of us create that quality of energy
Karmic account has to absolutely change.
It happens and we have seen too many incidents.
Where very complicated things
Very complicated issues have got resolved when even one of them has done this every day.
But Ego and the lack of knowledge will stop us from doing it.
Lack of faith and lack of belief will also stop us.
We need to consider a Karmic account like an illness.
That there is an illness.
But he will refuse to accept.
Whatever we are doing for ourselves, let us first see how we forgive other people.
This Karmic account is my illness right now.
No I don't want to sit and cry about this illness.
I don't even need to look for reasons for this illness.
I only and only need to go in the direction of healing.
And my healing can happen only with this
I need to change my present Karma from here - from my mind.
We will consciously sit and do it every day.
When we want help we exercise every day is it not?
Every day we take medicines.
Every day we check our diet.
Likewise we will change our thought every day.
A patient who has blood pressure variations will have to take medicines all his life.
We need to do it every day.
When we do it daily
The first benefit that is noticeable is that we will become lighter.
Experiencing that lightness will imply
The Karmic account is getting settled.
Thank you so much, Sister.
Om Shanti.
Om Shanti.
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